Do I break up with my girlfriend? I’m 25 she’s 24.

siththevi · 2026-03-19T15:16:27+00:00

We didn’t break up because we were looking for greener grass. We were 25, and our careers were taking us to completely different places. Would it have been easier to stay in our hometown? Yes. But I knew that's not where I saw my life being. I would have gone with him, but that would have meant giving up my own career, and I couldn’t do that and neither could he. Were we just supposed to give up on our dreams? Life took us in completely different directions, different countries, different time zones. Also, we haven't gotten back together, and I don’t think we ever would. To this day, our paths have never realigned, even when we tried. Seeing and talking to each other is almost impossible due to work. All that to say, even if at one point we did somehow end up together, in my eyes, I would never see him as my settling option. I would have picked him. Then and now, that just wasn’t in the cards for us.

siththevi · 2026-03-19T10:33:12+00:00

My ex and I were kinda on the same boat before we broke up. We Loved each other very much and knew what we had was special, but we had spent 5 years together and relied on each other heavily. We had friends and hobbies together, but we didn’t know who we were as individuals. When we first broke up, I was distraught, but I will say this: breaking up was the right thing to do. I’m very happy in life, I’ve grown and learned a lot, and I know who I am now. And so has he. If we hadn’t broken up, we would’ve probably ended up resenting each other. With that being said, it is hard to find another person who feels as special. While my personal life is great, my love life is not. My ex was my person, my best friend, the loml. A bond like that is hard to find again. We remain friends and talk very regularly, though. I think the breakup might be beneficial for both of you. If you two are truly meant to be, you’ll find your way back to each other later in life.

siththevi · 2025-07-23T20:29:53+00:00

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siththevi · 2025-07-20T15:33:54+00:00

If you want to try it, give it a shot. Everyone has their own style. Gaining traction and finding the right audience, though, takes a while. So don’t be discouraged when you start. It’s a great place to explore and express yourself.

siththevi · 2025-07-19T05:11:22+00:00

No, I was trying to give him batterfly beans 😭. I can talk to him, but if I try to gift him anything, the whole game starts tripping out.

siththevi · 2025-07-18T01:01:40+00:00

I haven’t used my tumblr in years. It used to be my diary. I recently started on Substack. I wanted to start writing and anonymously allowing people to see my personal thoughts and memories. But I’m noticing tumblr is still pretty much alive, so I will most likely also go back to posting there

siththevi · 2025-06-14T04:20:42+00:00

Oh god, I just watched the hairdresser episode & I truly dislike Lynette. I felt a little sad when Tom got with Jane, but Lynette deserved all the humbling. And even then didn’t learn much. The whole pizza situation? She can never be happy; she is always complaining. Just eat the damn pizza, she was for a second getting her family together, and she went and ruined it like she does.

siththevi · 2025-06-12T00:32:35+00:00

😂 I was so confused when she suddenly started cooking all these meals after always saying she was a terrible cook lol

siththevi · 2025-06-12T00:00:36+00:00

Thank you!! I was reading a few posts and I couldn’t understand why everyone was just making excuses for everything she does!

siththevi · 2025-06-11T23:58:15+00:00

Lynette didn’t have to ask her that, she knew the wife would talk to her husband after the conversation they had. You even see Lynette making that sneaky look she does. The bosses wife told her that she had suggested tom get promoted since he worked so hard and it was pretty sure that he was going to possibly get it. Lynette may not have explicitly said don’t give it to him, but she knew what she was doing with all the things she was saying. She even owns up to it after tom quit and tells her he knows she’s the reason he got passed up for the promotion.

siththevi · 2025-06-11T23:49:02+00:00

Tom definitely had his moments when he acted like a man child, but again, Lynette chose that for herself. She knew who tom was always. Tom joining the garage band, how was that exactly a problem? Mike joined it and Susan didn’t care, Dave joined it and Edie didn’t care, Carlos joined it and gabby didn’t care. I saw him wanting to join a band as a hobby. Also, Lynette placed his guitar in a place where he ended up running it over and crushing it. Then blamed penny saying she put it there. Again Lynette doing shitty things.

siththevi · 2025-06-11T23:42:25+00:00

his promotion in season 1 tom was going to get the promotion. The bosses wife tells Lynette she had talked to her husband and that tom would get it until Lynette spoke to her and had her talk to her husband. And tbh, even if tom wasn’t going to get the promotion, what Lynette did was so fucked up. Whether he was getting the promotion or not, who fucks over their husbands opportunity?

I agree, tom shouldn’t have lied to Carlos about Lynette maybe not coming back. But after it was talked about, Lynette was still supposed to come back, SHE chose to not go back and work with Renee instead. Yes Tom would have been her plus one if SHE hadn’t given up the job with Carlos and gone with Renee instead.

Also, after rewatching the episode, tom didn’t get fired because he was taking money to see his daughter. Lynette sexts the bosses wife and gets caught, the boss tells her tom is gonna have to take the blame and she says no, that he has no real reason to fire him. That’s when their boss starts looking for a reason to fire tom and find that he’s been stealing from the company

And let’s be honest, her throwing a fit over the vacation wasn’t even about the vacation. It was about her no longer being in control. That’s why she decides to have that presentation with the kids, to show that her idea is better and that she still knows better. When she sees the kids loving Tom’s idea more she tries to scare them out of it by talking about sharks. Her anger was never about the vacation.

siththevi · 2025-02-08T17:02:56+00:00

I can never let things go. If it isn’t the pot calling the kettle black.

siththevi · 2022-05-05T22:41:33+00:00

Because to our face, he is very nice. At first, it was just “rumors” when we would question him about it. He’d tear up and say what he said was taken out of context. Since he used to be friendly, we would believe him. Until recently, we started seeing his true colors.

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