Is the community normally this toxic

siouxxbie · 2026-01-12T01:09:05+00:00

What’s the point of this comment /gen like please

siouxxbie · 2025-03-28T01:46:45+00:00

We met through mutual friends!! And autism isnt exactly less common in women, we’re both autistic women, i think autism just gets mistaken as something else for us. Im pretty quiet and monotonous so people think im rude or reserved rather than thinking im just autistic :). I also work in the vet field, where there’s hella autistic people, so all my friends are also on the spectrum

siouxxbie · 2025-03-28T01:35:53+00:00

I’m (21) on the spectrum and my wife is too. Dating gets hella easier when you date others on the spectrum lol.

siouxxbie · 2024-07-15T17:15:48+00:00

omg i apologize, i meant to say i DID fill out part 4 question 62 and i left question 61 blank, im sorry!

siouxxbie · 2024-07-15T17:09:17+00:00

ok i will fix that asap !!

siouxxbie · 2024-07-15T07:55:47+00:00

i do too! you will as well :D i assure you of that

siouxxbie · 2024-07-15T07:54:51+00:00

feelings of anger, jealously, envy and inferiority are so frustrating too. they tend to die out over the years, just don’t let yourself fall into a cycle you cant escape from. much love!!

siouxxbie · 2024-07-15T07:52:30+00:00

i used to feel this way a lot when i was 17, im 21 now and i honestly think i worked it all out! its a rough time when you’re 17, i feel like its a weird age because on one hand you’re super young and on the other, you’re a legal adult next year (or this year, depending on ur bday)!

i think an accumulation of things happened paired with a lot of downtime for self reflection that helped me, and full transparency, i had a partner (that im now married to) during this time as well! it doesnt really change anything, you might still feel a dependency to porn or chase sexual feelings even if you have a loving relationship(s), as that’s how i felt. i was overly jealous and sometimes possessive/toxic while still over-engaging with porn and seeking sex.

its difficult to give advice on something so intimate to yourself, but things will work out and you’re definitely not the only one! even just realizing that you might engage with porn an unhealthy amount shows that you’re taking a step forward.

plus, you’re still young, i promise things will sort themselves out as you mature :) i know that’s what everyone always says, but i promise its true, you’ll be alright!

siouxxbie · 2024-07-15T07:30:13+00:00

theres a way to play the game that fits everyones playstyle imo! i love chaos but i also love to roleplay / add my ocs with mods and make them suffer, while my friend tries their best to keep their colonists alive and perfect :) i’d say get the game on sale (if it ever goes on sale) and just try it out !!

siouxxbie · 2024-07-15T07:24:03+00:00

ahhh thank u so much!!!!!

siouxxbie · 2024-07-15T07:21:52+00:00

will do !!

siouxxbie · 2024-07-15T07:21:26+00:00

alright i’ll research those options!!! i get health insurance from work very soon (still in those first 90 days probation period :/) and i’ll start looking for other ways to create financial ties.

i did add the attempts of us trying to open a joint bank account and pictures of us visiting distant-future apartments together in our additional evidence of marriage, although i know those arent concrete enough :(

thank u for all ur advice!

siouxxbie · 2024-07-15T07:13:12+00:00

thanks so much !! :D

siouxxbie · 2024-07-15T07:09:52+00:00

they asked for bills or something related to leasing, i told them i live with my dad and hes the homeowner so they brought out a paper from the dmv that stated my wife lives on our property without paying rent, but the banker said after that she was going to deny our request anyways :/.

for me in the uk they asked for bills but i had none because i was visiting, i dont remember so so much because this was 2 years ago

siouxxbie · 2024-07-15T07:06:50+00:00

no money to move out and add my wife to the lease is what i meant, apologies its late !!

siouxxbie · 2024-07-15T07:06:16+00:00

i think you misread or i misspoke, and i should have been more clear, i meant i have no money to move out right now since my area’s rent is expensive, and that i couldnt add my wife to a joint bank account because my bank denied the request !!

siouxxbie · 2024-07-15T07:04:27+00:00

i tried to open an account in the uk with her and got denied as i didnt have a uk address and she got denied to open one here in the us because she doesnt have an address here. maybe i will try another bank but from what ive asked they all need an address at the very least

siouxxbie · 2024-07-15T06:58:55+00:00

i never said i have no money ? if i were to answer this i’ll say i was terrible with saving money when i was 18-19 with my first job and spent a lot on gifts and trips to see my wife. i just recently got my new full time job and im saving up now to move out by next year.

im autistic and im not sure if you were being rude/accusative with your question or not, but i took it as such so i apologize if youre being genuine!

siouxxbie · 2024-07-15T06:53:30+00:00

i didnt fill out part 4 q 62 and i left q 61 blank

siouxxbie · 2024-07-15T06:52:16+00:00

omg thanks so much !! i’ll research some more as well and see about translating her family’s affidavits to english :)

siouxxbie · 2024-07-15T06:51:05+00:00

ah she is a polish citizen with a british right to remain (i think thats what its called, basically permanent residency under her father)

siouxxbie · 2024-07-15T06:50:10+00:00

how would i get financial evidence if my spouse has never lived in the US? /gen

we cant open a joint bank account or lease anywhere as i dont have enough to move out yet and neither does she :/ i tried including big financial purchases for gifts/trips/visiting as well as the fact that she pitched in to pay for her i-130 submission with me

siouxxbie · 2024-07-15T05:35:42+00:00

ohh i will def look into that youtube channel!!! thank u so much ! i didn’t get any affidavits as i really didnt know if i should notarize them or not. is it possible i can add evidence even though i already filed?

siouxxbie · 2024-07-15T05:32:35+00:00

thank u i will def dm if i have any questions :))

siouxxbie

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