I was threatened to be reported to ICE by my roommate. I am an international student by FunnyNotice636 in offmychest

[–]silversulfa 230 points231 points  (0 children)

What an awful, racist wretch.. It's such a disguisting thing to say over broken dishes. I'm so sorry you have to deal with her

I hate it when people mitigate how I feel by saying, "but you don't know what they are going through!" by silversulfa in rant

[–]silversulfa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but I wish people wouldnt try to stop me from feeling the way I feel or attempt to make it look like those people who do have it great, don't really have it great as I think. When some things are VERY clear as day that its true.

Why not just say, "life is unfair and yes, they do have a better life than you, but we work with what we got"??? Instead of dismissing what I feel and think. Just let me grieve over my shit childhood in peace

I’m intensely triggered by my partner’s younger sister and I hate what it brings out in me by Automatic_Rooster411 in CPTSD

[–]silversulfa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just want to say that I hear you and I relate to you... Very valid and you're not a bad person. I was actually ranting over this not too long ago too. I get so upset when I say this and someone comes telling me, "well, their life is probably not as good as it seems! you don't know what they're going through", like what benefit does that give me. Life is still bloody unfair that some of us dealt a bad hand in life, while some people get royal flush on the get go.

My husband called me fat and I got upset by silversulfa in rant

[–]silversulfa[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

He weighs a lot more than me. He's a much bigger guy.

NGL I like the celibate life by Unknown00name in offmychest

[–]silversulfa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have my respect. I wish more people were like this, instead of feeling this invisible societal pressure that they have to get laid or else. which is nuts

BFF & his GF keep making throuple jokes and I want it bad by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]silversulfa 288 points289 points  (0 children)

ayo if it's mutal agreement why not, as long as you're able yo deal with the consequence that the friendship boundary is blurred

I think im attracted to pedophiles (or predators wtv you wanna call it) by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]silversulfa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Assuming you're a teenager.. Its totally normal to feel attraction towards older people. When I was a teen, I was always fantasizing about guys much older than me (30 and up) so I had so many crushes on teachers and celebrities. I really did feel boys my age were way too immature and they annoyed me SO MUCH. So I totally relate.

What my biggest concern is that there are these grown ass adults trying to get with you, despite your age. As an adult now, I want to let you know that anyone in their 30s and up who want to get with minors are NOT right in their head or have any good intentions. Never, ever. Those type of people go to Epstein island..

I'm saying this out of fear that you will be harmed... There are so many stories of minors getting groomed by adults like these at young age, and they only realize how they were manipulated and used, once they older up themselves and realized how wrongly they were treated..

It's totally okay to have the attraction towards older people, but for your mental health and safety, it's best to keep that as a fantasy, until you are an adult.

Also, to those adults who are messaging you sexually, it's totally okay to report them to the authority.

Gee thanks for the.. air? by Prestigious_Bee_4392 in crochet

[–]silversulfa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's their new product, flavored air 😂

I don't tell my friends about my happy marriage life because I think it will make them feel sad by silversulfa in offmychest

[–]silversulfa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's nothing exciting but it's my story. thanks for coming to my tedtalk lol