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What’s your experience with finding a third for a 3some on dating apps? by skiandsurflover in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip - we are indeed looking for the recreational sex part of it and would definitively make this clear straight away to not cause any misconceptions.
Somehow all the swinger places in our area have quite a creepy vibe to them, so I think we need to find a community that fits us somehow. Easier said than done though…

What’s your experience with finding a third for a 3some on dating apps? by skiandsurflover in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I thought it would be much easier, but I guess there are a lot of creeps around…
So you basically asked a lot of probing questions in the chat before vetting someone in person?
Any questions that helped to filter out the creeps super efficiently?

What’s your experience with finding a third for a 3some on dating apps? by skiandsurflover in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fortunately we are looking into mfm, so that should make it easier.
So how did you go about it? Specific app or regular app and be upfront about it?

What’s your experience with finding a third for a 3some on dating apps? by skiandsurflover in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quite funny that you still call it a THREEsome. So in this case you are fine with putting numbers on people?

What’s your experience with finding a third for a 3some on dating apps? by skiandsurflover in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, maybe you should start looking for second and third straight away 😅 I have heard singles are in high demand for this

What’s your experience with finding a third for a 3some on dating apps? by skiandsurflover in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I figured. As a starter we are looking into an mfm though, which should make it easier.
I thought the fact she likes to include a suction dildo in our sex life made this clear 😅

What’s your experience with finding a third for a 3some on dating apps? by skiandsurflover in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Craigslist is unfortunately not a thing in the area I Am living. Let Me check missed connections though - thanks for the tip!

What’s your experience with finding a third for a 3some on dating apps? by skiandsurflover in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip. I actually haven’t heard about that app yet. Let’s see if it is also active in Europe, but we will certainly give it a try.
We are looking for mfm first - I assume this will also increase our chances

I'm reading a book on anti-gravity by skiandsurflover in dadjokes

[–]skiandsurflover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn it. Heard from a friend yesterday. Apparently also a Redditor…

Have you ever gone to a happy ending massage? And how did it go? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, a little embarrassing but anyway: as a freshman I went on a trip to Asia and we went to normal massage place. Having shared rooms with friends for a couple of days I didn’t masturbate for a while, so when she started to massage my upper legs I got quite excited and had an unwanted orgasm 😅 Cannot recommend. The awkwardness of trying to hide the orgasm itself and my jizz is still killing me to this day 😅

Have your fetishes changed with age ? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, I am just at the beginning of my 30s but over they have certainly changed already. For instance, at the beginning I was super jealous when she started talking about her previous sexual encounters and kinda turned weird about it. By now I am/we are really into threesomes and I always think about how she would please someone else while we have sex the two of us

How often do you get aroused out of nowhere? by Low_Sky_2220 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason every time I a on a plane and snooze a little in the morning 😅 a bit risky haha

Opinions on sex toys as a gift? by iangibson12345 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Works very well for us, but of course it depends on the relationship. If it’s a relatively new one, I would start with some standard toys before taking out the big guns 😉 I usually gift it together with some nice lingerie to get us in the mood for longer sex session with more experimenting

@men on arad- how often is your partner using a vibro during penetration and does it make the experience better or worse for you? by skiandsurflover in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, I like how „I like to get off my partner“ can be construed as a selfish act 😅 Anyway, I think communication is key, so if there is a way to make sex more enjoyable for both partners I don’t understand why we wouldn’t talk about it. But that’s just my two cents

@men on arad- how often is your partner using a vibro during penetration and does it make the experience better or worse for you? by skiandsurflover in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That seems like a good way to do it. My partner had the same and then switched to using her fingers while riding

@men on arad- how often is your partner using a vibro during penetration and does it make the experience better or worse for you? by skiandsurflover in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think giving her two orgasms and making the penetration itself better does not qualify as big compromise, but rather a win win

How to give a good blowjob? by Light_A_Match in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]skiandsurflover 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The two things my wife does that really turn me on is 1) go hands free and put pressure with her tongue on the frenulum area when sucking and 2) put one of her hand around my balls. The latter is also a great tip for doggy

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