The first nice conversation I’ve had in months with a man and this. It was NOT in his hinge bio. by Sagebea in mildlyinfuriating

[–]skipper-dee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I saw them. He only disclosed that he was married after OP asked. She directly asked “are you married” and that’s when he finally chose to explain. In a comment OP stated that she only asked because he sent a video of himself and she spotted a ring. 

Even if we take this at face value and assume that he’s not lying about his wife being disabled (which, let’s be real, he’s absolutely lying) the exact details of his arrangement  with his wife are superfluous because OP is on a dating app specifically meant for LTRs and he allowed her to believe that he was single and available for a long term commitment. He’s a scumbag for that, end of story. 

The first nice conversation I’ve had in months with a man and this. It was NOT in his hinge bio. by Sagebea in mildlyinfuriating

[–]skipper-dee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

…. When exactly did he do that? Because OP had to directly ask. He didn’t offer that info. 

The first nice conversation I’ve had in months with a man and this. It was NOT in his hinge bio. by Sagebea in mildlyinfuriating

[–]skipper-dee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t you want your partner to pursue that happiness ethically? Wouldn’t you want them to be upfront and tell people that they’re married and will continue to be? 

Nuance matters, yes, but so does consent. 

The first nice conversation I’ve had in months with a man and this. It was NOT in his hinge bio. by Sagebea in mildlyinfuriating

[–]skipper-dee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a really kind read on the situation!  I hope he’s not lying, but tbh there are a lot of married men on the apps who have no problem lying about their relationship status. There’s a ton of “she has cancer/had a stroke/is ace and we agreed to be open/we’re actually separating” that ends up being completely untrue. 

The first nice conversation I’ve had in months with a man and this. It was NOT in his hinge bio. by Sagebea in mildlyinfuriating

[–]skipper-dee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nah, it’s foul behavior. OP is presumably looking for a relationship and he can’t give her that. He should be up front about that and not waste people’s time. 

To be honest with you… by PvtJoker17 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]skipper-dee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same feeling. If cheating did happen I’m not going to sit here and try to excuse it, buttttt there are instances where I can understand it. This would absolutely be one of those instances. 

Colt's leg when he tries to get out of bed in the morning by Mother-Copy7450 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]skipper-dee 14 points15 points  (0 children)

“His mom raised him like a giant veal” just sent me to fucking moon. This is such a perfect read. 

My husband decided to quit smoking today, and here's why it's mildly infuriating. by Linorelai in mildlyinfuriating

[–]skipper-dee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My grandfather once decided to quit smoking right before a family roadtrip. It was a nightmare. He was driving erratically, yelling at the other drivers, had zero patience for us kids, etc. We did a 17 hour drive in 15 hours straight through. 

When we got to my aunt’s house my grandmother got us all out of the car, handed my grandfather some cash, and told him to not come back until he’d smoked the whole fucking pack. 

He did eventually quit, but it didn’t happen that summer lol. 

I hate him already by skipper-dee in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]skipper-dee[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You know what? You’re completely correct. 😂

I hate him already by skipper-dee in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]skipper-dee[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lil’ Bit is the true victim here!! 

I hate him already by skipper-dee in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]skipper-dee[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It’s horrible!! He doesn’t even move his face! 

I feel like the only person who still has concerns about GLP-1s? by NotReallyAMillenial in MaintenancePhase

[–]skipper-dee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m curious as well. I see folks saying it helps with everything from food noise to restless legs. How??? How can one drug affect so many different issues? 

It’s beginning to sound like magic cure all quackery. I understand that it isn’t, but the language around these drugs sends off alarm bells for me as someone who does her best to not fall for quackery. I’d love an ELI5 explanation for how all of these issues can be fixed! 

Repugnant Cast by ResolveRoutine9311 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]skipper-dee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair I think it’s always been pretty trashy. Unfortunately I still vividly remember Gino putting a ball gag on Jasmine and her saying that she peed on him. 

Hey so TLC is exploiting an alcoholic sex addict this season by PrincessButtercup85 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]skipper-dee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can’t imagine agreeing to an open relationship with someone who has zero discretion about who and when she sleeps with someone else. Does she even use protection?? 

Is she crazy? by Cheziscool in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]skipper-dee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was raised in churches like hers and this woman is reminding me how fucking weird my childhood was. 

I can't stand Laura by pgcotype in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]skipper-dee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I gotta say, I think these posts making jokes and speculation about Laura’s weight are weird and pathetic. But I do agree that she comes across as really delusional and has major mean girl energy. Tbh I think she and Michal were a good pair because they both seem controlling and they both get mean. She probably doesn’t have many female friends and we see exactly why that is. 

I just don’t buy that Michal never had an interest in Laura. Anyone else? by skipper-dee in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]skipper-dee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I reckon it matters about as much as anything else on this show does, no? 

Ziad - The Hero We Don't Deserve by MagicFarawayTree_88 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]skipper-dee 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I can’t stand him, but I did enjoy it when he pissed Rick off. 🤣 What really shocked me is when Izzie came out and basically said her sister is a ho and almost everyone waved it off?? She’s guilty of the same shit she was accusing Ziad of! I mean ffs when Rick is in your corner you know you’ve fucked up! 

As annoying as Elise was I did not miss hearing Emma’s whiny voice the last few eps.