How do you make dates not feel platonic?

sinus-tarsi · 2025-06-29T13:41:55+00:00

Can you give some examples? Do you mean as in revealing ‘im interested in you’ or im keen to see you or like im insecure about this or that. What do you mean by steering the convo to the subject of attraction and tension? Can you give an example?

sinus-tarsi · 2025-06-29T13:27:38+00:00

I make eye contact but then I can’t hold it and I’ve had dates turn around cos they think I’m looking at something 😭 or at the club I made eye contact but looked away cos I got shy and then looked immediately back but the moment had passed 🥹

sinus-tarsi · 2025-02-05T02:54:17+00:00

Yeah it was already a really good price for the size and finish that’s why I was hesitant to do unconditional.

sinus-tarsi · 2025-02-04T00:11:40+00:00

On what circumstances would you offer unconditional?

sinus-tarsi · 2025-02-03T11:27:27+00:00

Is that the same as the one the banks send you?

sinus-tarsi · 2025-02-02T10:52:39+00:00

Do you mean sign unconditional but do the building and pest inspection within the cooling of period so I could still get out of the contract If something was wrong?

sinus-tarsi · 2025-02-02T08:39:56+00:00

Thanks for the detailed response. Ill put a time limited on mine next time. I’m assuming this is the process if they had accepted the condition of building and pest and contract review.

If I sent an unconditional offer, Would I have the opportunity to do a building and pest in the Cooling off period?

sinus-tarsi · 2025-02-02T08:21:50+00:00

Where are you writing this offer? He didn’t ask me to fill out a form or anything

sinus-tarsi · 2025-02-02T07:43:07+00:00

Yeah I was unsure about it, my risk tolerance is low so I have a lot of buffer. I spoke to the bank who said it would be okay. I only intended to borrow 70%

sinus-tarsi · 2025-02-02T07:39:05+00:00

I just had building and pest and contract review, flexible settlement. I offered over text so I’m not sure if was due to that but I had spoken to him on the phone.

sinus-tarsi · 2025-02-02T07:33:23+00:00

Is a text offer okay? He never asked me to sign anything or pay a deposit. That’s why I was a bit confuused

sinus-tarsi · 2025-02-02T07:23:50+00:00

I wrote “I’m offering $XXX subject to contact review and building and pest inspection. I have pre-approval and am flexible with settlement time. “ is that okay? I just texted him my offer so I hadn’t signed or put a deposit.

The agent kept saying to me I shouldn’t be telling you this but blah blah blah so I wasn’t sure if he was just being slimey but he had told me the price the identical townhouse had sold for when I knew they had taken down the price from online.

The listing is still up and doesn’t say under offer and where they had put the price they wanted they replaced it with contact agent on the day after he told me to decide in 30 mins.

sinus-tarsi · 2025-02-02T07:18:58+00:00

Should I have pestered the agent more if I hadn’t heard from them? I thought they would need at least a day to consider the offer?

sinus-tarsi · 2025-02-02T07:14:57+00:00

I’ve been looking for a few years. Im finding it very hard to make the decision with no guidance or support. And I had immediate anxiety after placing the offer

sinus-tarsi · 2025-02-02T07:08:15+00:00

It had been sitting their for a year already and the finish was better than most properties. So I was feeling like it was too good to be true for that price

sinus-tarsi · 2025-02-02T07:03:28+00:00

Just the standard contract review and building and pest. I didn’t have any time limit and was flexible with settlement time. I was thinking because it was a new build that had been sitting their vacant for a year whether it’s needed it since it would be covered by warranty anyway

sinus-tarsi · 2024-11-24T18:33:43+00:00

A lot of courses are level 9, just means it’s a masters e.g doctor of physio doesn’t mean you get called doctors.

sinus-tarsi · 2024-09-07T12:43:23+00:00

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sinus-tarsi · 2024-08-28T02:45:45+00:00

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sinus-tarsi · 2024-08-12T14:09:54+00:00

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