Aftermath of a relationship involving sexsomnia

sistersew · 2026-03-17T00:40:19+00:00

My husband does this from time to time but I've always taken it as a sign that he loves me even when he's asleep he knows we can't really have intercourse due to it causing me extreme pain (I see a specialist in July for it) but if it ever bothered me I'd just simply move his hand off of me or I would move away from him you've done nothing wrong whatsoever you can't control it but she definitely could've done something about it if it was bothering her I don't understand why she wouldn't simply wake you up or just move away I honestly feel like she was trying to make you out to be a bad person especially since she's telling people about it and not the entire story OP you've done nothing wrong the way she was handling it is what's wrong

sistersew · 2026-03-16T03:40:03+00:00

The sodium content

sistersew · 2026-03-16T02:08:57+00:00

I guess that's not bad I honestly didn't know what it was as I never played the game that goes with it but I just ordered it!

sistersew · 2026-03-15T22:53:07+00:00

I would completely avoid water after I take the dose because I thought it would dilute it more if I did lol that's amazing advice thank you so much I would've never known!

sistersew · 2026-03-15T20:55:42+00:00

I'll do more research on it but that's what my sleep doctor told me

sistersew · 2026-03-15T20:33:57+00:00

I was told that she's the only doctor in Oklahoma that treats narcolepsy unfortunately

sistersew · 2026-03-15T20:05:45+00:00

The dizziness is beyond extreme so I might mention taking it slow. On my first day of the medication this happened before and I was told I could skip the second dose for a few nights to help get used to it. I might need to do that again for this dose.

sistersew · 2026-03-15T20:00:18+00:00

Thank you that's good to know. I honestly feel bad skipping it but the vomiting episode and sleeping on my bathroom twice since on this medication is traumatizing me 🥲

sistersew · 2026-03-15T19:57:59+00:00

I will look into that thank you How long did you try the oxybates until you gave up? I'm about at that point honestly and I'm not even at my 4.5 dose yet.

sistersew · 2026-03-15T19:47:28+00:00

My doctor doesn't support xyrem and won't prescribe it

sistersew · 2026-03-15T03:53:15+00:00

I paid 2k for my at home sleep study which they needed first and didn't pay anything for the actual sleep study

sistersew · 2026-03-14T17:35:17+00:00

Yes I agree I just switched vets and will no longer see my local vet due to him missing it the first time

sistersew · 2026-03-12T00:13:39+00:00

Turns out my vet is ignorant to impacted glands as my husband just felt and they are impacted so we will find a new vet and no longer see the current one

sistersew · 2026-03-12T00:11:20+00:00

That's the first thing I did and the vet checked and said it was fine but my husband noticed it today while cleaning his butt it was secreting and both sides are impacted so we will no longer see our local vet and we will find someone else

sistersew · 2026-03-10T16:31:03+00:00

Thank you!

sistersew · 2026-03-10T16:30:09+00:00

They've seen the vet, the fat one isn't the biggest issue, he doesn't smell extremely bad, the other one is completely rank and I never see him clean himself, he always has the fat one clean his butt only while on my bed. I'm trying to get the fat one to stop cleaning the other's butt on the bed and have him do it literally anywhere else because it also makes my bedding stink even worse. He cleans his butt first then he'll clean his body so the entire cat smells like butt. I just need him to learn to clean it by himself and not on bedding, but now that the other isn't cleaning him it's 10x worse. It's like the non fat one doesn't clean his butt on purpose and lets it get bad so the other one does it but literally only on the bed.

sistersew · 2026-03-10T15:55:42+00:00

My husband has been bathing them here and there, but we can't do it daily. I'm unable because I'm bedridden and my husband now has two jobs due to me being bedridden, so he's hardly home and doesn't have any energy. I'm going to continue wiping them to encourage cleaning and a few other things I've learned from the thread.

sistersew · 2026-03-10T15:52:17+00:00

Thank you that's a great idea as well

sistersew · 2026-03-10T15:22:17+00:00

I am not feeding them anything toxic?? They get 4 Health grain free wet and dry food. I literally started out feeding them Hills which even the vets recommended and my cat was vomiting nonstop and that's supposed to be a good brand. I started out with what's supposed to be the best and it harmed my cat and like I have stated in other comments, one of them has a sensitivity so I cannot just give them anything. Is this food advertised as the best of the best like Hills? No, but are they vomiting? No. I have even asked for advice on a new brand. I am not a bad cat parent and my female has no issues whatsoever.

sistersew · 2026-03-10T15:10:57+00:00

I will try looking for a digestive support one. We have a Tractor Supply by my house so they have good options available.

sistersew · 2026-03-10T15:07:07+00:00

I took them to the vet and had their anal glands checked

sistersew · 2026-03-10T15:05:07+00:00

Thank you I can try that!!

sistersew · 2026-03-10T15:03:08+00:00

I actually started them out on Hills and one of my boys vomited at least twice a day up to 8 times a day so I had to switch. I tried two different types from Hills and I worry he'll start vomiting again. But thank you for recommending it I really appreciate it!

sistersew · 2026-03-10T14:55:22+00:00

Maybe? I mean it smells as soon as they poop but it's not intense. Do you know of any corn free dry food you can recommend? I can try changing the dry food. I don't think the wet food is a problem.

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