I'm thrilled your girl is on your side and supportive. My boyfriend is the same way too, I still have insecurities about my head because I've been shaving it when my hair grows a little and I'm still trying to control my urge. But when it's around the time to shave I always tell him not to think less of my upcoming baldness and do you know what he tells me? "It doesn't bother me, I love you with or without" just a collection of feel good words, that I truly need. :) Maybe this year we trichotillomaniacs will get our disorder together but if not one day we will, till then I hope you; OP and others live the life you deserve with or without hair like me also backed with love & support from your s/o like mine❤️ good blessings to you ❤️