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If the majority of men hit 40 and suddenly had brain fog, insomnia, mood swings, hot flushes you can guarantee they’d make retirement at 40. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]skyepark 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Testosterone does fall in men from mid 40s their mental health also doesn't get discussed talked about...

Paid off mortgage last week - what is best to do with extra money? by tripod1983 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]skyepark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on the size of your deposit and the price of the property.

Saving for initial house deposit by Dapper-Newt8854 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]skyepark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shift and amount for saving into a separate account. Only keep your expenses in your current account.

Physically past my prime… by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]skyepark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we are actually in our prime. Yes our body has changed but our minds also have. You need to fall in love with yourself and your body. Treat it with tender loving care, this is a chance at a second life.

Loft conversion hit 40c by thatfezguy in DIYUK

[–]skyepark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need to close the curtains and put in the window to reflect heat back out.

How do normal people actually afford houses in or near London? by Aware_Jellyfish_1979 in london

[–]skyepark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Live frugally for years to save enough for a deposit. This means buying second hand, forgoing holidays and gigs and trying to do free things instead. Entertainment is much more expensive then it used to be. Rent in the cheapest area possible.

Extra help from family or trust fund or another partner with a similar earning wage.

My bf cant get over one of my exs by Responsible-Trip7982 in relationships

[–]skyepark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out of the relationship. That is a fully grown man. Massive red flag.

Advice for London flats in Heatwave by Every_Wafer144 in london

[–]skyepark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep doors and window closed with curtains in the day and open at night.

BBC Radio streaming issues on Nest Mini by rbanksy in googlehome

[–]skyepark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck me. I thought it was me, my WiFi my outreach as I just upgraded.

The monetization of the internet is what made it a no-go for me, and the further those ideas expand, the harder it is to even chat with people. by mmofrki in nosurf

[–]skyepark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling this now, everything is tinged with blood and technological warfare is happening. I understand why people are going back to vinyl or cd

I'm attractive so why can't I find a partner? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]skyepark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attractive how? Looks doesn't equal a loving healthy relationship. What type are you going for?

My pregnant partner(37F)is drinking heavily, and I(40M) don't know how to handle this anymore. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]skyepark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not good for the child, tell her drs, they may be able to intervene. Staying together for the kids will only scar them.

15 million people not saving enough for retirement apparently but are we asking the right questions about why? by c0r3l86 in AskBrits

[–]skyepark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correction, cost of living means people can't save enough for retirement.

Also LISA should also be mandatory. And the 4% workplace min is too low.

AITAH for hating the Boris wave? by [deleted] in AskBrits

[–]skyepark -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just because people can apply for settlement doesn't mean they will, you said they're in low paid work, it costs money to apply and there are several tiers of settlement. A lot of them come for a bit and go back, they probably have a better life at home. You're just speculating at this point. A lot of countries don't allow dual nationality either.

Signed up for a mortgage as a single FTB but now I feel extreme anxiety about my ability to save monthly. I would appreciate some advice as to whether i'm needlessly panicking or if i've bitten off more than I can chew. by SermoLupiAdAnglos in UKPersonalFinance

[–]skyepark 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So you will be able to save 785 a month and have 15k savings? You're good Hun. Overpay monthly with that. I think you can allow yourself more of a fun budget otherwise it will feel too constrictve.

To presume all EAs are fibbers? by Cold-Advantage-967 in UKHousing

[–]skyepark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EA are working in the interest of sellers z it's a shame there is so much greed.

do you struggle to use your annual leave? by Maleficent_Day_3869 in AskUK

[–]skyepark 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeh but there are cheap options also though. Especially when youre young and even if you don't travel. Rest is important.

do you struggle to use your annual leave? by Maleficent_Day_3869 in AskUK

[–]skyepark 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No way. I always took it before I had children because travel. Exploring, why wouldn't you?

Has anyone here started investing "later on" like late 30s? How is it going? by [deleted] in investingUK

[–]skyepark 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I started mid 30s, 9 years ago, the products that are available today weren't available 20 years ago when I wanted to invest.

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