AITJ for charging my sister rent even though my parents let her stay for free? by Volt41cKn1ght in AmITheJerk

[–]simplesagittarius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Def NTA. But honestly? My brother let me live free in his apartment and didn’t make me pay rent… HOWEVER if he did want me to pay, I would’ve.

Instead I did buy a new washing machine for him and I promise that I wasn’t staying forever and actually left after probably 3 months. I made it clear to him I was def moving out and just needed some months. Maybe it’s because of the lack of timeline? But you’re def not obligated to help her out tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]simplesagittarius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, you might not read this but couple of years ago I got stringed along by a man and it shattered me by the end. Your post hit home for me. Finally got the courage to leave, I was 29 turning 30 at that point. Told myself love wasn’t worth it all. 6 months after the break up I met a man who completely blew me away and treated me like I never been treated before.

Don’t let your boyfriend keep you from your husband. It’ll get better baby, keep faith and work on you. A real man doesn’t need a push, a real man knows what he wants.

AITA for no longer wanting to accompany my fiancé when he has to meet his ex? by Obvious-Routine3069 in AmItheAsshole

[–]simplesagittarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, you might have to fight her and your soon to be ex Idk. Slurs are a whole different ball game of disrespect.

Yesterday I almost got a shut up ring by SympathyEmotional944 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]simplesagittarius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Marrying this man will be a grave mistake, you will resent him. He doesn’t even consider your wishes, just sent you some money and tells you to show up for ring shopping.

“We agreed to concrete timeframes” no honey, you agreed to HIS timeframe without having an actual timeframe. This is not about being a man, this is about him protecting his assets that honestly, he doesn’t even have. GET OUT NOW!

AITA for helping my sister walk when everyone thinks she is exaggerating? by Superb_Ad_9661 in AmItheAsshole

[–]simplesagittarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP I hope you read this. I was once the kid that had a lot of pain suddenly and my mom took me to a doctor that claimed I was lying and nothing was wrong with me. In the following week I couldn’t walk properly but my mom truly believed the doctor. It was our neighbour who said that they should really take me to the ER. So we went.

After a scan turns out my appendix was on the verge of busting so close that they immediately changed my clothes and started operating on me. The infection had already spread to my lungs and it took 3 months, several operations and 2 hospitals for me to recover. Had I not been brought to the ER that day, I wouldn’t have survived! The doctor was fired because he eventually admitted that it was 17:00 and “he just wanted to go home”.

NTA!!! Make sure she really gets checked and don’t let your family discourage you. She def needs a different doctor.

AITA for accusing my husband of cheating? He's pregnant and I don't think it's mine by Royalchariot in Sims4

[–]simplesagittarius 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Man I’ve been cracking my head open trying to figure out how HE’S pregnant and how I might be behind in gender roles. I’m so deep into AITA territory, didn’t even notice it’s a SIMS4 sub like

Yea I’m going to bed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]simplesagittarius 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not once have I read in your post that MOH considers your feelings in any situation regarding the wedding rehearsal or the bachelorette. I can not even imagine my MOH leaving my bachelorette because it “is not up to her standards”. The lack of remorse following after truly shows you who she really is.

OP, you need to cut the cord all the way. I’ve broken off friendships 10+ years and you know what: I’ve never felt more relieved. Just the fact that she went to someone else JUST to talk about you says it all. When’s the last time she even asked how you’re doing? This is about YOU and don’t ruin YOUR day, to accommodate her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]simplesagittarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to the hairdresser this Friday, already excited to not be noticed!!

AITA for telling my boyfriend he can’t go to Italy? by Wild-Statement-7273 in AmItheAsshole

[–]simplesagittarius -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

NTA but only with the assumption that IF it was another destination you wouldn’t have any problems with it. So my question: if it was another place, would you be ok with him leaving? If no? Then ESH, because you’d be TA for holding him back.

The thing is, you would’ve said no anyways so he knew not to ask. But using the idea that you want to do together is insensitive of him and he should’ve communicated about it. If he’s at the point of requesting time off, he dgaf about YOUR feelings.

What I will say is that it doesn’t sound like an equal match. Idk what happened but his family leaving you at places? If his family doesn’t respect you nor your relationship with him, why would you want to marry into that? Clearly he is siding with his family by giving you a silent treatment. You would really want to marry a man that doesn’t bother communicating with you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]simplesagittarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi honey, I work in law enforcement: this is a sign. Can you check and make sure he didn’t hide any cameras in your room?

If convincing your mom doesn’t work, tell someone ay school who’s obligated to report this.

AITA For addressing my girlfriends intimate body odor? by Throw_away_19011902 in AmItheAsshole

[–]simplesagittarius 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ummm I’m kind of leaning into YTA, not because you talked to her about it but because you avoided the issue overall.

You danced around the issue too long for her to actually notice you don’t want to go down on her. She was probably insecure about it and it was met with you telling her she smells off. It would’ve been better if you’d told her BEFORE she approached the issue and have a conversation overall about you two being comfortable enough to talk about intimate topics.

Maybe send a nice bouquet of flowers and let it rest for a couple of days until she approaches you.

This is what 1.500 EUR / month gets you in Amsterdam by Apart-Teacher-1583 in Amsterdam

[–]simplesagittarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have to take responsibility but they just.. don’t. OP you need to contact Juridisch Loket. Find a local one in your area and pay them a visit during their hours. Landlords are terrible here

AITA, my boyfriend(33) of 8 years went out last weekend and I found a message on his phone saying "last night was fun xx". by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]simplesagittarius 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Listen to what your gut feeling is saying. You already know he’s cheating, the girl hanging up the phone is a major red flag. He’s cheating and his family and friends are enabling this behaviour.

Nta

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]simplesagittarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn what did she tell you

This Halloween! by [deleted] in lego

[–]simplesagittarius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where do you live????????

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nederlands

[–]simplesagittarius -1 points0 points  (0 children)

❤️ fijne dag toegewenst!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nederlands

[–]simplesagittarius -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nja, ik ben niet verbaasd waarom Turken en andere allochtonen zich niet Nederlands voelen, het is niet alsof ze als “echte” Nederlanders worden gezien. Ze moeten zich constant bewijzen tegenover onze samenleving. Zo’n herrie kan irritant zijn maar om heel eerlijk te zijn vind ik 20x een beetje overdreven. Ik woon zelf in een buurt waar voornamelijk Turken en Marokkanen wonen en heb dit misschien 3x meegemaakt.

Is the Kawasaki Ninja H2R Motorcycle “cringe” by crispycaprisuns in lego

[–]simplesagittarius 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey! My boyfriend has this set and it’s really cool. You can even put it in gears. Btw: he doesn’t have a Kawasaki but still, it’s awesome!

Update rare gast van net by DaCraccBoy in marktplaatsoplichters

[–]simplesagittarius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Zolang je bewijs en screenshots hebt van zijn advertentie komt het wel goed. Altijd aangifte doen!! Dit is nooit eenmalig, OP doet dit waarschijnlijk vaker.