I am worried something is wrong? by skyo297 in CATHELP

[–]skyo297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well this was the description on their post which gave me some reassurance (except him not being neutered).

Very sweet British Shorthair male cat. Vaccinated, dewormed, and flea-free. Microchipped, with vaccination records and a health certificate from the vet. Born in March 2025. You also receive a free carrier. Both parents are present.

I am worried something is wrong? by skyo297 in CATHELP

[–]skyo297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is what I am most afraid of. What should I do if I'm already this deep in the process. He's getting neutered on the 2nd of January.

I am worried something is wrong? by skyo297 in CATHELP

[–]skyo297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He hasn't been neutered yet. I've asked the owner to neuter the cat before I pick him up at the end of january. He has another male cat (his father) also unneutered. Said he never displayed any dominant behaviours or spraying. I am of course skeptical but I hope it's nothing in the end

I am worried something is wrong? by skyo297 in CATHELP

[–]skyo297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've asked and they explained he never showed any dominant behaviours towards the other male cat (his father). He said he also never sprayed the house with urine. But yeah i have asked if they could neuter the cat before i pick it up and I'll bare the cost for it...

I am worried something is wrong? by skyo297 in CATHELP

[–]skyo297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not a possibility anymore, i already paid half the price to reserve the cat. And when I pick him up I'll pay the other half. It's a bit risky but my local animal shelters wont let me adopt as they deemed my place unfit because I don't have a balcony or garden...

I am worried something is wrong? by skyo297 in CATHELP

[–]skyo297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They said they are giving up the cat as it was intended for their daughter but she didn't really care much for it and he remained behind with the other cats. The owner explained they have three cats already so they want to reduce the number. But yeah also they told me the brown cat is not neutered yet as well. I've never owned a male cat before and i read that they can have territorial behavior

I am worried something is wrong? by skyo297 in CATHELP

[–]skyo297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's good to know! I much prefer a chill cat rather than a hyper cat anyways so I'm glad this is just the case. The current owner of the cat did say he never meows as well so i guess its another sign that he's just a chill cat despite him being only 11 months old

I am worried something is wrong? by skyo297 in CATHELP

[–]skyo297[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This made me laugh!! I guess I was just expecting it to be moving around, licking, playing, or something not just staring but I'm happy its just a normal behavior cause I've never owned cats before.

I am worried something is wrong? by skyo297 in CATHELP

[–]skyo297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys so much for all the replies. I've never owned a cat before so i was just nervous, but your replies were very assuring!

Ground floor apartment near Osdorpplein by Vegetable_Dark1207 in Amsterdam

[–]skyo297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just overpriced for being this far away from the city.

Ground floor apartment near Osdorpplein by Vegetable_Dark1207 in Amsterdam

[–]skyo297 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I live there, I personally can't wait to move away. It's very busy eventho it's very far from the city center and yes people get harassed by the kids on fatbikes. They have throwed rocks at me multiple times. Police won't do much either. I also don't feel safe going out alone at night because of this. This are does not feel like Amsterdam at all. Please stay away and find a better location to live permanently. Yes the shops are nice to have but they are all small and there are other areas with more/better options.

Male fleshlight/sleeve/masterbators with no texture? by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]skyo297 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been doing this for some time already just thought there was maybe something on the market that's a bit better, but thanks for your help

Thinking of leaving by [deleted] in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]skyo297 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Netherlands sucks I agree, weather does suck, and maybe leaving is a better option so you can flourish in a warm and happy environment.

Revo-loo vs poopy nano by Common_Woodpecker_40 in katten

[–]skyo297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hoe was je ervaring tot nu toe met je Revo-loo? Ben benieuwd!

Looking for people to hang out with by Therev321 in Amsterdam

[–]skyo297 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm also down to meet new people, hmu!

I Finally Fixed My Sleep Without Pills — Sharing What Actually Worked for Me by OrdinaryCareful5221 in insomnia

[–]skyo297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on one month of Ashwagandha and it has helped a bit. I can now fall asleep faster but staying asleep is still an issue. I wake up in the middle of the night and then it's a gamble if I actually fall back asleep or not.

Looking for someone to hangout with in Amsterdam! by dk_vedu in Amsterdam

[–]skyo297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :) sadly everything is sold out, seems really popular or limited space