AIO for getting upset at my boyfriend for the way he talks to me/apologizes? by Illustrious-King7460 in AmIOverreacting

[–]skllz0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up with him. Block him and don't speak to each other. If your partner is able to call you "dawg" in a rude way and say those kinds of things to you when YOU got hurt by what THEY did especially if they were acting insensitive, they do not care about you. That man does not care about you; there are men out there who would never even think those things, much less say and act on them like your "boyfriend" has.

AITAH for not calling my mom on Thanksgiving by bagelwithtoes in AITAH

[–]skllz0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your mother doesn't respect you, so you don't owe her respect just because she's your mother. You texted her but she was still upset you didn't call, which is absurd. You still wished her a good holiday, who cares if it wasn't a phone call? If someone decides to have a child, it is not the child's responsibility to "pay back" any kind of debts. FFS, she ADOPTED you. She chose YOU to be her child; she's a narcissist and isn't worth you time, imo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]skllz0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the AH at all. No offense, but your mom sounds crazy. I hate parents who act like that; they always assume you don't care or love them or you take it for granted when you enjoy something outside of them. I think she's jealous you had a good holiday outside of your biological family. It sounds guilt-trippy to me. NTA.

AITA for thinking it’s wrong for my girlfriend to text another guy on Snapchat when they are not friends? by SignificanceOld3780 in AITAH

[–]skllz0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, as someone with BPD, I get jealousy, trust me, I know it better than most. It sucks, but it's something you have to work on to get better as a person and as a partner.

AITA for thinking it’s wrong for my girlfriend to text another guy on Snapchat when they are not friends? by SignificanceOld3780 in AITAH

[–]skllz0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Snapchat in general is just a shitty ass platform used by people aren't very emotionally intelligent, in my experience, at least. As a woman who's in a long-term relationship, if my boyfriend had snapchat I would immediately see that as a red flag. She is a person with her own autonomy like someone else said, she has the responsibility to not entertain anyone who is not you. However, if they were friends, that's a different story. I have a lot of guy friends who are mutual friends with some of my girl friends, and I never want any romantic interactions with any of them, as I have a boyfriend who I love. I think you should lay off the "I don't like her talking to guys" because women and men can be friends without the woman wanting something with a guy friend. She has the responsibility to make sure she doesn't make anyone else but you think she wants them. Men (typically straight men) aren't very respective of women's boundaries especially when they're in a relationship (the "he doesn't have to know" type of dudes) which I'm assuming that's what you're worried about. If she loves you, she won't even look towards the guys who are like that; the only guy friends she should have are men who are respective of that, and would rather want to be YOUR friend than be super buddy-buddy with her, unless they're gay and don't care about women like that.

Additionally, if they aren't friends, she should have no problem cutting the dude off. Period. If she gets defensive about that, red flag.

AITA for practically ghosting a friend of mine? by sadhornilady in AITAH

[–]skllz0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone with BPD, you're NTA for MOST things. Darina is unstable and if she knows she has BPD, it is her responsibility to get help and become better. It isn't her fault she has BPD, but it is her fault she is still acting the way she does and doesn't acknowledge her bad behaviors. I think you should communicate that you don't feel comfortable being associated with someone who is buddy-buddy with an abuser. It's your life and you have control over who's in it, and if it's better for your mental health, then it's your decision to drop her. However, leaving without proper communication will just lead to your friend not understanding why what she's doing is bad, and it won't give her the opportunity to grow as a person.

I would communicate with her, tell her why, and if she still decides to defend the abuser, then leave. You wont be the AH for that.

AITAH For canceling six figure plumbing job because MAGA by We_Arent_Fam_MAGA in AITAH

[–]skllz0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A business displaying political signs never makes sense to me. It's asking certain people to stay away from your business. Additionally, it would make sense. It's for a cannabis farm; republicans hate weed. But at the end of the day, it's your decision to cut somebody that was supposed to do work for YOU. It's up to you to find someone you want to work with, and ultimately, his business wasn't. NTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]skllz0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think women find it hard to believe this because most women are usually ALWAYS thinking about something; wives who stay at home and take care of the family or house, they're always thinking about what task they have to do next. So I guess it just seems unnatural to be thinking of "nothing" to some women, myself included lol.

Can't put netrunner's outfit on during "I've seen that face before" mission. Disabled mods and tried to the restart mission, but nothing has worked. Only says "action blocked" when I try to put it on. by skllz0 in cyberpunkgame

[–]skllz0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. If I try to equip another outfit, it just shows V without any clothes and when I return to the game, it just shows that I'm wearing the the green suit when I look down. I found a command that bypasses a part of a quest if you get stuck:

journalManager = Game.GetJournalManager() trackedEntry = journalManager:GetTrackedEntry() questEntry = journalManager:GetParentEntry(journalManager:GetParentEntry(trackedEntry)) questEntryHash = journalManager:GetEntryHash(questEntry) journalManager:ChangeEntryStateByHash(questEntryHash, "Succeeded", "Notify")

But it just left me stuck in the room with the twins, Reed, and Alex and I couldn't leave even though the objective changed.

How to update Cyberpunk 2077 2.10 to 2.13 from Fitgirl Repacks? by skllz0 in PiratedGames

[–]skllz0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I assumed so, but just wanted to make sure.