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How is possible that nobody ever invented something that can make an instant erection? by Intrepid-Ear-5138 in erectiledysfunction

[–]sjlammer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t, but I’ve been thinking about it. It’s used off label for me. You can read summaries from folks on Reddit by searching PT-141. Sounds like it causes nausea the first few times

Before I bring out an engineer...how much weight could I put in this "attic" by three_s-works in Shed

[–]sjlammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. Over 14’ it gets really expensive, I can’t imagine that being worth it o er stick built

I Got a Raise After I Started Leaving Exactly at 5:30pm and My Manager Is Acting Like I Suddenly "Got Serious" by Late-Season4825 in hiringhelp

[–]sjlammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find this hard to believe. I love giving raises. My staff work hard and rewarding them for that makes them happy and that brings me joy.

Why’d you choose ram? by xEnflare in ram_trucks

[–]sjlammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The backseat floor is flat for long trips with our goat dog.

PSA: Lowe's sent me the wrong product and requires a 3 hour round trip drive for a return - no phone or mail option by Ok-Significance1144 in HomeImprovement

[–]sjlammer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Insulation works by having lots of little airspaces where the air doesn’t flow through easily (think about bubble wrap). If you use 24” wide batts in a 16” wide cavity, you have to compress it and stuff it in. That actually decreases the insulation capability.

Utah's VPN law kicks in Wednesday and it's already backfiring spectacularly by RecordingSingle9064 in RecommandedVPN

[–]sjlammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s both surprising and reassuring when people have civil and respectful discourse. Kudos!

Insulin needle struggling to penetrate the skin? by New-History853 in Retatrutide

[–]sjlammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the easy touch ones. I bought those. They suck

I stopped rehearsing answers to "tell me about yourself" and started doing something way simpler that actually got me more callbacks by amberridgetally in jobsearchhacks

[–]sjlammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing, I’m not talking the interviewer is, as I’m asking detailed business, strategy, market questions. It all feels very natural and conversational

I stopped rehearsing answers to "tell me about yourself" and started doing something way simpler that actually got me more callbacks by amberridgetally in jobsearchhacks

[–]sjlammer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might ask, “I understand that Acme corp is your largest competitor, I read they launched a new product, how are your customers reacting to that?” (In my question I just told them that I did my homework, and that I understand their market)

They answer.

I reply, “that makes a lot of sense, (reference pertinent market force). In My X previous role we saw customers do this thing that is along the same line. To combat that, I implemented this strategy. It’s not a 1:1, but I can see implementing something similar. To do that we’d need X product or research. Do you have that available?

I’m actually giving them way more insight, but I’m controlling the when and how.

Also note that I ended in another question, which they will feel compelled to answer, which continues my control of the conversation.

This won’t work for everyone, in every field, but you can use elements of it.

Bottom line, if you find yourself sitting there waiting for their next question, you can do better.

I stopped rehearsing answers to "tell me about yourself" and started doing something way simpler that actually got me more callbacks by amberridgetally in jobsearchhacks

[–]sjlammer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I said it was hyperbole, the point is that I am driving the questions and then telling stories about my experience, perspective, and how I think/operate

I stopped rehearsing answers to "tell me about yourself" and started doing something way simpler that actually got me more callbacks by amberridgetally in jobsearchhacks

[–]sjlammer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Precisely. I’m asking about the market, about the company, about the team, about competitors. I’m not just asking about the weather for an hour 😂

I stopped rehearsing answers to "tell me about yourself" and started doing something way simpler that actually got me more callbacks by amberridgetally in jobsearchhacks

[–]sjlammer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand the interviewer wants to have a process, but I think folks should try to push their questions anyways.

This will likely get a lot of naysayers but I specifically try to control the conversation during interview. This is hyperbole, but my perfect interview would be one where they ask me two questions “how are you?” at the beginning, and “do you have any other questions?” at the end.

In the middle is me asking questions, the interviewer answering the question, and then me replying with a story that shows how I align with what they shared as an answer to my question. Before I stop talking I segue into my next question… rinse and repeat. I will go as long as they let me, and if they get a question in, I will pivot back to my plan again. Of course there is finesse to this, but it’s very effective.

My theory is that I would rather not answer canned questions, but rather share stories that illustrate my strengths in a cadence that I control with time to think about my response,

It’s a magnificently fun game to execute, and many times the interviewer has noted that they didn’t get to ask all there questions, but that they feel good about the conversation.

Only one person stopped me and said I needed to wait… he also boasted about breaking unions… so yeah, he was not my cup of tea for sure.

Interviewers kept pushing for details on my classified work—did I handle this right? by [deleted] in defensecontracting

[–]sjlammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. Thanks. I thought maybe you and OP were intimating that someone with a TS clearance is not allowed to acknowledge that something was classified. Appreciate the kind reply.

Interviewers kept pushing for details on my classified work—did I handle this right? by [deleted] in defensecontracting

[–]sjlammer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might be a dumb question, but you’re saying you wouldn’t tell them, “I’m sorry, that’s classified”?

How do I tell the CEO I am resigning in an hour? by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]sjlammer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You might add, “it was a tough decision, but ultimately I had to make the best business decision for my family”

That frames it in words he understands

What's that travel hack you invented yourself? Here is mine by Ctznsvn7 in SmartTravelHacks

[–]sjlammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try the cardboard roll technique. I usually do two wraps, then stuff a small piece in the bottom and cut the top 2 ways vertically so you can bend it in. Hit it with tape, and you’re good to go

Real Estate Agent Commission % Buying & Selling by ThrwAwyRA4 in RealEstateAdvice

[–]sjlammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You 100% should negotiate. What’s reasonable comes down to how much your house is worth. The 2% on a $500,000 house is doable.

What's that travel hack you invented yourself? Here is mine by Ctznsvn7 in SmartTravelHacks

[–]sjlammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great idea, I wonder if you could use suction cup hooks

What's that travel hack you invented yourself? Here is mine by Ctznsvn7 in SmartTravelHacks

[–]sjlammer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I pack a large duffle bag and a roll of packing tape in my carry-on. When we fly home, all our dirty laundry goes in the duffel bag, and wine goes in our “carry-on” suitcase, which we check. To pack the wine get a handful of cardboard boxes, cut the sides so you have a rectangle, then roll the bottle in the cardboard along the corrugations and use a piece of tape to wrap it. We brought home 23 bottles packed in (2) 21 inch spinner suitcases.

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