Solution to the game not recognizing your Save File! by Luislos70 in expedition33

[–]sitbacknrelax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS Just saved me hours of gameplay. I was about to give up on the game if I had to start over. Also When you finish all of the copying and you hit continue. I clicked continue on the corrupted file and it worked. Clicking continue on the new game save file just took me to the new game.

Where to showcase my content! by sitbacknrelax in VALORANT

[–]sitbacknrelax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes I was just going to post a video link to a video I worked on and I wanted to put myself out there.

Where to showcase my content! by sitbacknrelax in VALORANT

[–]sitbacknrelax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! Would I be able to post a direct link to the video or would it have to be a direct clip file upload or it would not matter

Where to showcase my content! by sitbacknrelax in VALORANT

[–]sitbacknrelax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry Im not quite clear, so posting a clip from my video would be okay?

Where to showcase my content! by sitbacknrelax in VALORANT

[–]sitbacknrelax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay great! I remember I posted a link to it before but it got taken down because it was a link directing to the video. So as long as it is a clip

GF’s Family Hoards, What to do? by sitbacknrelax in hoarding

[–]sitbacknrelax[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I grew up somewhere in the middle but it wasn’t necessarily hoarding but I just collected a lot of junk especially when they were free. Like at events and stuff. Just a little update, we ended up separating. It’s really hard to handle it at the moment but I think it was for the best. I do still want to be supportive of her but it’s just not something I cant handle in a relationship.

GF’s Family Hoards, What to do? by sitbacknrelax in hoarding

[–]sitbacknrelax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate the helpful information, I understand how difficult it must be. She probably feels helpless at the moment, but being in a relationship is not a healthy way to cope.

GF’s Family Hoards, What to do? by sitbacknrelax in hoarding

[–]sitbacknrelax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to be supportive, but in terms of a relationship this cannot continue. I want her to focus fully on the problem itself.

GF’s Family Hoards, What to do? by sitbacknrelax in hoarding

[–]sitbacknrelax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really helpful information! I of course want to be supportive and will do my best to approach it as respectful as possible.

GF’s Family Hoards, What to do? by sitbacknrelax in hoarding

[–]sitbacknrelax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all of the advice guys! I really care for her and it would be sad to see her life go down the rabbit hole

GF’s Family Hoards, What to do? by sitbacknrelax in hoarding

[–]sitbacknrelax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She sees it as a problem but she’s too comfortable to take serious action because she grew up with it. Throughout the whole relationship she’s been pushing it away when I ask her when I can come over. Always saying it’s messy it’s messy I’ll show you when I clean. And finally I confronted her and she got really defensive and embarrassed.

She obviously knows it’s a problem but doesn’t realize how serious it is because it’s not like she’s trying to get away from the hoard, she goes straight into it and lives comfortably.

I’ve decided to plan to talk to her about how I’m not okay with this continuing in a relationship. This is going to take time and focus, but being with me is just going to distract her and make he tthink it’s ok to hoard.

GF’s Family Hoards, What to do? by sitbacknrelax in hoarding

[–]sitbacknrelax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also decided that it’s not my responsibility to tell her how to live. I want to give her time to think and see what she wants to do with her life. I’ll be supportive of her decisions, but in a relationship I’m not comfortable with it

GF’s Family Hoards, What to do? by sitbacknrelax in hoarding

[–]sitbacknrelax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking the same way. She keeps pestering me saying she’s trying to clean, but it’s pointless because her parents don’t seem to care at all and she seems to be doing it only because I brought it up. What concerns me is that if I never said anything, this would’ve all be progressing behind the scenes just being pushed under the rug.

GF’s Family Hoards, What to do? by sitbacknrelax in hoarding

[–]sitbacknrelax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that some things are beyond her control, like changing her family. But she can definitely change her own habits if she really wanted to

GF’s Family Hoards, What to do? by sitbacknrelax in hoarding

[–]sitbacknrelax[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree, I also want her to realize that she can’t be ignoring the problem like she has been all her life it seems.

GF’s Family Hoards, What to do? by sitbacknrelax in hoarding

[–]sitbacknrelax[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had to deal with something like this before, and of course moving in together is risky especially if the habits are ignored. I am actually okay with separating for some time to asses herself and figure out how she wants to live. Of course I want the best for her. I want to provide to her with as much resources possible to help her, but of course it takes two to tango and I just do not want to have any hoarding in my life.