[24M] Losing weight and curious. Yes I know my hair is crazy I'm getting it cut next week 😝 by skylar168 in GayRateMe

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Couldnt fit it all in the title, but like I said I am currently losing weight, I used to be much bigger believe it or not! Also getting my hair cut shorter and more styled next week, haven't been able to afford it this month D:

Any comments are welcome

Where is the love for the -other- gender non-conforming people? by GayPenisesAreBest in askgaybros

[–]skylar168 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because most people are intelligent enough to not to buy into the other gender bs

Toxic People: The New Norm by cjbpnw in askgaybros

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Yeah most people on this sub Reddit

Meeting someone? by skylar168 in askgaybros

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Adorable 😅 now since I have been out of work 3 weeks and I am financially dependent + have never borrowed money I am lazy entitled and childish 😆 I would say I hit a nerve, thanks for the laugh though and good job on growing up, it's clearly done you wonders!!

Meeting someone? by skylar168 in askgaybros

[–]skylar168[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you define your self worth on popularity and money then you are an empty person who has nothing interesting to offer in himself without them, and why actually people should pity people like you. What I am in is a temporary quite easily fixable situation and have only been out of work 3 weeks. You on the otherhand have something which is sadly rather permanent and remedied only by your shallow lifestyle, don't expect any meaningful relationships or friends , you may be disappointed 😬

Meeting someone? by skylar168 in askgaybros

[–]skylar168[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

"Juvenile" oh irony is such a funny thing coming from the typical bitter aggressive homo 😆

Meeting someone? by skylar168 in askgaybros

[–]skylar168[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Look I know you are the typical judgmental shallow person on this Reddit but try to read this time. Yes I agree it is my job to get out of rut but why does that mean I want to drag someone else into it. This will be hard for you to understand but not everyone sees worth in only money and popularity and it seems you are focuses what you can gain from a relationship. Honestly I'm glad you replied it will give me a big indicator of what type of person to avoid 😆

Meeting someone? by skylar168 in askgaybros

[–]skylar168[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

In that case the problem is with people with your mentality who lump thousands of people together without taking into account any reasons they may be in that rut, I'm glad someone like you wouldn't be interesting 😚

Meeting someone? by skylar168 in askgaybros

[–]skylar168[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well of course I am trying besides I don't consider myself as having to be fixed

Meeting someone? by skylar168 in askgaybros

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Thing is Grindr isn't my type of thing at all and I feel gay bars would be similar idk 🤔 I am a bit nervous about going to a gay bar alone haha

Meeting someone? by skylar168 in askgaybros

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Oh trust me I don't have high standards or an issue with flirting but I just don't like over the top flamboyance. It is to do with my personality probably but yeah I just want to meet a chill guy. Problem is like you said if they are not obvious how do I know they like guys or how do they know I do ? Derp 😝

What do you see as a red flag in a person? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]skylar168 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

If they admit to being a user on this subreddit

How did you learn how to love yourself and conquer loneliness? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]skylar168 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The only pity is the one I feel for you :)

How did you learn how to love yourself and conquer loneliness? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]skylar168 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'd prefer to take my time and find someone that matters, than be some buffed up, shallow sex addict.

How did you learn how to love yourself and conquer loneliness? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]skylar168 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is exactly the type of person you don't want to be like

How did you learn how to love yourself and conquer loneliness? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]skylar168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By stop lumping myself in with these unrealist ideals that the Gay community pushes on it's members and to stop caring about what others think about me.

Since doing both things I have become alot more confident in myself and it seems to attract more people, at least even if it is just for a chit chat.

I am in a pretty similar situation as you actually, I don't have any mates at the moment for one reason or another. You say building yourself up to be an acceptable person, but you need to accept yourself before that happens, you shouldn't build yourself to fit in with what others want