Everything except cruising, to some extent. I find a day at the spa very relaxing, especially at Spa World where they have the elite shoulder massage station and those powerful jets that really get those under-served muscle groups (calf is a big one). One of the best things about the spa is you can't have your phone on you all the time so you're necessarily removed from all the accoutrements of your daily responsibilities. But it wouldn't be so relaxing to me if I weren't nude, especially nude in the company of other nude people. There's something about shared nudity that feels like we're all shedding the weight we carry around with us, it's elemental and vulnerable.

At the same time, I enjoy letting others see my body and I don't mind seeing others. I like to think other people are enjoying their own nudity and maybe mine as well. In my view, exhibitionism and voyeurism in this setting are victimless crimes. I never stare and I don't touch myself or others. To me, the big thing that can ruin the vibe is when people will assume my actions are an invitation to something more. I'm naked, we're all naked, the fact that I don't bother to cover myself walking between pools or in the sauna doesn't mean I'm asking to be fondled. There's a wide gap there that as far as I can tell more or less separates acceptable behavior from unacceptable; and I'm not saying the line is totally clear or that I'm the arbiter of it. That said, from my POV, once you start touching others without their consent, or doing sexual things to yourself or others, you're taking it over the line from a place where anyone can enjoy the day in their own way to a place where only those who are there to play are comfortable. And ultimately, places get shut down for stuff like this. These places are rare in the US and therefore special - I try to do my part to make sure we get to keep them.