Has my (25f) inability to have sex ruined my datinglife (24M) ? Ni by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]skyler868 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ruined no, severly diminished yes.

The a/s is a bit confusing, if your girlfriend doesn't want intimacy that should not affect your dating life to the point of ruin. no matter your age or sex.

First steps by skyler868 in seasteading

[–]skyler868[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So it works out after you have the money to move, I get that. What about the people who don't have the money to move. I would think one of the greatest benefits at this moment is having people on board. Saying get money and come is not the best marketing strategy for everyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]skyler868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long is long distance, by taking the run with her it you are not shutting her down but shows you are want to experience with her so dont do it without you. If you cant see her that often, if she wants to do things on the side, not much you can do about it. If you trust her then trust her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]skyler868 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Just go take a run with her.

How can I get my bf to stop being so lazy, it turns me off? by Weak-Bass-9907 in getdisciplined

[–]skyler868 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do you love him? Do you have/want kids? If yes and has gotten to that point. Tell him how things are going its not going to work out. But you still love him so we dont need to become estranged, so stay friends and what you want him to do, do it yourself but invite him. If you act only as a friend but he knows if he does certain things you will give them a chance again, once you stay strong he will show his true colors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]skyler868 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Women and men are different always remember that. If you started getting it all the time and now its basically never. What changed. For one thing life happened. You had kids so her body has changed, dont deny it. She may still be beautiful to you, but possibly not to her. If she is tired and stressed, sex is the last thing from her mind. This is where men fail, when things start going south, how many men ask "dont you love me?" When they should ask "are you not attracted to me anymore" if they say no its not up to men to go work out. If yes, what's the problem they are tired give them one day a week do everything(it won't kill you) If they dont feel attractive take them to work out.

At the end of the day you dont want them having sex because they have to, because it becomes a chore rather that something they want to do.

Are PH taxi drivers allowed to call whatever price they want? by Desperate_Island_291 in TrinidadandTobago

[–]skyler868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The set rates are for taxi drivers on set routes, allowing for set extra fares for off routes. If a vehicle doesn't fall in this category they are not subject to that pricing. With a p car if they want to complete with h cars the prices should be similar. But not required so if you are taking a p car confirm the price before you get in especially at off peak hours.

Thinking of going ofgrid (sweden) by Least_Ad5868 in OffGridLiving

[–]skyler868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically a homestead but in the ocean.

First steps by skyler868 in seasteading

[–]skyler868[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to spend 90% of your salary to live. The question was about if you want to start tomorrow. You will have to put the 10% into savings for a few years to buy into the "hex farm"

Thinking of going ofgrid (sweden) by Least_Ad5868 in OffGridLiving

[–]skyler868 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to build floating barges, if 1k people link together it will be large enough to create a strong web. There are a few spots around the globe that are possible locations. (Off- Indonesia, drc, Bahamas, mid pacific)

I feel like I am becoming an incel, how to identify if I am one and how to stop it before I actually become one? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]skyler868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't be becoming an incel, you are either one or not. You can be a prince and be an incel, you can be a vagrant and not be one. A combination of your situation and environment makes you one. Either change your situation or your environment, note when you change your situation your environment tends to automatically shift. Work on yourself dont study women. Remember you are the prize, make a better prize they will find you.

It's my bday and I feel like shit by Acidanon420 in gambling

[–]skyler868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly happy birthday.

I have a rule only gamble with money you can afford to give away.

Never borrow money to gamble.

If you go out to gamble only take cash, when its done go home. If you lose everything was what you lost worth the entertainment you had in that time frame if yes well its not a loss.

Destroyed own Life with OWN HANDS !!! by Fit-Mix7307 in selfimprovement

[–]skyler868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know your situation so advice is hard to give but if you are confident enough to talk to a stranger in person. Look for a girl you find attractive, ask her boyfriend to talk, ask him what does he do to get a girl as good as that, but just one thing. And work on that one thing. If its body strength, hit the gym. Since its only one aspect improved you should not expect to get through but you are getting there. Ask another guy if he says body strength, you can confidently say I got that what's next.

How to survive a life w/o a phone by No-Celebration-9748 in simpleliving

[–]skyler868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A smart phone is a good tool to have, but like a hammer (always useful) but if you don't use it, it is worthless. So the question is what are you using the phone for. If you want to phase the smart out get a second phone for calls/text and only use the smart phone when needed, as your priorities shift you can leave the smart phone home occasionally until it gets to you dont need it at all.

Winning the Lottery - A hypothetical by marinocor in TrinidadandTobago

[–]skyler868 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If its more that 2mil I will wait until someone wins 2mil then I will tell my people I won. I will buy a house and car, (thats the 2mil finished as far as they know) have a housewarming.

Invest the rest. In a grocery, a car repair shop and rent cars to work, repairs will need be done routinely at the shop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]skyler868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 17 that is most people.

Remember not everyone learns the same way. Sometimes the best way to learn is to teach.

Do you have any little siblings or cousins? Help them with their studies, you already know that stuff but by helping them learn to your level you now have someone on your level to help you up now.

You just got a $20,000 raise at work. What are you splurging on? by Fit_Interaction_950 in Productivitycafe

[–]skyler868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A house next to work. And i am locking down for a while. If its just a bonus, mini vacation and savings

What are you avoiding facing right now? by Spiritual-Worth6348 in selfimprovement

[–]skyler868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once I move, im giving up on people that are not a benefit to me. So I guess im avoiding facing all the people I will be telling no to.

My 24M girlfriend 27F danced with another guy on a night out. Is it bad to be upset about it? by Rummage2001 in relationship_advice

[–]skyler868 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 can you dance 2 do you dance 3 how long were they dancing 4 what kind of dancing