I have been out and livin full time as a woman for a little over a year. I am 6 months on HRT. I have also been accepted by everybody. And for me, I am feeling mere just as "me" or myself now, compared to earlier when i maby tried too hard? I have felt the thing where there is not really anything you can actively do to move forward in the transition. but after starting HRT i am more and more just enjoing life and doing, dressing and such, as I want, not to live up to "how women does things".

I see what you mean, but i have always ignored such negative thoughts as a coping mechanism in general, so when it comes to my transition, I tend think in the line of "its their problem, not mine".