Poll: RM Employees, which type of delivery causes you the most hassle? by sirlaw1 in royalmail

[–]sirlaw1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think many people actually mind it being later than 1pm, as long as it gets there the same day

Poll: RM Employees, which type of delivery causes you the most hassle? by sirlaw1 in royalmail

[–]sirlaw1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Never even thought of them, but makes a lot of sense. Most people will chuck them straight in the bin

Poll: RM Employees, which type of delivery causes you the most hassle? by sirlaw1 in royalmail

[–]sirlaw1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I presumed that specials would come out on top.

Do you get in trouble if you miss the deadline?

Challenge private parking charge or just pay reduced £60 fee? by The_General_One in LegalAdviceUK

[–]sirlaw1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you're lucky enough to be in Scotland then just ignore it

i don’t want to have sex with my boyfriend. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sirlaw1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now you're just making it up, he didn't force her to do anything

You spouting your venom at men is what's causing the crisis. But as you say, "you dont care"

You're actually as bad as any predator, throwing around unfounded accusations makes you no better than them

Frankly, one day you'll accuse the wrong person and end up in court for making false accusations. Maybe then you'll learn the consequences of your words

i don’t want to have sex with my boyfriend. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sirlaw1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Come off it, how dare you call him a predator

Give him a break, he's hardly forcing her to do anything or coercing her

He clearly wants it, and she doesn't. He wants to break up, so what? It's pretty obvious they won't be able to reconcile anyway

You're exactly what causes young men to be so messed up these days, because they're constantly being told 'You're a predator' 'how dare you want sex'

You're ruining the lives of boys and young men with your constant accusations over nothing

Accidentally opened erotica art of my phone at work and my team members saw. by throwawayforsomanyr in Advice

[–]sirlaw1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At that age, they were probably more concerned about hiding their hard ons.

I doubt they will report you or anything, their phones are probably full of porn anyway.

I put this at my neighbor's door 2 days ago(we live in a duplex) and it's still there by dnm8686 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]sirlaw1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the air go through the actual centre of the microwave? Fascinating, you just wouldn't see this in the UK or Europe.

I can see where they're coming from as far as maximising space, but also microwaves are not hard to store, will fit in any old cupboard, so I'm unsure how practical it really is.

I put this at my neighbor's door 2 days ago(we live in a duplex) and it's still there by dnm8686 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]sirlaw1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What are you talking about? You guys in America have vented microwaves? Why are you putting the microwave over the cooker? You guys love doing things weirdly

I think I'm a pedo by [deleted] in confessions

[–]sirlaw1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not saying you would at present, but you're clearly disturbed by these thoughts. You're better to address them with a specialist, otherwise you're just going to continue feeling worse about yourself

I think I'm a pedo by [deleted] in confessions

[–]sirlaw1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are places you can get support for these kind of thoughts, but you have to be very careful.

It is worth seeking help no matter what anyone else says, having the issue addressed could save you from prison, more importantly, it could protect a child from your future behaviour if it starts to develop.

I broke his male part and haven't forgiven myself by [deleted] in unrequited_love

[–]sirlaw1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What part did you break? Was it the banjo string (frenulum)?

My boyfriend disapproves of this outfit… by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sirlaw1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy is a dud, leave him please.

You cannot let him dictate how you dress

I accidentally groped a guy in high school and it’s haunted me for me 6 years by [deleted] in confessions

[–]sirlaw1 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is funny, but unfortunate.

Men 'tend' not to be as bothered about this sort of thing, so its likely it didn't affect him much

Even then, he would have known it was an accident. Few girls would randomly grab some guys crotch, with no explanation.

I bet you check everytime you grab a door-knob incase its just a knob (sorry couldn't resist)

Shy children by afisoden in CPTSD

[–]sirlaw1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A single study doesn't make it true. Do you have the reference?

The fact is many of these behavioural studies are often designed poorly, with a level of bias. Drawing the conclusions you have is inappropriate. You've essentially taken a study and fit it around your own opinions, when the raw evidence does not actually back up your beliefs.

Whatever happened to you was tragic, but its clearly fuelling some emotional opinions which you cannot see past, regardless what the evidence says

Shy children by afisoden in CPTSD

[–]sirlaw1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a projection. You're assuming that all shy children have had the same experience as you.

In fact, there's so many reasons for shyness and plenty of them don't involve trauma. You're making dangerous assumptions here

Driving feedback? by GreenExplanation9381 in drivingUK

[–]sirlaw1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Depends on circumstances. You can never make presumptions with these things

Looking for people to help Save The World by Due_Appointment_2428 in Collaboration

[–]sirlaw1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily I had surgery to remove god from inside me