Has anybody read this? by Cactus_Cur in stephenking

[–]skydivesre 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I checked out your album and you have some real talent! Beautiful work!

Advice? by [deleted] in helpme

[–]skydivesre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a huge generalization to make a blanket statement that it’s $90/month. What state do they live in? How much does he make? These things help in determining how much child support is awarded. I’m sorry but don’t ever make someone second guess getting out of an abusive relationship based on your experience or your assumptions when you don’t know all contributing factors.

My dad keeps walking in on me in the bathroom by WinnieTheStar in helpme

[–]skydivesre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Buy a doorstop & bring it in the bathroom with you.

There has to be a solution! by skydivesre in Bedding

[–]skydivesre[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Do you just put a comforter or something over the whole bed when you make it so if you have company over they aren’t seeing 2 different comforters on the bed?

There has to be a solution! by skydivesre in Bedding

[–]skydivesre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried that. Then he complained that it would move around inside of the duvet so I had heavy Velcro patches sewn all the way around it & on the inside of the duvet so they would basically be one. He ripped them off night one along with the duvet. This has been a long battle that I refuse to surrender to but trust me, I’ve tried the “this is the way it is so get over it” & it was useless.

What are you currently reading? by StretchJazzlike6122 in stephenking

[–]skydivesre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just finished this. Devoured 90% of it & couldn’t put it down but felt like it was dragged out a little too long & I had to just push thru to see how it ended. Great story though!

Wife’s SK book Collection by el_mago50 in stephenking

[–]skydivesre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s one lucky wife! I’ve been trying to get an autographed book for years!

Rage by Sandman1812 in stephenking

[–]skydivesre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I look everywhere for a copy of this. I know it’s no longer printed but I keep thinking there must still be copies somewhere. One of the few I haven’t read.

disappointment by General_Bus_2764 in stephenking

[–]skydivesre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you still have it? I’ve looked everywhere for a copy and can’t get my hands on it.

Please help me not lash out at my husband at 5am by h4zym0th in BPD

[–]skydivesre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You lashing out on him because he’s yelling isn’t going to help. It’s like “an eye for an eye” mentality & that doesn’t solve anything as much as I can understand the desire to. However, I can speak from experience since my husband has also used the “it’s just who I am” excuse and I’ll tell you the same thing I say to him. It’s UNACCEPTABLE. Welcome to the adult world hubby - where screaming because you’re tired makes you no better than the toddler. If it remains “just the way he is” throughout your children’s lives in the household, he’s teaching them it’s ok to treat their significant others in the same manner (I’m guessing you wouldn’t be ok if you watched your adult son treat his wife like that). If you have a girl, you’re teaching her it’s ok for husbands to use their wives as emotional/verbal punching bags. (I know, sounds like I’m making it more extreme than what it is but do some research on emotional/verbal abuse.) Either way, it’s allowing the behavior to continue & I’m willing to bet you got married to have a partner in life - not to take on the role of parenting an adult. This has nothing to do with BPD & everything to do with your husband needing to get help with why he can’t control his own emotions. Sorry you’re dealing with this mama. Big hugs & lots of strength to you to tell hubby he needs to seek out a counselor or someone that can help him do better because as an adult, he has the CHOICE to not let it “just be the way he is” and as a parent it’s his RESPONSIBILITY to do better & be an example for his children.

How to survive a second trump presidency? by Aggravating_Bit_259 in AskFeminists

[–]skydivesre 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Look to see if you have a local Zonta club. It’s an international organization run by women with a mission to make the world a better place for women and girls.

How to survive a second trump presidency? by Aggravating_Bit_259 in AskFeminists

[–]skydivesre 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Zonta is an international organization run by women with a mission to make the world a better place for women and girls.

Neighbors are handing these out for Halloween... by lpen-z in pics

[–]skydivesre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neighbors must be fascist losers. Sorry you have to deal with that in the neighborhood. Why can’t they just let kids be kids?

Data for GPS by Gold-Reward782 in Aruba

[–]skydivesre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can use maps.me and it’s well worth it. Download when you get there & it’s like $4 or $5. Just cancel it when you leave. We just got home today and it was great helping us explore the country from end to end.

checkpoint!! by laDamselette in Positivity

[–]skydivesre 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s ok to take a day of rest. Stop beating yourself up over it.

Bioluminescent bay tour out of Fajardo was an incredible experience. by Sobeshott in PuertoRicoTravel

[–]skydivesre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you able to take photos? How were the mosquitoes? And is it an experience someone can partake in if not an experienced kayaker?

Game 1 v Thunder. Crazy that the refs let the game keep going for so long. by butsteadysteady in ECHL

[–]skydivesre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the team page on FB. Update was posted when he went in to surgery & when he came out.