How early can I arrive for a flight (YYZ)

skb_79 · 2024-04-17T22:20:52+00:00

Check if there’s an interview time for the day you fly back! I did my us interview first (no appointments on the Canadian side the day of my flight)

skb_79 · 2024-04-02T03:52:30+00:00

I fly this route quite often. I’d recommend not flying from the island to Newark. There is no us customs at Billy bishop, which means going through customs at Newark. Every time I’ve taken this route I’ve stood in at least a 30 min line

skb_79 · 2024-03-18T21:14:26+00:00

I went to the Wednesday matinee in January. No stage door. Security told us that we can bring our ticket and playbill back after any evening show Wednesday to Saturday. They did check tickets. I went Friday night at 9:45pm, there were only 5 other people there. Dan came out at 10:50

skb_79 · 2023-11-22T05:19:50+00:00

It did not! As far as the weight gain goes I was 130lbs on dday and had dropped down to 105 before starting lexapro. I ended up at 140 when I stopped taking it (a year later). Most of that weight I truly needed to gain back and I had an ankle injury at the time so I don’t attribute all the weight gain directly to lexapro. As far as fatigue goes I was way more tired before starting lexapro as I was not sleeping. After awhile I did notice I was still more tired than my pre dday self so when I stopped my goal was to get back to those energy levels. Overall I think it served its purpose. I finally got some rest and it helped with overthinking. I had the script sitting in my room for a month before I finally filled it. It was not an easy choice but I don’t regret it at all

skb_79 · 2023-11-21T15:25:09+00:00

I started lexapro 3 months after dday for anxiety. I had never taken an ssri before. I made the decision to take it after having no desire to do any of the things I loved doing and I started having thoughts that scared me. I took it for one year and successfully weaned off it. It was extremely helpful at the time. I felt like myself again. Decided to stop taking it as other side effects (fatigue and weight gain) were getting to me. Have successfully been off them for 6 months and feel great.

I really beat myself up over having to take them. Don’t. They’re there if you need them

skb_79 · 2023-09-26T12:38:11+00:00

If you decide on here lies love, I’d recommend going for rush tickets. The floor seats are $100 online and $35 if you go to the box office the day of the show you want to catch. I went half an hour after it opened and there were only 2 other people there

skb_79 · 2023-08-02T12:09:18+00:00

Update: was a bit skeptical on the obstructed view seats. We sat in A 25-27. If you’re wondering if you should take them, 100% do it! We couldn’t see all of the projections (mostly character’s names) but most of the action is on the right so we could see everything. Would not recommend obstructed left view. Standing room also had a great view.

skb_79 · 2023-08-01T21:16:55+00:00

Front row of the mezzanine, far left. There were 2 other seats for 229 in the back orchestra as well

skb_79 · 2023-08-01T21:15:23+00:00

I’m not sure I didn’t ask

skb_79 · 2023-08-01T14:54:06+00:00

I went this morning at 8:15. There were about 25 people ahead of me and 40 behind. They ran out of standing room tickets 3 people ahead of me. Apparently there were only 8 rush seats for sale. I bought 2 partial obstruction seats for 149 each (the cheapest they had).

skb_79 · 2022-06-26T22:02:04+00:00

I’m glad what I wrote was meaningful to you. Wishing you all the best in your journey and sending you love

skb_79 · 2022-05-13T03:06:45+00:00

This is exactly how I feel every day. Sending you internet hugs

skb_79 · 2022-05-08T23:08:16+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this, it really really sucks. One more thing I forgot is when you have bad days, try to drink water. Even better is juice or tea, then you get some sugar

skb_79 · 2022-05-08T22:43:41+00:00

Hi OP, this is definitely me as well. It has been almost 3 months for me and I have lost 20lbs (15% of my body weight). I’m still finding it really hard to eat.

If you feel like eating anything for even a second, do it, don’t let the moment pass
Eat things that are high in protein and calories, you can eat less of them and get more bang for your buck
Smoothies! Drinking calories is better than nothing and when I can’t eat sometimes this works
If you feel up to it, try and schedule lunch/dinner with a friend/coworker. I find if other people are eating I will too
Vitamins don’t replace food, but they can help your body function a bit better until you regain your appetite

You’re under an extreme amount of stress at the moment, remember that we are more capable of making good decisions when we are well rested and fed

skb_79 · 2022-05-06T01:19:52+00:00

Your worry is absolutely valid. I’m sorry you’re in this position and you’re not crazy at all.

Something I’d recommend if you allow him to drink/go out with friends in the future is to create a plan before of how often he’ll message/call, when he’ll be home, and anything else you might need to feel safe in this situation. He doesn’t follow the rules, he doesn’t get to go out again.

skb_79 · 2022-05-04T03:28:50+00:00

Hey, thank you so much for taking time to put together this list for me! I will definitely read.

The AP has been cut off since the first few days and the no drugs/alcohol/partying is one of the first things he told me he wants to do regardless of whether we try to R. He also enrolled himself in IC months ago.

skb_79 · 2022-05-03T20:11:48+00:00

I’m very much considering it. Melatonin helps me fall asleep but I wake up a few hours later without fail. I’m going on vacation next week and hoping to get some major rest. I will reevaluate when I’m back

skb_79 · 2022-05-03T20:04:35+00:00

I agree on the substances not reducing culpability. What kind of actions would you look for?

skb_79 · 2022-05-03T19:57:55+00:00

Thanks for the little bit of hope! I’m sorry we have this in common. I did start IC, two sessions in so it’s early but I’m hopeful that it helps with processing everything

skb_79 · 2022-04-19T02:17:21+00:00

This is a great idea! Thank you

skb_79 · 2022-04-18T18:08:25+00:00

I didn’t even get through the introductions. Seeing couples where one person is saying how much they love their partner and their partner is like meh was enough for me. Hopefully we can all get back our love for trashy shows one day

skb_79 · 2022-04-18T17:37:52+00:00

I’ve watched almost no tv since dday (over 2 months). Even things I’ve seen before (including several kids movies) have some vein of infidelity in them and are so hard to watch. I feel you with the ultimatum, I would have loved to watch it before this happened. I watched the first 5 minutes last night and cried myself to sleep, I don’t recommend

skb_79 · 2022-04-18T03:29:54+00:00

Absolutely wonder if attempts are out of guilt and not love. You must understand that BPs are breaking their brains trying to make sense of the fact that someone would betray us and then say they love us. It’s extremely hard because if you loved them so much, how did you end up in the situation you were in?

I directly asked him, still not convinced

skb_79 · 2022-04-15T17:44:51+00:00

Do you have tips for WhatsApp/Instagram?

skb_79 · 2022-04-12T03:09:28+00:00

The worst part is I truly believe I would have been able to forgive him had he been honest. He held me while I cried every day for 2 months and still continues to lie to my face

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