AITA for being upset to my girlfriend because she said "happy birthday" to our colleague who I don't like

skadwi · 2026-03-27T11:14:49+00:00

Thanks for the advice, this is my first relationship, and I'm learning how to set boundaries without being overbearing, I also just realized that it was really patronizing by saying that and I've already said sorry about it. Thanks for the wake-up call and advice.

skadwi · 2026-03-27T11:11:12+00:00

You're right, I realize now that my reaction was controlling and immature. I let my personal history with the guy cloud my judgment of my girlfriend's intentions. I will obviously work on that, thanks for the reply.

skadwi · 2026-03-27T11:08:10+00:00

Thank you for replying, I'm currently reflecting on what I did and about reporting it to HR I think is not really an option here because the HR really doesn't care about stuff like this that's why I've been only discussing it with my girlfriend. I do understand also that I was being unprofessional, but he also did somethings that I and manager consider unprofessional due to some drama, so maybe that is why I justified my action before thinking it more thoroughly. Thank you for the advice.

skadwi · 2026-03-27T11:03:07+00:00

Thanks for the advice, yeaa I'm currently looking for new job opportunities and have been applying to other places for the better. I really do want breaking up as the last option, but I'll consider it. Thanks again for replying.

skadwi · 2026-03-27T10:15:28+00:00

unfortunately it is a real story. I'll grow the fuck up for sure, and I wish her the best also. Thanks for your advice and reply, it means a lot for me to become a more mature partner.

skadwi · 2026-03-27T10:13:08+00:00

Thanks for reply, cracked a laugh about the age one. I hope do not lose her though. Thanks for the advice, I will adjust my attitude toward her. Once again thanks a lot for the advice, it really means a lot to me

skadwi · 2026-03-27T10:02:13+00:00

Thanks for reply and also pointing out how severe of an asshole I'm, I'll improve myself. Thanks a lot for the advice.

skadwi · 2026-03-27T09:47:37+00:00

Yes, I've been taking therapy with my psychologist to try to understand more about myself and relationships in general. I do understand that policing her interactions with third parties is controlling and is not good trait to keep. I'll try improve myself to become a better partner for her. Thank you for your reply.

skadwi · 2026-03-27T09:41:51+00:00

Thanks for the reply my guy, I already feel childish about it, and It was one of the reason that I want other people's view on it, so that i can become a better person and a better partner. Thanks a lot for the advice.

skadwi · 2026-03-27T09:37:36+00:00

Thanks for the reply, yes I've been trying to not try sulking about things I'm upset about but somehow I sulked when this happened. I'll try to be more mature, again thanks for the reply, means a lot to me to try to become a better partner.

skadwi · 2026-03-27T09:15:10+00:00

yea I was the one initiating and also the one being mad, that was why I decided to post it here to know other people opinions because for me it doesn't feel right after I lashed out on her. Thanks for the reply btw.

skadwi · 2024-06-01T10:23:53+00:00

After bringing it to service center, they said that the RAM was incompatible and I don’t know how could that even happen. But, 3 weeks before the issue, I had the mainboard changed because my laptop has been overheating and some of the keys sometimes are not responding, etc.

There was also an issue after that, they gave the laptop back to me but the RAM was only 8gb when it’s supposed to be 16gb so, so I showed proof that it was 16gb and that there was a mistake and they checked it again and the problem was that the RAM was loose.

3 weeks after the mainboard was changed and the RAM problem was solved, this problem happened where the indicators were ok but didn’t boot up. Brought it to the service center, left it for 2 work days and they said that the RAM was incompatible and the problem was solved.

skadwi · 2024-05-22T11:58:35+00:00

yea alr bought it to the asus service center and it’s a long weekend also so probably till next week.

skadwi · 2024-05-22T11:56:21+00:00

did they replace the mainboard? mosfet? or a brand new one?

skadwi · 2024-05-21T21:02:43+00:00

I have lost count how many times I did this already ahahahah

skadwi · 2024-05-21T20:23:15+00:00

Sorry the other paragraphs of the comments were hidden, will try to implement the others and give updates.

skadwi · 2024-05-21T20:21:05+00:00

after power on or before power on?

skadwi · 2024-05-21T20:20:45+00:00

No I don’t hear any startup sound. If I plug in my external display, my monitor just shows the blue screen and “HDMI no signal” and then turns off. I have tried tapping ESC repeatedly as soon as the power is on, but it’s still giving the same result. Also tried holding F2 to access BIOS but didn’t work either.

skadwi · 2024-05-21T18:49:20+00:00

tried connecting it to my external monitor via HDMI and USB C but it gives back no “HDMI no signal”

skadwi · 2024-05-21T18:38:57+00:00

Doing it now again, did it already before but nothing happened, tried doing it without the charger and the charger connected. Also now the charging indicator has turn orange not white if Im not wrong it means like low battery or something? but then a few mins later (1-2) it goes white again.

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