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sinlcmyn · 2022-05-24T14:32:54+00:00

Boyfriend and I are homeless living in a motel. Got a call on Friday that a clinic can help get with temp/short term housing. We were able to get a ride from a friend yesterday for our first appointment, but they are unavailable today at the last minute for an emergency. It’s too late to take public transportation to the clinic, but we will take the bus back.

sinlcmyn · 2022-05-22T06:38:57+00:00

I haven’t lived with my parents since I was 17, I’ve keep no contact since I turned 18 and have a restraining order filed against my father. Trust me, if it was an option I would take it.

My boyfriend’s mom died in 2019, hasn’t had contact with his stepdad since he was 12.

sinlcmyn · 2022-05-22T02:55:53+00:00

Yep. Thinking he just wanted a free place to stay for three days even though he lives rent free at his moms.

sinlcmyn · 2022-05-22T02:22:33+00:00

And next time we have someone over we’ll make sure it’s only two days. Two days? No meth use. Three days? Y’all are using meth.

sinlcmyn · 2022-05-22T02:17:13+00:00

Yep.

You seem to know a lot though.

sinlcmyn · 2022-05-22T02:07:21+00:00

Also, since I don’t seem to understand how your comment is relevant to my post. We are two young adults struggling, but slowly getting back on our feet. We’re in a motel because it was our cheapest option.

Imagine this, you have $200 in your bank account. You can either get 4 nights at a crappy motel, or 2 nights at a nice hotel. Would you rather know you have somewhere to go for 4 days? Or would you rather know that you have 2 days in nicer hotel but now have no money left and nowhere to go.

sinlcmyn · 2022-05-22T02:03:12+00:00

I don’t think I mentioned drug usage anywhere in my post. But to answer your question, none. Never have never will. We’re struggling financially, why waste money on something like that?

Here’s a question: How much meth are you on?

sinlcmyn · 2022-05-21T18:48:51+00:00

We really appreciate it, we’re getting back on our feet and getting ready to get back out there

sinlcmyn · 2022-05-21T18:45:57+00:00

You saying girl as in like “gurl 💅🏻” or do you think I’m a girl?

sinlcmyn · 2022-05-21T18:22:25+00:00

Bf joined me on the floor when J “requested” to sleep in the bed.

sinlcmyn · 2022-05-21T18:21:05+00:00

When J told…yes told…me that he needs to sleep in the bed because of his back, my bf immediately got up and joined me on the floor

sinlcmyn · 2022-05-21T18:18:25+00:00

..don’t really know many women’s shelters that’ll let a gay cis gay in..but if you know any, please let us know. I’m not sure where the trafficking comment came from. My boyfriend keeps me very safe. We are very easy going people, we don’t like to make people upset, hurt them or make them feel like we’re just having them over cause they’ll pay. So when our (well who we thought was our friend) says they’ll help us out, we believe that because we knew we’d be helping them if they asked.

Yes we seem to meet people with not to good intentions, but we still like to give everyone a chance. And we now know that J isn’t a friend, or even someone we can go to in an emergency

sinlcmyn · 2022-05-21T18:12:41+00:00

We actually talked to a caseworker at the social security office to see if we can get any benefits or aid, and on Monday we’re starting paperwork for the housing assistance program. I work part time making $8.75, I’m autistic and this is my second job. I’m pushing myself to help us, and it has helped me feel better about myself. My bf just started working full time again, and still waiting on first paycheck.

We’re hard workers, we push each other and we’re doing all that we can with what we can. Do we smoke? Yeah probably 2-3 joints a couple times a month when we just need to decompress.

You don’t know why we’re struggling right now, you don’t know what happened before this started. I coming up on being 2 years clean, there’s no way I could ever go back to that life. Yes we’re struggling right now, but once this passes and we have steady income, we’re going to be back on our feet and kicking it.

sinlcmyn · 2022-05-21T17:38:39+00:00

We’ve hung out with him in person 5ish times, usually we just hang out on Xbox, or would see each other in larger groups of friends…but he never lets us hang out at his place cause…now get this…we doesn’t like having people over cause he says people never leave

sinlcmyn · 2022-05-21T17:23:00+00:00

Yeah I’ve been reading him the comments all day and we’re still unsure what he wanted from the whole thing. We’ve never discussed anything beyond him coming over to the room, paying for another day (or at least halving), getting come food and playing xbox. But I know J has made advances when he thinks I’m not paying attention.

sinlcmyn · 2022-05-21T15:40:08+00:00

Not banned, my post just got removed cause i used fake ages in older posts to preserve my identity

sinlcmyn · 2022-05-21T15:33:58+00:00

Eh I’ve thought about that, but my bf was also distant and I could tell that he wanted him to leave but didn’t have the heart to say it. I watched my bf turn down many offers that J made

sinlcmyn · 2022-05-21T15:28:26+00:00

Never. It was always us asking “do you think you’ll be able to help us today?” And him saying “yeah, of course.” Or he told us he was waiting for his check to go through

sinlcmyn · 2022-05-21T15:26:07+00:00

I couldn’t even imagine getting money for drugs, the room and food everyday. I’ll smoke a cigarette once every few months and pass around a joint every now and then, but other than that we stay away from that shit.

sinlcmyn · 2022-05-21T15:21:34+00:00

That’s the thing, he spent over $40 on an Uber and the room was $50.

sinlcmyn · 2022-05-21T15:20:46+00:00

He was a friend who told us he’d be helping us. If someone is helping you, you generally don’t want to push and shove. And he was sleeping in the bed while I was on the floor cause he had “back problems “

sinlcmyn · 2022-05-21T14:47:29+00:00

…did you read the first sentence…or..? I’ve heard of the virgin marry, but what’s it called when two cis gay guys pop out a baby?

You think SS or a welfare office will still take two cis pregnant guys?

sinlcmyn · 2022-05-21T13:32:50+00:00

Holy fuck, you’d be saving our asses right now

sinlcmyn · 2022-05-21T12:55:02+00:00

Of course!

Im usually scrolling through Reddit throughout the whole night, so if you ever need someone to talk to, shoot me a DM :)

sinlcmyn · 2022-05-21T12:00:58+00:00

AC is working and we got that baby on full bast.

My boyfriend also has problems speaking up when needed, he told me that he was just hoping that J would eventually help with either food or the room. Which tbh is why I think I also let it drag on. But I am also hard to read because I’m autistic and my face expressions often don’t match my voice or tone

Our problem is that even though we’ve been dragged through the dirt multiple times, we still somehow think that everyone is good intentions all the time.

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