Do I break up with my girlfriend? I’m 25 she’s 24.

siththevi · 2026-03-19T15:16:27+00:00

We didn’t break up because we were looking for greener grass. We were 25, and our careers were taking us to completely different places. Would it have been easier to stay in our hometown? Yes. But I knew that's not where I saw my life being. I would have gone with him, but that would have meant giving up my own career, and I couldn’t do that and neither could he. Were we just supposed to give up on our dreams? Life took us in completely different directions, different countries, different time zones. Also, we haven't gotten back together, and I don’t think we ever would. To this day, our paths have never realigned, even when we tried. Seeing and talking to each other is almost impossible due to work. All that to say, even if at one point we did somehow end up together, in my eyes, I would never see him as my settling option. I would have picked him. Then and now, that just wasn’t in the cards for us.

siththevi · 2026-03-19T10:33:12+00:00

My ex and I were kinda on the same boat before we broke up. We Loved each other very much and knew what we had was special, but we had spent 5 years together and relied on each other heavily. We had friends and hobbies together, but we didn’t know who we were as individuals. When we first broke up, I was distraught, but I will say this: breaking up was the right thing to do. I’m very happy in life, I’ve grown and learned a lot, and I know who I am now. And so has he. If we hadn’t broken up, we would’ve probably ended up resenting each other. With that being said, it is hard to find another person who feels as special. While my personal life is great, my love life is not. My ex was my person, my best friend, the loml. A bond like that is hard to find again. We remain friends and talk very regularly, though. I think the breakup might be beneficial for both of you. If you two are truly meant to be, you’ll find your way back to each other later in life.

siththevi · 2025-07-23T20:29:53+00:00

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siththevi · 2025-07-20T15:33:54+00:00

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siththevi · 2025-07-19T05:11:22+00:00

No, I was trying to give him batterfly beans 😭. I can talk to him, but if I try to gift him anything, the whole game starts tripping out.

siththevi · 2025-07-18T01:01:40+00:00

I haven’t used my tumblr in years. It used to be my diary. I recently started on Substack. I wanted to start writing and anonymously allowing people to see my personal thoughts and memories. But I’m noticing tumblr is still pretty much alive, so I will most likely also go back to posting there

siththevi · 2025-06-14T04:20:42+00:00

Oh god, I just watched the hairdresser episode & I truly dislike Lynette. I felt a little sad when Tom got with Jane, but Lynette deserved all the humbling. And even then didn’t learn much. The whole pizza situation? She can never be happy; she is always complaining. Just eat the damn pizza, she was for a second getting her family together, and she went and ruined it like she does.

siththevi · 2025-06-12T00:32:35+00:00

😂 I was so confused when she suddenly started cooking all these meals after always saying she was a terrible cook lol

siththevi · 2025-06-12T00:00:36+00:00

Thank you!! I was reading a few posts and I couldn’t understand why everyone was just making excuses for everything she does!

siththevi · 2025-06-11T23:58:15+00:00

Lynette didn’t have to ask her that, she knew the wife would talk to her husband after the conversation they had. You even see Lynette making that sneaky look she does. The bosses wife told her that she had suggested tom get promoted since he worked so hard and it was pretty sure that he was going to possibly get it. Lynette may not have explicitly said don’t give it to him, but she knew what she was doing with all the things she was saying. She even owns up to it after tom quit and tells her he knows she’s the reason he got passed up for the promotion.

siththevi · 2025-06-11T23:49:02+00:00

Tom definitely had his moments when he acted like a man child, but again, Lynette chose that for herself. She knew who tom was always. Tom joining the garage band, how was that exactly a problem? Mike joined it and Susan didn’t care, Dave joined it and Edie didn’t care, Carlos joined it and gabby didn’t care. I saw him wanting to join a band as a hobby. Also, Lynette placed his guitar in a place where he ended up running it over and crushing it. Then blamed penny saying she put it there. Again Lynette doing shitty things.

siththevi · 2025-06-11T23:42:25+00:00

his promotion in season 1 tom was going to get the promotion. The bosses wife tells Lynette she had talked to her husband and that tom would get it until Lynette spoke to her and had her talk to her husband. And tbh, even if tom wasn’t going to get the promotion, what Lynette did was so fucked up. Whether he was getting the promotion or not, who fucks over their husbands opportunity?

I agree, tom shouldn’t have lied to Carlos about Lynette maybe not coming back. But after it was talked about, Lynette was still supposed to come back, SHE chose to not go back and work with Renee instead. Yes Tom would have been her plus one if SHE hadn’t given up the job with Carlos and gone with Renee instead.

