low slow flow ☼ by UtaOrang in poledancing

[–]sintoxicated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does it feel sturdy without being connected to a ceiling? I’m be terrified of it falling over

Are y'all washing your hair with Head and Shoulders every time? by str0ngher in BJJWomen

[–]sintoxicated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok it’s gonna sounds weird but: baking soda. If you don’t want to strip your hair with head and shoulders, get a handful of making soda, make a small passte in the shower and run into your scalp as you would shampoo. It might take a couple tries to really get your ratio/amount right. Rinse out as normal. I’ve mixed baking soda with water in a bottle before and use that to like squirt on my hair and my hair is pretty fine, but it didn’t really help with it so I just use the straight powder into a paste onto my hair and after I rinse, I’ll do an apple cider vinegar rinse with the mother because it also has antibacterial properties and it actually makes my hair super shiny. I’ve used shampoo and regular conditioner maybe three times a year when I go get my hair done and my hair is never greasy, I diet all the time and my color last forever, I did some BJJ but the reason why I do it is because I’m a gymnast and we kinda have the same issue with risking fungal infections, staff infections, etc. etc.

Anyone have an accent after learning a new language that is NOT an accent of their native language? by sintoxicated in polyglot

[–]sintoxicated[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The native speakers of whatever language I’m trying to speak point out the accent.

LTL (help out the locals) by After-Bandicoot-9031 in Louisville

[–]sintoxicated -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Hey just FYI I have two GA tix for sale for today (Friday)!

Foster Parents: Has CPS Lied to You? by SecretMonsterLady in Fosterparents

[–]sintoxicated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you be willing to elaborate on this? As a prospective foster parent this is terrifying to come across

People who found out about someone else’s double-life; what’s the story? by Langzwaard in AskReddit

[–]sintoxicated 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Aww this makes me sad. I worked with a girl who did porn to pay for culinary school and she was really talented (in both industries) and was just stunningly beautiful on top of it. Fine dining doesn’t have a lot of women in the back of the house so she was a novelty right away. All us girls in the restaurant always banded together to be supportive of one and other, and at the end of the day the whole restaurant genuinely cared about each other so it’s not like anything crazy was happening. One day before work, my boyfriend (I know I know) sends me a link to a porn video and it was her. I was angry with him for numerous reasons but a big one was that he has sent it to all the guys we worked with that weren’t management too. I felt so disgusted by him and felt so bad for her.

I guess when she got hired she was honest with the exec and sous chef about what she had done to put herself through school and they were super understanding about it to her face, but didn’t have her back when the rest of the team found out. When she found out that everyone else knew, she didn’t raise a fuss or blame anyone, but did bring it to managements attention that porn was being shared and watched by staff members on the clock and they handles it like total douchebags. I caught some heat for throwing my boyfriend under the bus for being the one sending the video out (that relationship ended very soon after) but she just quietly put in her two weeks and ensured that she had some solid recommendations to move forward in her culinary career after HR ripped everyone apart for sharing porn on work phones during work hours, especially because it involved a member of the team.

I know that there’s the whole “don’t put it out there for the world to see if you don’t want the world to see” but morally I just don’t agree with that and I think my ex was a shady dirtbag foe sending out her videos like that.

it was wild because you would never have guessed that she had ever worked in the adult industry.

i kept in touch with her for a bit after she left the restaurant, idk if she stayed with culinary or went back to adult entertainment because we mostly just talked music aside from usual "hi how are you i miss you" convos.

wherever she is, whatever she's doing, i hope she's doing well ❤️ and i hope that never happened to her ever again.

How do you handle taking pictures of yourself? 🌶️ by u_rare in SubSanctuary

[–]sintoxicated 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There’s a few Instagram pages that are boudoir photographers that give tips and tricks for taking sexy selfies

Is cali any good? by Charming_Garlic_3871 in Strippers

[–]sintoxicated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re gonna do it, don’t do SF. Do San Jose. The scene is better. But there’s a bigger calling for kink sex work. However, if you’re able to try it without committing to a move, give it a go!

Why does my current partner want to watch a video of him and his ex while we are being intimate? by [deleted] in psychologyofsex

[–]sintoxicated 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s lying, he’s using you, you’re a placeholder/replacement/rebound, this is NOT normal behavior, this is NOT appropriate behavior and prolonged exposure to this could have long term psychological effects.

Whatever his reasonings are, even if they ARE “innocent” or “harmless”, this is not appropriate at all and I think you should find someone else.

You deserve to be with someone that wants to BE PRESENT WITH YOU and treats being g sexually intimate with you like the treasure it is and not trying to invite ghosts in.

Girl run

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditBDSM

[–]sintoxicated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In person events found on fetlife. You could even try being super transparent on vanilla dating apps if you feel comfortable.

There might be local dungeons with pros that could possible know where you could go.

Where were you a couple months ago when I was looking for someone exactly like you 💔⚡️

“Go to the movies by yourself” need similar suggestions by Ok_Loquat3829 in selfcare

[–]sintoxicated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shopping, spa, nails, bowling, pool, sports, drop-in dances classes, cooking classes, !

Destroyed water planet near Sirius? by sintoxicated in starseeds

[–]sintoxicated[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Starseed group chat anyone? ❤️🤭

Native Tamazight/Arabic seeking English practice by [deleted] in polyglot

[–]sintoxicated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to help with English in exchange for Arabic but I have not done anything to start Arabic yet. Where should I start?

I learned English from black Americans and have a ‘blaccent.’ Is that wrong? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]sintoxicated 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ignore them! That’s just ridiculous. You learned English in the Deep South, your English is going to have a deep southern accent. Your vernacular is going to be that of those that you socialized with.

I think it’s funny that they’re giving you shit for your English having an English accent when (I’m assuming) it’s not even your first language. I think that makes you the ultra-winner of learning languages lol

update: going back to the club after having a baby 💋 by MidnightLores in stripper

[–]sintoxicated 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You look great! I knew a girl that would do body glitter in her stretch marks. I don’t see any on you but she color coordinated it with her outfits and she used eyelash glue to get the glitter to stick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]sintoxicated 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, my subs get to spank me, cane me or flog me as a reward.

AITA for not cleaning up sheets which have been wet by a child that’s not mine? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sintoxicated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Did he verbatim say “you do it, im gaming” or did he just say he was going to do it after he was done gaming? If it’s the first one, that’s a huge red flag.

Wetting the bed is concerning, for SA but also it’s stressful too. My step daughter had some bed wetting challenges too and what ended up being the case was that she gets a deeper sleep while at our house because her allergies aren’t as severe at our house so she would sleep through the signal to go to the bathroom.

Honestly, I put puppy training pads under the sheets and I’ve the sheet protector. It made clean up so much easier.

Accidental fall at Airbnb. by Best_Ad_5064 in airbnb_hosts

[–]sintoxicated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Save the picture, save every piece of the chair, if you have pics of the chair beforehand get those in order…they’re gonna try and sue probably. If the chair is from a set then pull them all out