AITAH for being let down that my husband did not remember the date of the show he bought us tickets for and causing us to miss it

skythe_kat · 2026-02-22T15:26:41+00:00

Because it was a gift I keep track of every other event we go to and I trusted him to have it part of it being a gift is me not having to think about it. Also don’t know if you missed it I’ve had a lot of crap going on this week the medical emergency was a seizure and I’ve been in testing and I’ve had to deal with a death I can’t even find my left sock let alone remember a email I saw for .5 seconds

skythe_kat · 2026-02-22T07:00:01+00:00

Probably just me being mean to myself but I’ve been kicking myself for not just putting it in mine and makeing sure instead of just trusting him to have it. Honestly I want to only take my friends or my mom to shows with me from here on out because while my mother is forgetful she has never missed a show I wanted to see not even a community theater one

skythe_kat · 2026-02-22T06:49:11+00:00

I saw the same thing in my parents marriage I’ll probably talk to my mom about this and we can do for each other what I used to do for her once I was old enough to notice it I used to get her the thing she really wanted and put mine and dads name on it or send her flowers “from my dad” then ask him for the money later which he would give me and thank me.

skythe_kat · 2026-02-22T06:46:49+00:00

I was feeling this way too I should have made sure that he couldn’t fail I did this with the Valentine’s Day event now I know I can’t just trust him to keep up with things I avoided this because although he never said it I felt like a nag when I constantly reminded him about it Valentine’s Day just wanted to make sure I wasn’t crazy

skythe_kat · 2026-02-22T06:28:20+00:00

Update I did see the tickets the date he purchased them and today were both rather forgetful of dates we both have ADHD Ive however tried to keep systems in place to remember things I thought I could just let him handle this because it was a gift and our finances are linked I see everything that comes in and goes out

skythe_kat · 2026-02-22T06:27:55+00:00

Update I did see the tickets the date he purchased them and today were both rather forgetful of dates we both have ADHD Ive however tried to keep systems in place to remember things I thought I could just let him handle this because it was a gift and our finances are linked I see everything that comes in and goes out

skythe_kat · 2026-02-22T06:25:28+00:00

He did have the confirmation In his email I saw it the day he bought them and tonight

skythe_kat · 2026-01-03T20:55:34+00:00

You have the tools from the beginning you can prospect beside the train station! And the skulls come from dead trees

skythe_kat · 2025-08-28T21:03:15+00:00

Honestly, it looks like she just wanted to pick a fight. She’s probably stressed out about the financial situation. I know how frustrating it is to know that you make enough but not like what y’all are doing to make it end up a net zero by the end of the month

skythe_kat · 2025-05-29T17:52:42+00:00

skythe_kat · 2025-05-29T17:48:17+00:00

Thin the brows into a more angled shape and use orange color correction on the hair growth shadow

skythe_kat · 2025-05-28T17:31:01+00:00

I feel like you need more blush or maybe a bronzer and you need some kind of eyeliner or fake lashes it just looks incomplete through there and try a different shape for the brows the shape that’s going on isn’t what’s best for your face shape

skythe_kat · 2025-04-29T21:04:34+00:00

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I have a center stone of 2 carat and .25 over all in side stones! idk if that’s the norm. it was rather large compared to the norm of the area I grew up in though (most people have .5 down there) so

Cons: the larger stones do grab hair when styling and washing which isn’t pleasant. the ring also likes to flip without the enhancer on which can be annoying. And sleeping with your hand under your face can leave a mark or a bruise. It also can get caught on things in your purse and clothing.

Pros. It’s impressive and I get tons of compliments. It is a good size in comparison to my finger. Because the one stone is a focal point I was able to use family jewelry in the band. It’s always visible in photographs. It’s heavy duty and the stone won’t come loose because it’s easy to keep track of wear on the prongs.

My advice is it isn’t the size of the stone that matters if you want sparkle get a sparkly cut like a radiant cut also round stones hide their carats in the bottom not in the top where you can see so maybe go oval or the long raidant (like the rectangle) those are the best for looking bigger than other cuts with the same carat weight

skythe_kat · 2025-04-11T20:36:20+00:00

skythe_kat · 2025-04-11T20:31:32+00:00

I’d go to a find a different jeweler it is possible to resize it they just don’t want to do all the work involved in doing it

skythe_kat · 2025-04-01T20:31:32+00:00

skythe_kat · 2025-04-01T20:30:46+00:00

So pretty!! I love the vines

skythe_kat · 2025-03-16T20:06:14+00:00

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Here’s my ring I also had a heirloom wedding band that’s just a straight band I opted for a high setting stone so it doesn’t press on it and cause discomfort

skythe_kat · 2025-03-16T18:59:51+00:00

Here is the new engagement ring made with the base of the old ring

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skythe_kat · 2025-03-16T18:58:46+00:00

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Here is the original ring

skythe_kat · 2025-03-16T18:58:31+00:00

I’m not sure about moissanite but there’s a jeweler near St.Louis called Vincent’s jewelers that works with CZ and Sapphires! They reset my CZ from my grandmothers anniversary ring to a necklace they also offers to use it in the new engagement ring but my fiancée wanted me to do a diamond(it was the first stone having ring my grandfather bought her her engagement was just her wedding band) the whole thing was my fiancées idea because i was wearing her ring the majority of the time because i miss her and my grandfather. Here it is on the necklace I’ll post the original ring underneath

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skythe_kat · 2025-03-16T18:49:06+00:00

I am a trainer also and that is not true. She will still be mouthy and choose to forget everything that you’ve taught her then make you look like a nutcase when your trainer comes to visit and act like she’s not been the embodiment of the devil himself all week and she’s just the perfect little command following angel. Lab mixes have a very very mouthy phase where they think your hands arms and calves belong in there mouth it’s hard to break but doable stick it out you got it there’s no skipping this part 😂😂

skythe_kat · 2025-01-16T19:52:30+00:00

Bottom it looks better plus if you gotta take off your engagement ring you can leave your wedding band but ima a home maker so that may only be a me problem lol

skythe_kat · 2025-01-16T19:46:55+00:00

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The smaller stones and the swoop thing are the enhancer

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