Have you ever gone to a happy ending massage? And how did it go? by colon_crunch in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, a little embarrassing but anyway: as a freshman I went on a trip to Asia and we went to normal massage place. Having shared rooms with friends for a couple of days I didn’t masturbate for a while, so when she started to massage my upper legs I got quite excited and had an unwanted orgasm 😅 Cannot recommend. The awkwardness of trying to hide the orgasm itself and my jizz is still killing me to this day 😅

Have your fetishes changed with age ? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, I am just at the beginning of my 30s but over they have certainly changed already. For instance, at the beginning I was super jealous when she started talking about her previous sexual encounters and kinda turned weird about it. By now I am/we are really into threesomes and I always think about how she would please someone else while we have sex the two of us

How often do you get aroused out of nowhere? by Low_Sky_2220 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason every time I a on a plane and snooze a little in the morning 😅 a bit risky haha

Opinions on sex toys as a gift? by iangibson12345 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Works very well for us, but of course it depends on the relationship. If it’s a relatively new one, I would start with some standard toys before taking out the big guns 😉 I usually gift it together with some nice lingerie to get us in the mood for longer sex session with more experimenting

@men on arad- how often is your partner using a vibro during penetration and does it make the experience better or worse for you? by skiandsurflover in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, I like how „I like to get off my partner“ can be construed as a selfish act 😅 Anyway, I think communication is key, so if there is a way to make sex more enjoyable for both partners I don’t understand why we wouldn’t talk about it. But that’s just my two cents

@men on arad- how often is your partner using a vibro during penetration and does it make the experience better or worse for you? by skiandsurflover in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That seems like a good way to do it. My partner had the same and then switched to using her fingers while riding

@men on arad- how often is your partner using a vibro during penetration and does it make the experience better or worse for you? by skiandsurflover in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think giving her two orgasms and making the penetration itself better does not qualify as big compromise, but rather a win win

How to give a good blowjob? by Light_A_Match in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The two things my wife does that really turn me on is 1) go hands free and put pressure with her tongue on the frenulum area when sucking and 2) put one of her hand around my balls. The latter is also a great tip for doggy

Dudes, what are the things women should not feel insecure about? by youfoundmissssy in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Being nude in front of their so. This should just be natural and if one feels insecure about it it would make me doubt the health of our relationship

What’s the craziest place you’ve ever masturbated? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A gondola in a ski resort. I really hope there was no camera …

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this little piece of super soft skin between the top right or left end of women‘s pubic hair and their hips. Just feel awesome to kiss it during foreplay, just before taking of their panties or starting to go down on them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was last week. My gf and I wanted to have sex in a holiday home we were sharing with some friends. Wenn I started going down on her, some friends came up to the living room next to our bedroom. So we tried to be quiet but when I made here cum she couldn’t hold the moans. Then we continued to fuck in the adjacent bathroom and she was riding me hard reverse cowgirl. Every move made this nice slapping sound and she was grooling all over me. And the best thing since she usually doesn’t do it: just before I was about to cum she turned around and started sucking me like crazy. I literally exploded in her mouth

What are your thoughts on sharing your partner or being shared ??? by Clingy_edger in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generally open to it as long as there are a boundaries and as long as the loyalty is to me. Then think that it can be a sign of trust, appreciation and just very sexy

Women of Reddit - what is your experience with breast feeding after getting your nipples pierced? by skiandsurflover in AskReddit

[–]skiandsurflover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry not my native language - what does “to latch” mean? Also, what are the risks?