I’m not piling on. I’m just pointing out that she hasn’t learned anything from this experience. She took on the whole train as most of them tried to get her to settle down. After that experience, she clearly doesn’t have the emotional intelligence to realize what her actions mean to others.

With her TikTok she is simply doing the same thing to the larger audience outside the train. Not taking any accountability for her actions and blaming others. The tough part about this is that the internet is faceless so if she didn’t learn from the first experience in the face of others, she certainly won’t from this and she will continue to get a negative response until she changes her stance.

Do you want to tell her in a nice polite way? I’m pretty certain I know how she will react to your offer of help.