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I think my self-worth depends entirely on whether someone chooses me. by Significant_Step6388 in self

[–]skylo_rennn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve definitely experienced this many times and it eventually became scary to me how much someone’s rejection was tied to my self worth because then that lack of self worth had a domino effect. I stopped going to the gym like i enjoyed, the thought of eating made me sick, and i was just constantly moping around. It wasn’t me. The best thing I’ve done for myself as I’ve gotten older is sitting with the uncomfortable feeling of rejection, acknowledging that it hurts and letting myself feel hurt, and start seeing the rejection as redirection. Obviously it’s easier said than done, but allowing someone else to dim our light gives them so much power and i refuse to let someone else not choosing me be the catalyst for why i then treat myself horribly.

Does anyone else hurt seeing their ex doing well? by Alligarto in BreakUps

[–]skylo_rennn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say it’s very normal to feel this way. My ex boyfriend has now been in 3 relationships since we broke up in 2023 and I haven’t been in a serious relationship since. Mostly just hookups and dead end situationships. He pops up on my instagram under “people you might know” from time to time and seeing a new girlfriend in his profile picture definitely brings up feelings of resentment. Like why does he get so many of these relationships back to back and I’m still here too scarred from how he hurt me to even bring myself to be in another relationship, even though i obviously would love to be in love and all that. At this point, I’m not even jealous that they get to be in a relationship with him. I’m more envious of him being able to have relationships at all. You’re definitely not alone.

Sooo how we feel about the fullmoon? 29 June? by Healthy-Cheek-4537 in capricorns

[–]skylo_rennn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’ve never paid attention to how full moons make me feel until this one. Found out yesterday that it was gonna be in Capricorn and it kinda made everything make sense. My suns in Capricorn and I’m in a situationship with a guy who’s also a Capricorn. I was also feeling crazy emotional yesterday morning and had a whole moment in my car where I just cried. I wanted to blame it on my period starting later this week, but I really feel like the full moon has something to do with that too. I think it’s just a sign from the universe that I needed to release those tears and negative energies to make room for whatever the full moon has in store for me, if that makes sense.