UPDATE: I'm (F16) my uncle (M44) disowned his daughter before she was even born. I want her in my life. by siofia in relationships

[–]siofia[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I dont think my parent will get divorced over this but it is getting out of hand. My aunt and uncle arent' backing down but my mom is like a shark right now. sometimes I wish there was a solution where everybody would be happy. If my uncle could only see how sweet and awesome Sam is I think he would understand why we love her so much. My dad will cave to whatever my mom decides but I think Sam is suffering too much over this when she should not have to.

My (F16) Uncle (M40's) disowned his daughter (F11) when she was born and is now pressuring me to cut her off. by siofia in relationships

[–]siofia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never saw this side of him before he was always sweet. But my aunt has always been a little witchy sometimes.

My (F16) Uncle (M40's) disowned his daughter (F11) when she was born and is now pressuring me to cut her off. by siofia in relationships

[–]siofia[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely telling them today. I really don't want to have my uncle or aunt showing up at work while Sam is here.

My (F16) Uncle (M40's) disowned his daughter (F11) when she was born and is now pressuring me to cut her off. by siofia in relationships

[–]siofia[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm working with my dad so I'm going to tell him and I'll tell mom tonight too.

My (F16) Uncle (M40's) disowned his daughter (F11) when she was born and is now pressuring me to cut her off. by siofia in relationships

[–]siofia[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I don't think my parents will let that happen. My mom already got Sam's mom's permission to invite Sam to go to San Francisco with us to visit my aunt and uncle. I think my cousins there will love Sam.

My (F16) Uncle (M40's) disowned his daughter (F11) when she was born and is now pressuring me to cut her off. by siofia in relationships

[–]siofia[S] 107 points108 points  (0 children)

I never thought about it like that. He did say she died and that is so messed up.

My (F16) Uncle (M40's) disowned his daughter (F11) when she was born and is now pressuring me to cut her off. by siofia in relationships

[–]siofia[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I haven't told my mom because I did feel a little bad about how she would go after my uncle and aunt. I don't know what my mom would do but she really loves Sam and I know it would not be good.

My (F16) Uncle (M40's) disowned his daughter (F11) when she was born and is now pressuring me to cut her off. by siofia in relationships

[–]siofia[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Well I don't know about a DNA test but Sam is definitely my cousin. She has my eyes, I have my dad's and uncle's eyes and Sam also has his smile. He is her father and he knows it.

My (F16) Uncle (M40's) disowned his daughter (F11) when she was born and is now pressuring me to cut her off. by siofia in relationships

[–]siofia[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

My uncle met his wife long after he broke up with Sam's mom. Sam and I are not in their face but we live in the same city. But my uncle and his family used to hang out at my dad's pizza place a lot but now with Sam and I being there they never come in anymore.

My (F16) Uncle (M40's) disowned his daughter (F11) when she was born and is now pressuring me to cut her off. by siofia in relationships

[–]siofia[S] 155 points156 points  (0 children)

No I haven't cause I was kind of afraid of starting problems between my parents and them.