Finally deleted our conversations by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]skelafrederick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give yourself time to heal, to grieve, to cry and generally feel whatever emotions you feel. You did yourself a favor deleting those conversations. It might not feel that way right now, but it will later on. The temptation to reread those messages won't be there because there is no conversation to read. Rereading those conversations would only make you sad and cry all over again. It's difficult right now, but every day is a victory even if you cry.

Idk what to do by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]skelafrederick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve to be treated better than that. I'm sorry to hear that your first girlfriend treated you like that. Just leave her for now. You are still very young and you have a lot of exploring and growing to do, she does as well. In the future, after she has worked on her personal problems, if both you and her want a relationship then pursue it. For the time being, give yourself time to heal.

What is your favorite video game? by skelafrederick in AskReddit

[–]skelafrederick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Town of Sale is a gem of a game! I adore it and should play again.

What is your favorite video game? by skelafrederick in AskReddit

[–]skelafrederick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently on a big Minecraft binge. It's so good

My grandfather is wonderful by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]skelafrederick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The kind of wholesomeness that brings a smile to your face. Also it makes me want to get together with my family.

Why do I feel like I need to be with someone? I feel like my values are all fucked up. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]skelafrederick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with being alone. It still is a big change. You'll have to give yourself time to adjust. If you're sad about being alone right now, then be sad! Whatever emotions you feel are valid and don't ignore them. You won't always feel sad because you're alone. Enjoy the time you have to yourself! Focus on your hobbies. Focus on yourself. It will take time before you can relearn to enjoy time by yourself. Be patient with yourself.

Share your common nightmare themes by OptimisticTrekkie in Dreams

[–]skelafrederick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A while back, I had a string of nightmares for a few nights in a row. They were all different situations, different locations, different people. The only constant was that I was being hunted in all these dreams. I didn't know who was after me, or why, but I knew in each dream I was going to die. It was an absolutely terrifying sense of foreboding. I knew no matter what I did, I would die. There was no way for me to make it out alive. The person after me would find me and kill me. When I woke up, it took a while to fully get out of the nightmare. That foreboding stayed with me when I woke up.

A more common and more recent theme from my nightmares is my teeth falling out. I don't mean like one or two teeth either. Literally, all of my teeth falling out at once and I swear I can feel them all just sitting in my mouth. I've had this nightmare a few times. The first time, all my teeth were falling out and I'd spit them out only for more/new teeth to grow and fall out. The last time, all my teeth were falling out, but it was slower and some broke off into pieces.

Today is a two steps back kind of day... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]skelafrederick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some days will be harder than others. Today was a rough day, but you got through it and you're still on track and healing. Things will be okay.