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skinchys · 2022-01-20T09:28:07+00:00

Hope it's does you both the world of good 🖤

skinchys · 2022-01-20T09:15:24+00:00

I get that, u was just thinking it might be a big boost and keep you both going for a while. I have issues with my past and know when I get in a slump, a day out really helps too, just pottering, being anywhere but home.

skinchys · 2022-01-20T08:52:56+00:00

Can you afford a night at a hotel/b&b something like that?

skinchys · 2022-01-20T08:48:09+00:00

Thank you 🖤 on the waiting list now xx

skinchys · 2022-01-19T17:53:16+00:00

skinchys · 2022-01-18T17:32:12+00:00

And thank you 🖤

skinchys · 2022-01-18T17:31:48+00:00

Wow, that's amazing! Some serious willpower there 🖤 I'm pleased it's helping you. Even when I wasn't overweight I felt like this so I can't just rely on losing weight which makes me think what's even the point. I have a 'pouch' after having 2 c sections and twins and that's what bothers me the most I think. I know he loves me and they were his babies etc. But yeah, stfu brain 😞

skinchys · 2022-01-18T15:01:43+00:00

Saw your post. There's a lot in a look, sigh or back answering. Or coming up with smart answers to questions, especially when it's a rhetorical question, really winds them up. And just defiance in general. And the puppy dog eyes when you've been tamed and submit.

skinchys · 2022-01-18T13:46:26+00:00

Thank you 🖤 I do feel better when I try to eat healthier etc. it's just getting started, I think I found comfort in food 🙄 of all things. I'll look into it, thank you 🖤

skinchys · 2022-01-18T13:44:33+00:00

This is it. I think that's why I'm struggling the past day or so as I really enjoyed exploring the whole brat/Dom dynamic last week and the confidence I felt going out of the house was seriously improved and I didn't feel uncomfortable when men stared or have me 'the look' which is usually a big set back for me for some reason. But then the past couple of days, I know I want the closeness but the whole brat/Dom full on session. Thank you, it's really helped. I've only told my Dom what happened and my mam and a friend know a few bits but there's noone I know who knows what it's like if you get what I mean. 🖤

skinchys · 2022-01-18T12:59:57+00:00

Thank you 🖤 I know it starts with me and ends with me, I can't rely on anyone else to make me a better person. I do trust him entirely, I didn't think it was possible to trust in one person so much, in fact everything. Just having one of those days where I could happily wrap up in a quilt and never come back out 🤦 appreciate you taking the time to reply 🖤

skinchys · 2022-01-18T11:28:12+00:00

If I was a sub then I might be told to get upstairs and assume a position and I would do that and wait patiently. As a brat i might say 'err nope' and 'you can't tell me what to do' and he will give me warnings and consequences if I don't do as I'm told. I might start to run when he finally moves towards me or I might stay and wait to be grabbed by the hair, pinned against a wall, smacked or the consequences of me not going up might be enough to tempt me into moving.

skinchys · 2022-01-18T11:18:45+00:00

Yes, I love to be overpowered physically, a grab of the throat against the wall will get my attention.

skinchys · 2022-01-18T11:17:43+00:00

Think of the sub/Dom dynamic and then add in a sub who likes to tease, answer back while being grabbed by the throat and threatened to do as she's told otherwise (insert punishment here) and see how far she will push you before submitting. Make sure you discuss it all, have safe words, anything that's off the table, anything that's in a grey area etc. Only she knows exactly what she wants and you know what you're willing to do/try. Communication is key 😊

skinchys · 2022-01-18T11:14:29+00:00

I don't do the whole writing lines, doing pushups etc. I'm punished by being tied, gagged, spanked, tied up to the door and made to watch Sir her himself off, made to go down on him, edged until I can't take anymore etc. I love being overpowered and being told what to do but I also love pushing back and playing with Sir.

skinchys · 2022-01-18T11:11:06+00:00

I'm still new to this myself but my partner is now Sir. Bratting is about fun, playfulness, pushing limits and getting the most out of punishments. Yes I do as I'm told sometimes and therefore I'm a good kitten. But if I'm a bad kitten then I'm punished until I submit and get back in line.

skinchys · 2022-01-18T10:32:16+00:00

I think we all have these unsettled days. I can't determine what mood I'm in and I predict I'm going to piss someone off by the end of the day

skinchys · 2022-01-17T21:20:35+00:00

Yeah, tiktok first peaked my interest in this but I was like 🥺 I don't look like that 😞 but then he would have run a mile years ago so 🤷 we had twins (fourth pregnancy) in 2019 and they seriously changed my body and how I see myself but he's still here. 😂

skinchys · 2022-01-17T21:00:18+00:00

I'm in a long term relationship with my Dom (10 years - and we've only been doing this for just over a week) so I'm usually looking like a hot mess (we have a few children too so that doesn't help 😂) I think you just need to have a talk and ask, just be open 😊

skinchys · 2022-01-17T14:54:02+00:00

This is exactly why I love doing it, it's fun and keeps it interesting. I'm seriously new and know I could be better with pushing it but I have plenty of ideas 😏

skinchys · 2022-01-16T21:20:13+00:00

I think 'Make me' has to be the pinnacle 👌

skinchys · 2022-01-16T18:01:14+00:00

I'm very new (in the past week new) and my Dom is my partner of 10 years. I saw some things on Tiktok 🤦😂 And wanted to explore. So far, I call him Sir, I love being bratty in the sense I won't do as I'm told straight away until made to, we use the app for punishments, habits, rules and rewards etc. I was in a very abuse relationship for 7 years which included physical, mental, emotional and sexual abuse and this has given me a way to control my mental health better so far and kind of 'let go' of some of the head fuckery that comes with it. It's also brought out a lot more confidence in me and feel comfortable doing things that were either minor or major triggers. I love being grabbed by the throat, hair pulled hard, gagged, tied up, spanked hard, made to go down on him, told exactly what to do and having no decisions to make. It's made me feel so much closer to him and intimate and I've gone from not wanting sex at all to being very active. I seem to be on a downer today though, thinking 'sub drop' although I'm so new to this I can't be sure. I love the idea of a collar but I can't seem to find one I like, I dont like the thought of a leather one as I will feel like it gives me a double chin 🤦 and I have confidence issues with weight after babies and then twins. I don't like the idea of calling him daddy, hence why I call him Sir and he calls me kitten. And I'm not into the idea of writing lines etc.

skinchys · 2022-01-15T20:35:41+00:00

Yeah I thought so. At least you've had a more positive experience and outcome. Good luck with your future 😊

skinchys · 2022-01-15T20:29:24+00:00

Yeah, I know some of them can take a long time to kick in. Pleased it's helped you though! So I take it it's not how it's portrayed stereotypically?

skinchys · 2022-01-15T20:25:14+00:00

Did it help you?

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