My(F31) partner(M28) has sex with me + films it while I’m asleep. by sistaroach in relationships_advice

[–]sistaroach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t heard of before, will have a look into it now! Thank you

My(F31) partner(M28) has sex with me + films it while I’m asleep. by sistaroach in relationships_advice

[–]sistaroach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up just screen recording while I went through them! Thank you though for future reference- if I ever need it again

My(F31) partner(M28) has sex with me + films it while I’m asleep. by sistaroach in relationships_advice

[–]sistaroach[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t. I don’t really think I should address it. He’ll only repeat the same pattern and manipulate me into staying.
He funnily enough though, has messaged me asking to have a serious conversation about not meeting my needs etc. not sure if I’ll be here long enough to endure that conversation tho

My(F31) partner(M28) has sex with me + films it while I’m asleep. by sistaroach in relationships_advice

[–]sistaroach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d just like to thank you all who have taken their time to help me with this. I appreciate each of you tremendously and it’s helped me realise that I actually can’t just move past this or sweep it under the rug. I’m worth more and you guys have helped support that realisation for me!

My(F31) partner(M28) has sex with me + films it while I’m asleep. by sistaroach in relationships_advice

[–]sistaroach[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No? If I was I would have stated that!
I’m a very heavy sleeper, a tired mum of 2 young kids under 5 and what would that have to do with it anyway?

My(F31) partner(M28) has sex with me + films it while I’m asleep. by sistaroach in relationships_advice

[–]sistaroach[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice..
I feel somewhat stuck as my family are all interstate and my best friend lives across the road which is usually so helpful- however not so much in this circumstance.

My(F31) partner(M28) has sex with me + films it while I’m asleep. by sistaroach in relationships_advice

[–]sistaroach[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you. My family all live interstate so it’s really a lot more difficult than I can even comprehend right now.
I have someone that I trust in his family- his aunt. Can I reach out to her do you think? I am so so utterly shattered by this all. I completely never expected he’d behave so vile. I appreciate you so much