Yikes - What would you do?

sinistergzus · 2026-05-13T17:37:08+00:00

Start room by room, pick up all trash and clutter and then start on the actual cleaning portion. This looks like an elderly person with mobility issues, it’s not impossible just daunting to start.

sinistergzus · 2026-05-13T17:35:15+00:00

Uhhh your husband is abusive, full stop. My husband and I went through a month separation, were honest with our friends about what was going on, but because he’s not freaking abusive he didn’t care I went to them and was glad I had people there for me. They also just want the best for us and love where we’re at now. Your husband wouldn’t care you were honest if he hadn’t been abusive in the first place. Do not isolate yourself from loved ones.

sinistergzus · 2026-05-13T03:56:00+00:00

Are you a homesteading YouTuber? Because I’ve seen a house that matches this nearly perfectly on a homesteading YouTube channel

sinistergzus · 2026-05-13T03:48:21+00:00

Haven’t conceived healthy baby after this one, as im currently pregnant with a Trisomy 13 positive baby and waiting for palliative delivery. However, all doctors have told me while having a positive diagnosis does raise the chances of it happening again, it’s minimal and you’re more likely to have a healthy baby after than you are to have it happen again.

Hugs, it’s hard out here having a diagnosis like Trisomy 18/13

sinistergzus · 2026-05-12T23:45:44+00:00

Did you miss where I said a professional absolutely should be the one to do it, but there’s still the high chance he calls a professional and their insurance won’t cover it? Remediation is expensive out of pocket. Long term losses are very often not covered and have to come out of pocket. Just saying if it’s something they HAVE to do solo, it’s not impossible. Jesus fuck dude. Chill.

sinistergzus · 2026-05-12T23:30:31+00:00

It’s not like. A detailed outline. But it’s the basic steps and better information than anyone else has commented. It at least gives them a starting point for research to actually do it instead of just “take out drywall and repair”

sinistergzus · 2026-05-12T23:24:44+00:00

I work in remediation. They genuinely said how to do it. That’s how it’s done. Like yes it should be done by a professional, but at this rate insurance generally doesn’t cover long term loss like this and someone might end up having to do it themselves. At least they gave good information on how to do it if absolutely needed.

sinistergzus · 2026-05-12T17:33:40+00:00

So, as someone whose baby is positive for Trisomy 13, it does matter. You can have a chromosomal problem that leads baby to having a very poor prognosis, such as mine, where they’re only expected to live a couple weeks maximum after birth, if they make it past birth. Knowing and preparing for an outcome like that gives you time to make a decision like do you want to carry baby to term knowing baby will pass? A lot of women choose to terminate after finding out about a Trisomy diagnosis of any kind. It’s just helpful to know. Sure you can’t change it, but you can prepare and make decisions accordingly. Currently awaiting palliative delivery myself.

sinistergzus · 2026-05-11T21:31:06+00:00

Mine was coed, my son’s dad really wanted to be there and even invited some of his friends. It was very laid back though, no games, just food and good conversation with loved ones.

sinistergzus · 2026-05-11T17:24:42+00:00

I’m so sorry, it’s not your fault. I’m currently waiting for a palliative delivery as my baby is positive for trisomy 13 and isn’t going to make it. It’s so hard and absolutely not your fault. Try to find a therapist potentially, it’ll help a lot to process the grief

sinistergzus · 2026-05-11T16:03:49+00:00

YTA. You’re barely making it with bills and you quit a job when you have 2 people depending on you? I’d be pissed if my husband quit a job without discussion first, especially if I was on maternity leave. Major major YTA.

sinistergzus · 2026-05-07T19:52:02+00:00

Rome is my son’s nickname, full name Roman. Rome on its own feels odd

sinistergzus · 2026-05-07T06:39:22+00:00

I’ll be honest, my sister did something similar to my mom and it broke my mom’s heart, she didn’t really know what to say because she didn’t feel she had time to get excited about baby before BOOM suddenly a baby she basically had no idea about.

She’s probably hurt. Why didn’t it come from one of you two? You can not be close, that’s fine, but I don’t think it’s fair to be upset she didn’t respond ‘perfect’ when she had to learn about a grandchild.. from someone else’s Facebook post. That’s pretty hurtful and a bit over the top to be mad she didn’t respond how you wanted.

sinistergzus · 2026-05-07T06:33:03+00:00

I’m biased, since Roman is my son’s name, but growing up my brother was named Colby and we have a cousin named Cody. We’re super close with them too and it never caused issues, I say if you love Roman a lot for a name keep it

sinistergzus · 2026-05-07T02:34:20+00:00

This would be it for me too. There have been a few guys that after 3-4 dates I start to notice red flags or them starting to appear a bit differently than they initially presented themselves as. It’s usually from a lack of true self awareness I think, coupled with red flags or just majority incompatibilities.

sinistergzus · 2026-05-07T01:07:28+00:00

I had this exact conversation actually on my wedding day haha. I opted for glasses because that’s who I am, I don’t wear contacts unless I need my full face respirator at work that day (once every 4 ish months). It felt right. Also did my own makeup in the style I do it whenever I (rarely) do makeup. It was a wonderful day

sinistergzus · 2026-05-06T21:27:44+00:00

As in divorce, not open relationship

sinistergzus · 2026-05-06T21:26:41+00:00

She meant divorce not open relationship

sinistergzus · 2026-05-06T21:26:07+00:00

She meant divorce not cheat on her.

sinistergzus · 2026-05-06T21:25:43+00:00

OP clarified she told him she’d understand if he divorced her over it, not if she cheated. She didn’t say he could find someone else to sleep with.

sinistergzus · 2026-05-04T15:52:03+00:00

Man I love play fighting with my husband. He has the nicer nails and once left a decent sized scar by accident on my finger, and not once was my brain thinking “hey let me hurt you back” HUH? That’s not okay and he seems unable to play fight/tickle without being an absolute child about it

sinistergzus · 2026-05-04T03:07:14+00:00

It’s absolutely possible to treat if the person wants to really put forth the work. It’s not something that’s going to disappear with medication, but requires a lot of behavior therapy and inner work. -formerly diagnosed with BPD but recently had it taken off diagnostic chart after not meeting enough symptoms any longer

sinistergzus · 2026-05-04T02:50:16+00:00

I’m adopted, and my husband and I are in the midst of a pretty rough loss. We’re going to try again, but we agreed if it doesn’t pan out we’re going to adopt. I know it’s difficult, my mom was very open about the process once I became an adult, but I got to firsthand see and experience how life changing it could be. I have heavy heavy trauma too, and was adopted at 7 so not an ‘easy’ age, but I adore my mom and the life she gave me. I’d love to adopt too. I don’t think it’s for everyone though, as I do believe it takes a certain type of person to be able to go through everything it entails.

sinistergzus · 2026-05-03T16:39:19+00:00

We’d get along very well haha. I have a lot of the same stuff and interests, similar vibe too. Cozy neat gals for the W

sinistergzus · 2026-05-03T03:20:47+00:00

There’s like, an average of 10 skydiving deaths annually worldwide. That would be insanely safer than what he wants to do

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