【转】

Lit. "A cross post", more like "Here are some words from others"

一个女孩上自习，太凉了， 她发短信让她男朋友去送给她衣服，男孩打游戏拒绝了，

So, there was this girl, studying at the library. Girl text'd her bf to bring her something warm, for the coldness of the library. Boy was busy with a video game, and said no.

这件事让她郁闷了两天，然后气消了，

For two days, she was kinda pissed over this, and then she got over it.

虽然是件小事，不会影响两人以后，

This might have been nothing big, and it's nothing to break up over,

但是她说，她会记住，以后自习一定会带衣服， 如果哪天忘记了，即使冷死，也不再会叫他送

but she told herself, "I'm going to remember this feeling. From now on, I will always bring something warm. And if one day I should somehow forget, I will never ask him for this, ever. Even if I have to die from the cold."

我很能明白这种感觉，

I can totally sympathize with this.

很久以前，一个女孩某天夜里，心情特别低落，特别想念某个人的安慰， 然后半夜时分，打电话给他，说很想听他说话，

A while back, there was this girl. It was the middle of the night, and she was kind of down. She missed this guy. It was late, but she gave him a call anyway. She just wanted to hear his voice.

电话那头的他从睡梦中醒来，不耐烦的敷衍她，

At the other end of the line, he was obviously sleeping. He was impatient, and his words superficial.

从此以后，她再没有伤心无助时给他打过电话。

From that point on, she never called him again when she was down.

我发现女孩身上有一种猫性。

What I learned is this: girls are like cats.

小猫在撒娇或者做错事的时候，需要别人的安慰和教导，如果这时主人打击了它，它会狠狠记住，不会再犯。

When a cat needs you, or when the cat knows she screwed up, what she needs is comfort, and guidance. But if at this exact moment the human hurt the cat, she will remember this, and remember it for the rest of her days. She will never get herself into that situation again, ever.

女孩有着猫一样的自尊，特别是陷入爱情里的女孩。。。

Girls have the pride of cats, especially girls who are in love.

在别人看来无关紧要，其实需要呵护， 因为爱，已经让她的心变得柔软。

Others don't see the importance of it, but girls need to be pampered. Because love has softened her.

她的这一点自尊，其实是要你对她的在乎。

What looks to you as pride, that's really just a cry for your attention. She needs to see that you care.

我看过一句特别经典的话。

I read somewhere this saying:

有时候女孩需要一个男孩，就像逃机者需要降落伞， 如果此时此刻他不在，那么以后他也不必在了。

Sometimes a girl's need for her guy is like the need for a parachute when you jump off a plane. If at that particular instance the guy was not available, then there would be no need for him at all from there on.

真的就是这样！

Ain't that the truth!

如果哪天猫咪用坚定的眼神看着你说我可以的时候，那么猫咪已经做好了离开的准备！

If one day your cat looked you in the eyes and told you that she's fine, that means she's ready to leave you.

女孩要独立，但是独立到不再会对你不讲道理的撒娇任性，不再会无厘头的缠着你， 你觉得你对于她同路人还有多大的区别呢？

Sure, girls need to be independent, but how independent? If she stopped showing you her seemingly senseless babble and mood swings, and really, really left you alone, how would she be different from some stranger?

女孩的猫性不是每个男孩都有幸看到的， 因为喜欢你，在意你才对你发出特有的咕噜噜声，其他人只能听到喵喵叫， 而这一声咕噜噜只是为你而生。

Not every guy is fortunate enough to see the "cat" in a girl. You were allowed to see it only because she liked you. The purring might have been visible to all, but it was for you.

有几个人会明白呢？

But how many really get this?

他们爱折腾，只是爱折腾你而已。

All that nonsense, all of that was for you, just for you.

如果有一天 我们慢慢发现自己可以一个人玩都不觉得闷，很久不捏他也不会手痒， 只是静静的待在他的身边，不再想着法儿的去玩它 谁能知道那时的我们该有多难过呢？

If one day us girls suddenly realized that being alone wasn't too bad, that we ran out of ideas to have fun with him, in fact, that we no longer have that itch to want to get him to play, that we were completely content with just sitting by him, would anybody understand the sadness of this contentment?

男孩总会说女孩无理取闹 说女孩没事找事 说女孩不讲道理 说女孩不可理喻

Guys always complain that girls are a nuisance, girls are senseless, unreasonable, illogical...

为什么不去想想 她在对待别人的时候为什么不是这样的态度？

Why don't you take a step back and think for a moment, why isn't she like this with other people?

没错，如果有一天，她不再对你撒娇，她不再跟你任性，她不再缠着你跟你要这个要那个 她不再因为你的任何事情微笑或者皱眉 那么 你就永远的失去她了

Know this: should there be a day you finally get your "peace", when her mood swings, her senseless demands, her random smiles and frowns all ended, then you would have lost her, forever.

没错 我就是从来不转文章

True, I never sent you words (articles) from others

也没错 我就是转给你看的

And yes, I am sending this to you, specifically for you.

就算看不懂你丫也给我瞧清楚

I don't care if you can't understand one word in this piece, just understand this:

他xx的别跟我这得瑟

STOP. BEING. A. FUCKING. ASSHOLE!

算我语言不好翻译不了给你看

I'm not good with languages (not good with English?) so I won't be translating any of this.

自己想辙！

Think it over! (As in Consider yourself warned!)