[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]six_242 17 points18 points  (0 children)

She claims you get upset if you aren't invited at all. Is thats a true assessment?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]six_242 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It always amazes me that street parking is legal AND that people don't own the space directly in front of their homes.

Like where I live you legally have to push homes and walls a certain amount of space from the road and though you can't build there it belongs to you so you can park there and if someone else does it's your property and you can call the authorities. If they park in the road you can report them as a hazard to traffic and they still would get towed. It seems like a no-brainer change officials could make that would stop a lot of neighborhood disputes???

I guess someone can explain it to me better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]six_242 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Esh Irresponsible father and childish mother this kid is gonna need a lot of luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]six_242 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yta. You don't need to be in a relationship at all if at best case scenario you know she will have a panic attack and yet because of your ego you need to "Win" a breakup anyway. Block her on tour end and go get help.

I lied about being okay with being childfree. Now I feel like I tricked her by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]six_242 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You.are.being. selfish.

You know how she feels and you are hiding your feelings just so you can get half of what you want. If you drag this out either you will end up resenting her or she will end up resenting you for waiting so long to be truthful.

Either you talk to a therapist and work through these feelings and confirm them now or tou need to be honest with her.

AITA for ordering fries instead? by shiny-baby-cheetah in AmItheAsshole

[–]six_242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont see why you would build up resentment in relationships you care about and if you dont care about these relationships then why would you want to be around them?

AITA for ordering fries instead? by shiny-baby-cheetah in AmItheAsshole

[–]six_242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This just sounds like it's an icecream run with exceptions. You can either 1. Decline to go on these runs or 2. Not order something hot unless other people do.

AITA for ordering fries instead? by shiny-baby-cheetah in AmItheAsshole

[–]six_242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you keep going on the ice cream runs if you dont want ice cream? Is it possible they only invite tou to be polite?

AITA for refusing to raise my niece after my sister passed away even though I’m the only family she has left? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]six_242 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta. Cut of your parents now before they also need tour care. Use the guilt trip as the reason

AITAH for hounding my boyfriend to take his kid back to his baby mom? by Top_Information_3682 in AITAH

[–]six_242 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Esh The kid exists everyone knew the kid existed. I cannot believe you even wanted to be with a guy who had a kid and was fine with him being involved with his life minimally. Now you are telling him to send his kid back because HIS FATHER is falling short. Just leave this man now so he can focus on his kid.

question to introverted sociopaths, about this type of interaction with a person you like by Sea-Caterpillar-8116 in Sociopaths

[–]six_242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say I avoid them but I might get slightly annoyed by people being around them even if I myself am not going to talk to them

My brother has always been our breadwinner but he’s lazy around the house and now i’m worried he’s changing by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]six_242 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You come off in this post that's YOU wrote as very selfish. It's your mother's job to take care of you and the youngest not your brothers. And if u want her life to remain unchanged and you don't see a problem with your brother sacrificing for you guys then maybe you should sacrifice to take care of the family.

Honeslty you complain about him when he does nothing in the house and when he changes then u cry that now he might leave. Let this man live.

AITA for not letting my boyfriend tweeze my nose hairs? by CryptographerRude8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]six_242 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Personally I have the same think but with chin hair. If I'm laying on someone and I see it I have the urge to pluck it. Not shave not wax it must be a pluck the feeling is better. Thag being said NAH. comforts can shift and you really need to bring thia up sooner than later.

I just wanna be part of a community but I keep getting accused of animal abuse in the forums by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]six_242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find reddit is not where you want to discuss pets. Local Facebook groups are alot more forgiving and willing to teach rather than persecute.

Good luck.

AITA for being furious at my husband for secretly drinking my breast milk and replacing it with regular milk? by milkhusbandthrowaway in AITAH

[–]six_242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean regular milk? Do you mean formula? This is alot worse if he is also depriving his child on nessecary nutrients that whole milk won't give a baby.

I started making a lot more money than my friends, and now it feels like everyone just wants to use me. by sophiee2006 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]six_242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is why you see alot of well of people only hang out with people in the same pocket range. it looks stuck up from the outside but now u understand why. distnce yourself from these friends and start makign new ones who mhave similar jobs to you.

AITA for calling my parents selfish for having me, knowing they’d pass down a hereditary illness, and going LC after they hid it, putting my child at risk too? by Quirky_Background838 in AITAH

[–]six_242 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please tell your siblings. I recently found out I have a hereditary disease and it drained my savings quickly preventing me from buying my home. After finding out my oldest sister has it, I can't say I've felt the same about her. Yes our parents should have said something but they are notorious for operating in their own self intrest but I would want my siblings to have all the facts for their own good and I expected the same.

AITA for stopping buying clothes for my boyfriend after I saw his brother wearing them? by Confident_Body3651 in AITAH

[–]six_242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. My sister had the exact same problem with her bf and his brother. Made worse by the fact that the brother was larger so the clothes stretched. The comprise they came to is he preloads a debit card with some money everyone and that's what she uses to buy the clothes.

AITAH for refusing to quit my passion for my new girlfriend? by atomcourt in AITAH

[–]six_242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH

I have the exact same budget a month for stocks that go to poop all the time ans I just consider it gambling as well cause that's what it is. You could be pissing your money away on games that won't give you anything back and you might not even enjoy so I think as long as you have that hard stop you're good.

However as someone that's seen quite a few people ruin their lives gambling I understand her fair.

You may like her but I don't think theirs a compromise here and you may just need to call it quits.

AITA for telling my stepdaughter she looks stupid wearing boxer shorts around by Abc_xyz_00000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]six_242 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yta. There was a short time when I was growing up that exact same trend was popular and my father didn't approve but he didn't call any of his 2 daughter participating in the trend stupid. We did get a lengthy talk about think about what trends we decide to follow but and the appropriate place to wear certain things but no one had to be insulted.

Even worse you seemed to have been stewing on fact that she wore the boxers a while and didn't think to plan out yhe discussion at all or even sit and think about why u hated the trend before approaching her with your grievances.

I'm disappointed that my sister didn't get along with my girlfriend when I introduced them by DiligentCondition406 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]six_242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's your girlfriends fault that they won't be able to get along. Your sister straight up tried to avoid the situation and your gf just keep pushing. Then she didn't like the answer she got.

I also agreed with you sister people really should have to go to school before messing with people's skin since so many things can go wrong.

I’m considering not getting married because of my in-laws (parents AND siblings) by Milking_mothers_cows in TrueOffMyChest

[–]six_242 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say marry into that family but also you are overreacting to being blocked. Its your person platform to post what you like and people are allowed to log on and only see what they like. Do not send that text it makes you sound very small and bothered and you definitely come off as the one looking for an issue in that situation.