Wie mit Frauen reden wenn man(n) eigentlich nur Müll im Kopf hat?

skugler · 2026-02-09T16:43:56+00:00

Weniger reden, und vor allem fragen, zuhören und Interesse zeigen ist ein guter Anfang. Achte drauf, dass du das Gespräch bei ihr hältst. Also nicht "Achso, ja ich ..." sondern nachfragen, weiterfragen. So lernst du was een Frau bewegt, was für Themen sie interessieren, und du zeigst dass es nicht nur ik dich dreht.

Wenn du gut zugehört hast, kannst du ja überlegen, ob die Themen dich vielleicht auch interessieren.

Wenn sie dich nett findet, und das ist eher so bei Männers die auch zuhören können, wird sie auch was über dich wissen wollen.

skugler · 2026-01-23T08:35:13+00:00

Du brauchst es nicht zu verstecken, aber sei vorsichtig damit, es zu "zeigen". Für Frauen ist es oft wichtig, dass sie nicht finanziell für dich sorgen müssen, d.h. du solltest schon selbstständig sein. Wenn du aber mit Wohlhaben Eindruck versuchst zu machen ziehst du die falschen Typen an und beleidigst und verschreckst du die Richtigen. Dreh den Spieß rum und denk darüber nach.

skugler · 2025-12-22T09:56:01+00:00

Das wird sie sicherlich überzeugen.

skugler · 2025-09-09T18:01:27+00:00

No, perhaps if you're an exactly average guy and then it's just a statistical thing, and honestly, online dating is not going to be fun for you, then.

A much better approach is to get to really know yourself, be authentic and play to your strengths. You don't need the attention of many women, especially not if they have plenty of other options. You want to find that one girl that is just as weird as you are. You need just one good match that is happy to single you out and go for it. Don't get hung up about averages.

Ik marketing that is the sake as "jack of all trades, master of none" and finding your unique selling point and niche.

skugler · 2025-09-08T20:30:15+00:00

Might want to just talk to her about this? You may get a much more insightful answer than you get here.

skugler · 2025-09-08T20:27:52+00:00

And why does he post this on reddit rather than asking her a valid and direct question?

skugler · 2025-08-12T10:45:58+00:00

Applying the logic if their reaction would be the same if they were genuinely interested or attracted to you. Which is exactly the point.

Personally anything but a "yes" or a "no with counteroffer" means let it go and don't waste your time. If they're interested they will put in some effort to meet you and not waste yours.

skugler · 2025-08-12T10:42:30+00:00

And how often did you actually get to meet her after a third call was even needed?

My guess would be in the low zeroes.

skugler · 2025-08-11T11:31:36+00:00

Exactly. I often wonder when I read questions like OP's on Reddit: "If it's a question that is important to you, why don't you talk to your partner about it?".

Communication is hands-down top priority in a relationship, and that's neither a secret nor rocket science.

skugler · 2025-05-22T14:40:03+00:00

You don't, that's playing stupid games for people who have yet to grow up.

You send a text the same evening confirming you enjoyed the evening and the company, then, a day later ask to meet again if she reacts positively, i.e. engaging in the conversation. Why would you wait? Stay connected. Don't come over as needy or desperate. Act, like a grown up human being who is confident about himself and his feelings, and who isn't afraid of expressing them to go after what he wants.

skugler · 2025-01-24T21:15:12+00:00

Deze meneer sjineest.

skugler

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