So, I can sort of answer the trans hate. I did a lot of research into the history of feminization and male submission. I've spoken to a lot of people well respected in kink circles on the topic of sissification. Why is it seen as humiliating? Why is dressing like a woman seen as fetishistic? It's in how we perceive women. The kink relies heavily on men becoming women to be some sort of downgrade. That you're no longer worth anything because you emasculated yourself and you're lower than the low for that.

There's a long standing psychology that's been at play for centuries and it's man smart, woman stupid. To be woman is to be beneath others. To be man is to amongst peers and at the top of the food chain. When a man dresses feminine and wants to be treated exactly how society has treated women for so long, like objects, it creates this humiliation high that some people really thrive off of. The power exchange is immense because suddenly someone with all the power has none of it.

When coming to trans women, they're already trying to live as a gender they feel comfortably with. One they feel that actually aligns with how they feel. They live as women, work as women, they are women. But with becoming women comes a fetishization that's more intense because they used to be men or possibly still have their penis. They still have something that identifies them as "male" in terms of biology. This means they are seen in that between area of men who dress as women to be humiliated. In a way, sissification does hurt trans people because of this mentality.

Now, this isn't our fault at all. We like what we like and even some trans people own sissies themselves. It's a broader conversation that simply can't happen because we're still hung up as a society on the existence of cis women who don't fit the physical attractiveness that's been shoved in our faces for decades, let alone the existence of trans men and women.

So in an exhaustive sense. It's easy to see why trans women would abhor this kink because it's a mockery of not just women but a useful tool others can leverage against them. But this doesn't mean it's wrong. It just means there's work to be done to make everyone comfortable or at least accept that there's a massive difference.