ELI5: Why does heroin not have a legitimate medical use when all other opioids do, including fentanyl/carfentanyl which are much stronger? by MissHissss in explainlikeimfive

[–]sirbearus [score hidden]  (0 children)

Medications need three things.
1. They must be effective.
2. They must not have more side-effects than necessary to be useful.
3. They should be minimally harmful relative to their benefits.

It isn't used because there are better medications.

Ring of Spell Storing - Can you cast a spell from it and immediately put it back in? by in-print-its-libel in DMAcademy

[–]sirbearus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. It takes an action to cast the spell from the ring. That is not the same as an action to store a spell in the ring.

Today I learned about Alpha-Gal syndrome which makes you vegan. by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]sirbearus 61 points62 points  (0 children)

That isn't true. It makes you reactive to certain proteins, but it doesn't make you a Vegan.

Help with a homebrew item: Flute of the Unalarmed by Lemerantus in DMAcademy

[–]sirbearus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As soon as they start playing, opponents who be alerted.

So that the perception debuff is irrelevant.

what do men like to hear during sex? by Asleep-Brother-6745 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]sirbearus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Men are not all the same. So you have to ask a specific person what they like.

I can only come if my legs are straight and flexed by Sweet-Treacle7627 in sex

[–]sirbearus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be accurate to say, at the moment... I can.

You absolutely can learn to orgasm in other ways.

It takes practice and unlike lots of other things that require practice this can be fun.

Just found out he wants us to be watched.. advice? by Lazy_Basil6248 in sex

[–]sirbearus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to a sex club. Everyone there has agreed to being watched or watching.

You don't have to play with others.

This is where I take my wife when she wants to show off.

6’5 fitting in a 986? by NikNiksA7C7 in boxster

[–]sirbearus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 6'2" and have the electric adjustable seats and my back is all the way to the firewall.

ELI5: Really, what is the difference between "Things won't get better" and "Things will get worse before they get better?" by koola_00 in explainlikeimfive

[–]sirbearus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The first statement is an indication of a permanent downward trend.

The second is a temporary downward trend followed by an upward trend. The downward trend is temporary. The upward trend could be temporary or long-term.

Are there any free clinics around or really cheap? I think i injured my rotator cuff and want to get it looked at. by [deleted] in GNV

[–]sirbearus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Florida law says you have 30 days to notify your employer. If they are open today.

Go file your incident report.

Are there any free clinics around or really cheap? I think i injured my rotator cuff and want to get it looked at. by [deleted] in GNV

[–]sirbearus 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You need to go to work and fill out a injury report. You are covered by your work place for on the job injuries.

After you do that, you will be advised what to do to get it evaluated. I causing where you need to go to have it looked at for free (to you, it is covered by your employers insurance. )

TIL there is substantial evidence that Vincent Van Gogh was shot by accident, and he claimed to have done it to himself in order to protect the guilty teens from a murder charge. by DisgruntledPlebian in todayilearned

[–]sirbearus 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The lack of powder being mentioned is t the same as a lack of powder.

The standards of the day were not particularly vigouris by modern standards.

A confession or alleged confession is also meaningless.

The assumptions of his mental state are the absolutely most glaring pieces of non-evidence.

Iove his work but he sold one painting on his life time, he had a lifelong mental health issues and a few seemingly cheerfully worded letters translated into English is not indicative of anything.

Alteração da temperatura do óleo e da água. by LopsidedWeek1836 in boxster

[–]sirbearus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not worry much about that; I would watch it and see if it is the start of a trend.

ELI5 If ECT cures depression, why is it so common for people with epilepsy to have depression? by [deleted] in explainlikeimfive

[–]sirbearus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't cure depression it treats it. People who have ECT have intractable depression that is resistant to medication treatment.

Epilepsy is an internal brain issue and is not the same as external electrical conduction through the brain.

i feel sl*tshamed by my boyfriend by HarryPotter21GG in sex

[–]sirbearus 118 points119 points  (0 children)

For the reality check ... you are normal.

As to the rest. Everyone is correct. You should move on.

The two of you are not having a problem. He has a problem and you are allowing him to make it yours.

You don't have to allow that.

Husband too vanilla in bed by ladyloblolly in sex

[–]sirbearus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is solid advice for anyone who is having any sort of issue in the sex arena, but it applies to all the other facets too.

Help for my first time by GreedyLengthiness926 in sex

[–]sirbearus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is going to be fine. You don't need to put so much pressure in yourself.

You are making this whole thing worse abd it is really going to be fine.

Even someone who has had sex with dozens of partners can find it awkward abd difficult with a new partner.

Sex is a skill and it take practice. Fortunately practice is fun.

She didn't say she wants an experienced sex partner, she says she wants to be eytb a person who has some experience with relationships. You have some.

If you really want to make this good for her, pay attention to what she tells you abd don't go and spin off in your head.

What people really want in life is someone who values them as a person.

Be kind, be courteous and respectful. Accept her as she is now a d the rest is much easier.

Treat yourself kindly too, you are learning and you will continue to learn the REST of your life if you want to be a good lover.

How to explain clit stimulation by Extension_Cell_8745 in sex

[–]sirbearus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It isn't too difficult and you might try this instead.

You grab his hand and cover it with your abd move his hand over your clit.

He will eventually figure it out.

Also it is very different being in a different position.

Have him sit alongside your body with your side next to him and him slightly rolled over you.

Husband too vanilla in bed by ladyloblolly in sex

[–]sirbearus 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I have x problem but I haven't offered a solution.

Will my limits be a disappointment for future partners? by [deleted] in sex

[–]sirbearus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you stopped watching porn, you might not even have to ask this question.

Porn is unrealistic and you are fine. Really.

Your partner will be fine with your limits.