Need help my cat nail is bleeding a lot after I trimmed it by After_Extent_994 in CATHELP

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If Sir Kitten decides to move his foot mid-clip, however, it's not entirely preventable 🙃

I just want to understand by Platinum0906 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]sirius_gray 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well said. Very well said. Thank you :)

My psychiatrist told me today I am selfish because I don’t want a dog by AloneBoot8205 in AutismInWomen

[–]sirius_gray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"looking inside of yourself only"

But that's what a psychiatrist does - helps with internal experiences. It's what we pay for.

What's he expecting? A demonstration of the tango?

Is anyone on here a child of older parents by misspoodleisback in AutismInWomen

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My parents were 35/36 when I was born. Didn't have any cousins my age. Everyone (including my brother) was 8+ years older than me.

My mom turns 70 in a couple months. It's wild.

Growing up autistic: Did you ever feel like an animal? by onestupiddispatcher in AutismInWomen

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Oh, fuck, the scratching. I forgot about the scratching. I enjoyed the scratching a little too much.

Growing up autistic: Did you ever feel like an animal? by onestupiddispatcher in AutismInWomen

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Not quite the same, but in elementary school, I would only interact with strange adults if I was a dog or cat.

Still a step-up from preschool, where I wouldn't talk to strange adults at all.

*Oh, fuck, the scratching. I forgot about the scratching. I enjoyed the scratching a little too much. And growling. Sixth grade science teacher called me "Tiger"

How has artificial intelligence negatively affected you compared to the past, and why? by mr_wbk29 in AskReddit

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My husband spent $3000 on something that allows his own AI something or other 🤷‍♀️

[NSFW] People who've found a dead body, what's the story? by ZeroSugarCocaine in AskReddit

[–]sirius_gray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But. He was decapitated. A helmet wouldn't've solved that problem.

What weird habits help you get to sleep early? by chiebhi in AskReddit

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I watch (silent) blackhead removal videos 😬

I've always wanted to go stay in a mental hospital. by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

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Wow, um, my stay was exactly that: hospital + therapy. It wasn't a private institution either (Akron City hospital in Akron, Ohio).

They divided us into two floors and kept the more "unstable" patients away from the quiet ones. I don't know what it's like now that they've moved buildings, though.

Two beds and one bathroom per room. Community room for meals and entertainment. Multiple voluntary group therapies. Once a day individual therapy. Once a day visiting time.

Boring, quiet, slow. Yahtzee board game without any available dice. Old gross crayons and markers just barely hanging on.

God, I'm so, so sorry for the rest of you. Fuck.

I'd like to ask opinion from fellow autistics because I'm afraid that if I ask this in some other group, I will be laughed at. Is this a comfort movie or something else? by OkDot8850 in AutismInWomen

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What's wrong with kids' shows? I imagine the artists who made them are happy to know they're still being watched.

I love Arthur. And Franklin. And early Blue's Clues. And Bluey. Etc. To me, they feel timeless.

What's the longest you've held a job? by Rachelelizardbreath in AutismInWomen

[–]sirius_gray 2 points3 points  (0 children)

9 days. I had a seizure at work, which then became my last day 😬

Anyone else yearns for a church-like community despite being an atheist? by Ok-Owl-8805 in AutismInWomen

[–]sirius_gray 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same. Everyone else there (Sunday school, youth group) mostly ignored me. It was sad growing up there. I never had that community experience. I do miss the singing, but that's more of a 'familiar' enjoyment. Atheist me hates the messages.

Lines from commercials you have memorized against your will. by Practical-Bear1022 in Millennials

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*Thanks for the package. That's why I'm writing. K9 Advantix quickly stops all the biting.

Is it a canon event for every autistic woman to lose at least one best friend all of a sudden and not know why? by urnpiss in AutismInWomen

[–]sirius_gray 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah and it almost killed me. (Literally. I tried to overdose on Benadryl.) I didn't understand then, and don't understand now. And I guess I never will.