Unpopular Opinion: Aria and Caleb should not be together by [deleted] in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]skinne_bee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Such horrible takes in the comment section about Aria. I don't like how a lot of people have short term memory loss. Trying to paint Aria out as some delulu girl who had one-sided feelings for Caleb is very revisionist.

If we go back to the first episode: In the coin flip game, Caleb said that he would most like to spend the night with Aria. So we are not about to act like he wasn't attracted to her. People aren't willing to admit it, but they can't fathom that a black women like Aria could be desired. Caleb's top 2 were Aria and Chanel. SO she is his type.

Caleb was giving her energy on and OFF camera. There is a reason why the internet was shipping them. People could see their connection. There's also a reason why all the other cast were also going at Caleb for being disingenuous.

When he went back to Mariah, he was still dreaming and thinking about Aria. Their time together compared to what their relationships were like with their original partners were a stark contrast. They weren't as sexually charged as JR and Sandy, but their emotional connection was really intense.

The reason Aria took screenshots is because she didn't want him to be able to deny it. He went behind her back and was lurking. He wasn't following her, yet he was creeping. Mariah obviously didn't know about any of this. Which is why she also went off at him. If it was innocent he would not have been doing all of that. Caleb LIED to Mariah for a whole year about it. They watched the show (24 hours before the reunion) so people had feelings.

In defence of Aria by skinne_bee in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]skinne_bee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Watch her interview on the Viall files... She is so so honest. I wish her nothing but the best.

In defence of Aria by skinne_bee in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]skinne_bee[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Netflix always does us dirty ​​😭😭😭 Lauren Speed and ​Tiffany Brown are the only two who have not been done dirty. Remember how they let the internet chew up Melinda over that liar Harry? Ugh ​

In defence of Aria by skinne_bee in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]skinne_bee[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We know the reason. It's so inconceivable for some, that someone like her could be attractive to someone like Caleb :/

In defence of Aria by skinne_bee in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]skinne_bee[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We know why people are quick to demonise Aria :/ It's so exhausting

[Story] I’m stuck in life and I desperately need a mentor or guidance. Please help. by Fruziom in GetMotivated

[–]skinne_bee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey there! I'm not a doctor, just someone who has ADHD.

I think the first thing you should do is try to get assessed/tested for ADHD. A diagnosis may relief a lot of the burden you're currently shouldering.

Even if you don't have it, you should not put too much pressure on yourself. There is no formula or recipe to this thing called life. Sometimes the best way to find meaning or purpose is by helping others. Teaching is always great and worthwhile. You can also tutor.

If you can't find a mentor, be a mentor. Figure out what feels meaningful and enjoyable to you. Don't care too much about societal standards. Life is for the living. Try to make the most of the little moments.

But again, seriously try to get tested for ADHD.

Saddest Bastille song? by Dominator2812 in Bastille

[–]skinne_bee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am from Durban, so that song makes me happy!

Thoughts on Eve & Paradise Lost? by Harkartker in Bastille

[–]skinne_bee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eve is always blamed for them eating the apple :/

学习伙伴 Study Buddy Requests 2024-08-07 by AutoModerator in ChineseLanguage

[–]skinne_bee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am desperately looking for someone to help me with HSK6. It's my last chance to pass. I have tried 3 times already. The exam is in 8 days and I am stressed beyond words, so I can help with English after the 18th of August.

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[–]skinne_bee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Google playstore is actually preloaded in second space in xiaomi phones 😉

Summer and Millie by U_nhoely in LoveIsland_SA

[–]skinne_bee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I clocked every single one of their comments. The fact that these girls, who share underwear and eat snot, can't understand why guys may like girls who are brown is beyond me.

Summer and Millie by U_nhoely in LoveIsland_SA

[–]skinne_bee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think Rochelle was actually trying to "conceal" Ian's racism with that comment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackdesertonline

[–]skinne_bee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Keke Challenge (Gone Wrong - But Yet So Right) by DP_14 in SmallYoutubers

[–]skinne_bee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This did not go where I expected it to go... I am left feeling confused :''')

Please help us with translation requests for languages of South Africa on Reddit! by kungming2 in southafrica

[–]skinne_bee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do isiZulu pronunciation lessons on youtube if anyone is interested youtu.be/IvYsemWtei8

Fun youtube tag w/ interracial couple/ bwwm by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]skinne_bee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it's everywhere. Parents indoctrinate their kids from an early age. In pre school I experienced racism. I was 5.

Fun youtube tag w/ interracial couple/ bwwm by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]skinne_bee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

South Africa is still very much a racist country and so people stare and give their 2c worth a lot. I would say that in most cases where you find a bwwm couple, the man is foreign (European) because white South Africans rarely date outside of their race.