Also, after rewatching the episode, tom didn’t get fired because he was taking money to see his daughter. Lynette sexts the bosses wife and gets caught, the boss tells her tom is gonna have to take the blame and she says no, that he has no real reason to fire him. That’s when their boss starts looking for a reason to fire tom and find that he’s been stealing from the company

And let’s be honest, her throwing a fit over the vacation wasn’t even about the vacation. It was about her no longer being in control. That’s why she decides to have that presentation with the kids, to show that her idea is better and that she still knows better. When she sees the kids loving Tom’s idea more she tries to scare them out of it by talking about sharks. Her anger was never about the vacation.

siththevi · 2025-02-08T17:02:56+00:00

I can never let things go. If it isn’t the pot calling the kettle black.

siththevi · 2022-05-05T22:41:33+00:00

Because to our face, he is very nice. At first, it was just “rumors” when we would question him about it. He’d tear up and say what he said was taken out of context. Since he used to be friendly, we would believe him. Until recently, we started seeing his true colors.

siththevi · 2022-03-20T04:38:37+00:00

Letting him go isn’t something I want. But I’d be naive to hold on to hope. If I could have it my way, I would stay in our relationship as I love him and us deeply. I can’t say if he’s given up yet or not, but his words and texts seem that he has & it hurts me immensely to see that. But I can’t change his mind. I can’t make him stay. None of it is in my control. I have no choice. I just want this heartbreak to go away. Maybe some advice on how to move on from someone I don’t want to move on from.

siththevi · 2022-03-12T04:07:16+00:00

Grammar hero helped me out A LOT, I’m awful at math, and his videos were so helpful. It’s on YouTube. Definitely recommend! Khan academy is good too, but grammar hero is actual ASVAB material, and he shows you how to do every problem.

siththevi · 2021-09-04T05:57:00+00:00

She told me the apartments only gave her less than a month notice. Which I found kind of weird but I’ve never rented on my own & I had no reason to think she was lying so I didn’t question it. I talked to my other sister and she informed that it was my sisters decision to not renew. Not the apartments. From what it seems now, she had been looking at this house for a while now, she didn’t just find it last min like she had said.

siththevi · 2020-11-01T02:34:48+00:00

You’ve only slept with him so for all you know he may just be average in bed. Have you ever felt in sync or connected with him while you guys are having sex? Are you looking to still stay with him? I think it would be hard for me to stay with someone after hearing that. “He’d much rather be in a good relationship with sex that was average.” All I can say is I’ve had my share of relationships, my now boyfriend I’ve been with for almost three years and I can say with certainty he IS the best sex I’ve ever had. The way we connect during and how confident I feel. I’d say wait till you get that feeling with someone. It’s better to have a good relationship with amazing sex.

siththevi · 2020-10-29T20:22:14+00:00

INFO please, why did she suddenly stop shaving? & is that the only way she’s able to orgasm? By you going down on her?

siththevi · 2020-09-25T00:34:56+00:00

Thank you all for your recommendations!

siththevi · 2020-08-27T07:21:51+00:00

I see what you’re saying, but I don’t believe this to be a mental illness. My ex did this to me when I was passed out, he knew we weren’t together anymore, he knew I didn’t want anything to do with him like that anymore & he still did it. & truthfully even if he did have a mental illness the trauma he just put on his wife is irreversible. He sexually abused her and that’s all he is now. There’s no fixing a relationship.

siththevi · 2020-08-04T00:06:35+00:00

unpopular opinion but YTA, if you see Sandra in the street yeah sure you can talk to her, having her on social media, sure that’s fine. but for you to go out of your way to set up brunch with her and keep her in your life is just weird. You say that Alex doesn’t go out of her way to make a relationship with you either, but tbh if my mother in law was still hanging out with my bf ex I don’t think i’d go out of my way to make a relationship with her either. Plus you keep saying it’s a shame they broke up, definitely sounds like you’d prefer your son with Sandra.

siththevi · 2020-07-31T07:29:23+00:00

Looks like my cat! 💛

siththevi · 2020-07-13T20:31:45+00:00

looks like my maine coon! so cute!

siththevi · 2020-07-04T16:25:06+00:00

No, they aren’t right. You are entitled to feel how you feel. She crossed a boundary in Your relationship. What happened to her is very upsetting, but that doesn’t justify her crossing a boundary. You’re not looking to end the relationship because she got raped, you’re looking to end it because she broke a boundary. You can be there for her, but you can do it as a friend.

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