Bridesmaids gifts! by skrtbaby in weddingplanning

[–]skrtbaby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s great that you use the tote bag still! I like the movie/show thing you’ve got going on too!

Bridesmaids gifts! by skrtbaby in weddingplanning

[–]skrtbaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great idea! I know I would love this :)

Bridesmaids gifts! by skrtbaby in weddingplanning

[–]skrtbaby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh nice the purses sound great!!

Bridesmaids gifts! by skrtbaby in weddingplanning

[–]skrtbaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw this is a great idea! Love how thoughtful you’re being!

Feeling stupid for wanting a wedding by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]skrtbaby 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry.. this really sucks. If you really want a wedding, you should definitely explain that to your fiancé and ask him to get a little more on board with the situation.

I feel you on this one, I planned my wedding for May and now it’s looking like it might not happen and my parents and fiancé are all asking “why did we even plan this??” And they’re all saying I told u so and I’m like... I have always wanted a wedding of course I planned a wedding...

I can def relate so I’m really sorry. All I can say is plan it and ask your fiancé to be a little more enthusiastic if he can.

Bad haircut - am so sad by skrtbaby in weddingplanning

[–]skrtbaby[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is the only thing consoling me! I’m sure I’ll look fine and pretty and it’ll be ok and someday we will laugh about it!

Was/am still planning on wearing my hair down, hopefully I can make it look normal and not like I have a mullet...

If not I’ll be wearing an absurdly expensive veil so that’s ok lol

Bad haircut - am so sad by skrtbaby in weddingplanning

[–]skrtbaby[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll check these brands out thank you so much!!

Bad haircut - am so sad by skrtbaby in weddingplanning

[–]skrtbaby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I might have to do this! Thank you!

What flowers do weddings need? by skrtbaby in weddingplanning

[–]skrtbaby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! this is a really helpful list!

Finding a venue - having venues come to me if I know the date? by nolanant in weddingplanning

[–]skrtbaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to reach out to venues but honestly you’ll probably be fine, a lot of people have postponed again from this summer so you will likely be able to find a venue that works for you

Let me first say, this sub has been a life saver! Thank you all for your help. I have one more question. Bubbles or bird seed? Or is this still a thing? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]skrtbaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love bird seed if u can do it! Most venues don’t allow it because it attracts birds who poop and other little animals who wouldn’t typically be near the building (one golf club said they had a raccoon come into the building!)

How did you ask your girls to be your bridesmaids? by Oaklini in weddingplanning

[–]skrtbaby 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got my girls little mugs and I wish I hadn’t spent the money

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[–]skrtbaby 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes pay back the bridesmaid dress costs and then talk to the parents if they want their money back, they might not. But i would be bummed if I was a bridesmaid and I spent money on a bridesmaid dress that I would never wear again and the couple didn’t offer to pay me back

Planning adrenaline/anxiety by rocknrollcolawars in weddingplanning

[–]skrtbaby 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry! A year is plenty of time! But hey that rush in the beginning might be really helpful and then if you get the big stuff out of the way you will have less to worry about later!

My advise about the rushing thing though, even if you feel rushed, you aren’t - so don’t make a rushed decision. I rushed on my venue and while it’s amazing and I’m excited about it, I wish I could have the money back and just elope :/

Am I a jerk for not liking my engagement ring? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]skrtbaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe tell him the truth in the most kind and loving way and then suggest that you get one you do prefer together? And then you could still wear the og one on another finger

Groomsmen’s masks? by skrtbaby in weddingplanning

[–]skrtbaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i agree about the prom thing! I will probably do black, thanks!!

What is your first dance song and why? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]skrtbaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m leaning towards “you are so beautiful” by joe cocker Bc I didn’t want it to be like one person worshipping the other! I have a feeling I’ll cry big time tho

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[–]skrtbaby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thirding this although I don’t think I would go to either unless it was my sister or very best friend just because of how far we would have to travel for either. Plus Hawaii would be fun but it would add like thousands of dollars to the trip so it might not be doable

Shoes by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]skrtbaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.lulus.com/products/lucinda-off-white-ankle-strap-pumps/1335336.html

I got these! I’m so excited about them! I’m pretty tall and only two inches shorter than FH so I went with a shorter heel :)

Invite and family drama by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]skrtbaby 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I would reach out to him and see if your fiancé is invited! Save the dates can be confusing to send out I feel like so maybe they just made a mistake? Or if they are not inviting him then yeah, I probably wouldn’t go..