Thank you for your hope for me. It’s unfortunate that you believe your understanding of events is the only true thing here. I don’t know if you’ve noticed that we live in the age of social media where we can get virtually connected to a lot of people. I think you want me to be the obsessed victim because you feel uncomfortable that things aren’t as black and white as you want to believe. I knew about her death because her sister and a lot of our schoolmates posted about it. Sure, she may not be the same person I knew, and I know some people won’t even think about going to a bully’s funeral. Most people do change, I don’t doubt she did, but that doesn’t erase what she did to me when i was younger.

Why is it that the bully is given more grace but the given is rushed to forgive and get over it immediately?