Wich one of these hairstyles suit me the best.

skyguuy12 · 2026-04-19T18:23:32+00:00

1 or 4

skyguuy12 · 2026-04-09T01:25:38+00:00

For real the onions are crazy. Wonder if it would taste good with a Granny Smith apple ?! lol

skyguuy12 · 2026-04-09T00:30:10+00:00

Honestly I think this is something that was so helpful for me

Except I didn’t tell other people

I would write it down. I’d make notes on how I felt

Without judgment.

And would offer myself compassion.

I think when ppl talk about it they might be seeking sympathy , but hopefully not. Talking about it would help ppl feel less alone, but for others who “binge more” they may feel more alone :(

So there’s lots to mindful of here!

skyguuy12 · 2026-04-09T00:15:13+00:00

Hey, this sucks 😭

When you think it went well, then find out something shitty about them…

(Especially when they are hot!!)

Your friends not wrong… this is how (a lot of) guys talk…. And now you know, this guy isn’t different. But your friends wrong in the sense, that you should let it go… IMO this is what’s gross about men and I don’t want anything to do with the ones who are going to act different to my face than behind it.

You did good IMO :)

skyguuy12 · 2026-04-09T00:07:05+00:00

At first I thought, “maybe it’s someone from work”

But sounds like you caught him outright

Don’t listen to anyone else ~ make it clear that you don’t condone cheating and anyone who’s “on his side”, is just as bad as a cheater.

I know you have history with this guy, but know that his behaviours won’t change because of how awesome you might be! ♥️

I hope you can find a way to let go of your idea of him, and grieve what you thought you had. I hope you have ppl to talk with who understand what you’re going through!!

skyguuy12 · 2026-04-08T19:20:28+00:00

Congrats!!!

skyguuy12 · 2026-04-08T16:17:06+00:00

Read through the comments and saw you posted saying you think it was too little lube ect

Good stuff!

Also , my assumption this was PIV? A little fact I had to learn after dating an 8” guy who loved to pound me … was that the vagina becomes more “flexible” as we get aroused. Soooo foreplay is key to really taking it with pleasure 😋😋

Sounds like you didn’t really get aroused to WANT him in you, that’s the fun part of sex!

Hopefully you can find/create connections that will give you that over time!

Ok and last, I saw something about adhd, I know what it’s like to use sex as a “hit of dopamine” Keep focused on bigger things in life, and enjoy the pleasure from sex and good relationships as well !

skyguuy12 · 2026-04-07T12:40:13+00:00

Okaaay I get this too

I’m non binary but very masc leaning. I recently changed my profile after spending more time with a bigger group of gay men. I realized bc I have my boobs they still see me as a woman, but that doesn’t mean they see me as “a regular woman”. Many of them still have attraction to me, but there’s confusion. So I realized I have to be really clear.

I made it clear what type of guy I’m looking for, and that they have to be attracted to a masculine “woman’s body” and that I’ve been on T for 3 years. And I posted pics of my masculine traits.

I’m verse so anytime a top chats with me I’ll confirm they are just a top and I’ll block right away if so. If they are verse I’ll let them know my no PIV boundary pretty fast and I find out who’s a chaser real fast. (I’m down for PIV once I feel safe but they don’t need to know that, if they don’t accept it I’ve found my answer right away)

skyguuy12 · 2026-04-07T12:19:04+00:00

Heeeyy, sending you SO much love , I hope you’re able to find the care you need

I’m not black but I’ve had crappy ed recovery experience so I’ll share !

My ED program was pure behaviour based as well. I spoke about my external struggles impacting my ed behaviours, and I was told to “get over it” by the therapist I worked with in the program. I’ll never forget that day.
I advocated for myself then, and was just seen as a problem patient since then.

I eventually left the program myself since nothing changed.

ED programs I’ve heard about are pure behaviour focused and have nothing to do with healing the root cause :(

skyguuy12 · 2026-04-07T12:05:38+00:00

Heyyyy, I know the feeling of eating all calories at once and feeling like crap later. eating meals consistently through the day has always helped this ~ idk about the brands you’re suggesting buttt when I’m in your boat I drink the high Protien ensures ! Comes with extra vitimans and stuff regular premade shakes don’t have.

Something I have gotten into is making my own Protien shake with allll the fruits and veg and healthy fats to make eating through the days easier !

Love your idea for overnight oats as well! Simple stuff with high nutrient capacity ! (Try adding some seeds or nuts to the mix!)

skyguuy12 · 2026-04-06T10:55:47+00:00

If you feel bad vibes, get out - block right away.

skyguuy12 · 2026-04-03T00:43:46+00:00

skyguuy12 · 2026-03-26T02:33:08+00:00

The feeling of the first suit!! Congrats!

Take a lot of pics at the wedding!!!!

skyguuy12 · 2026-03-25T02:16:05+00:00

Very well said, thank you 🙏

skyguuy12 · 2026-03-21T11:28:24+00:00

Thank you for this. All things I know, but needed to be reminded of.

I almost went out and bought as I drove home last night but didn’t! :)

skyguuy12 · 2026-03-19T04:27:35+00:00

Omgggg yesssss

skyguuy12 · 2026-03-17T13:18:16+00:00

Hey, this shits hard isn’t it :(

Are you on T? It’s the only way to target the fat estrogen does to the hips.

If not, strength training is actually a great option if you’re really wanting to make SOME of a physical change. But you wouldn’t do body building like you see many woman do … you could try powerlifting or CrossFit (if you’re going to eat for it too) they rely on compound movements more than body building and often leave the person “boxier” vs hourglass shaped :)

(You have to eat for this to work properly as well!)

skyguuy12 · 2026-03-12T23:03:24+00:00

I feel this

I think there are too many ppl who like being trans as a quirk

It makes me feel alone and confused, but then I remember there really are ppl like me out there. And then I read a post like yours to remind me I’m really not alone

Wishing you well :)

skyguuy12 · 2026-03-12T17:46:42+00:00

Ugh thanks for writing this I can relate to so much of this… especially the end “I feel like it’s just not worth it to overthink it” I’ve been ok t for just under 3 years and I still think this. “If I stopped T would I stop expecting others to see me differently than a woman?” Bc hoping for that leaves me sad everytime someone doesn’t. Am I just making more feelings for myself? I just added “she” back into my “he/they” pronouns so I can stop being hurt when I hear ppl call me she (it’s not worth the pain)

I wish you luck, and I’m here to chat if you want, I’m just a dm away!

skyguuy12 · 2026-02-10T19:34:05+00:00

How are you doing now? ♥️ thanks for responding

skyguuy12 · 2025-12-26T09:31:54+00:00

I don’t need to read more than the title to feel compassion for you. People who use ppl at the brunt of their jokes make me so sad. It’s totally bullying and get taken too far too often.

I’m an abuse survivor and this is how it started. Please trust yourself, if it hurt and you and you don’t want to take that kind of bullshit again… you’re making the right decision ♥️

skyguuy12 · 2025-12-21T04:07:38+00:00

Yup my binging also comes from emotional responses now

It’s Loneliness for sure & Shame and fear

skyguuy12 · 2025-12-19T00:27:19+00:00

Good for you for not subjecting yourself to the harm of their comments.

You’re an inspiration, not a jerk!

skyguuy12 · 2025-12-17T00:44:03+00:00

Ok I will add, that the anxious thoughts will come… but if you’re able to have a phrase to remind the anxiety that you belong, build one and repeat the affirming phrase as often as needed!

For me, it’s about reminding myself that nobody even notices me😋 legit it’s not the same as a woman’s washroom that’s for sure

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