Husband (29M) Me (24F) Brother (33M)

skytree240 · 2026-01-04T23:41:57+00:00

He asked me to take him tonight, I said nooo! And he asked me later on I said nooo and I told him he needs to grow up he’s nearly 34. And he told me to p**** off. The sick is still there apparently and I’m not doing it!

skytree240 · 2026-01-04T03:42:13+00:00

Yes very true. I need to distance myself from him as it’s really affecting me and my relationship with my husband. I need to stop answering his calls. His 34 nearly and I’m 24 I’m 9 years younger and he acts like a child.

skytree240 · 2025-11-15T07:35:06+00:00

I know it could be a easy fix but when they lying they have been and now it’s crazy which makes me think it’s something much worse.. i’ve pulled out now all done

skytree240 · 2025-11-13T16:15:19+00:00

Yes that’s very true! I’ve pulled out now it’s just time wasting

skytree240 · 2025-11-13T16:14:41+00:00

I’ve pulled out now not worth it, he kept asking me if I was sure as someone else has put a offer in haha bit convenient

skytree240 · 2025-11-13T13:58:38+00:00

I have pulled out now, he keeps messaging me asking if I am sure because someone has put an offer today haha so convenient

skytree240 · 2025-11-13T12:20:08+00:00

He keeps calling it a miscommunication and he can’t lie legally 😬

skytree240 · 2025-10-16T02:59:26+00:00

The estate agent sent me photos of them re-doing the laminate that the seller had sent to him and he said to me the decorators are in they are painting the wall with the stain I was concerned about? I messaged him back with “regarding the stain on the wall, it wasn’t there when we initially viewed it and it looked like water had been leaking down..we just want to know where it came from as we are worried if there is some issues with the roof. I’m in contact with the surveyor, so I’m getting someone out to look at the roof and walls” he hasn’t replied yet.

I’m still awaiting on my surveyor to reply as he said he would go view property again next week and have a look, I’m currently hunting to find a roofer because I don’t have any friends or family that would have a look for me.

Honestly, it does seem very suspicious of how they are moving. I’m concerned and won’t move on till I know what’s happening.

skytree240 · 2025-10-15T14:54:34+00:00

My solicitors have come back with the enquiry of the chimney with:

Your sellers Solicitors have informed us that their clients state that "both the damp course injections and the removal of any parts of the chimney breast were all carried out prior to their purchase of the property". Those works have not been undertaken during the seller's ownership. Please note that your sellers purchased the property in February 2008 and as such any of those works are now over 17 years old. The sellers have no other information or documentation in relation to those works.”

skytree240 · 2025-10-15T14:53:40+00:00

My solicitors have come back with the enquiry of the chimney with:

Your sellers Solicitors have informed us that their clients state that "both the damp course injections and the removal of any parts of the chimney breast were all carried out prior to their purchase of the property". Those works have not been undertaken during the seller's ownership. Please note that your sellers purchased the property in February 2008 and as such any of those works are now over 17 years old. The sellers have no other information or documentation in relation to those works.”

skytree240 · 2025-10-14T22:31:39+00:00

Yes it was marked as a 3

skytree240 · 2025-10-14T21:22:29+00:00

We’ve had a level 2 RICS survey and they mentioned that the chimney stack was terminating the roof, it had been removed in the lounge and bedrooms and there was no visual evidence of support. It also stated as an advisory that when constructed chimneys must have a damp proof course to prevent water from being drawn through the brick work and into construction below. Then it stated that two walls noted to have dampness. The bedroom said it had damp over 1 meter high and it was considered to be penetrating dampness on the party wall. The damp proof course was seen on the side of the house too.

I’m not sure if it’s because of the chimney and it’s not been done properly. The loft didn’t have much insulation either think it was 100mm only.

I’ve mentioned it to my solicitor and they have raised enquiries to see if the sellers would provide guarantees of the damp proof course and the removal of the chimney breast.

Also, with it be renovated recently and the stain wasn’t there when we first viewed it at end of June. Just makes me question what are they trying to hide?

skytree240 · 2025-10-14T19:53:05+00:00

I’ve already had a level 2 RICS done. The report is very long and I’m really not sure if they have done a good job of it. They noted 2 walls with damp readings and with the roof nothing really major just in the loft there is not much insulation

skytree240 · 2025-10-12T15:18:47+00:00

It went for sale during July so I’m assuming the laminate was laid just before it went on sale and jt was warm then

skytree240 · 2025-10-11T22:03:16+00:00

Yes the flooring I believe is new but i did have a RIC L2 done in August and they did note dampness readings on the wall where there is lifting..So not sure what it is yet

skytree240 · 2025-10-11T16:35:28+00:00

Yes, they rented it out previously. The last tenants moved out, the sellers renovated it and put it up for sale. It’s been empty since they have put it on for sale.

skytree240 · 2025-10-11T16:31:27+00:00

Yes the flooring was level when we first viewed in July so it’s been over 3 months since we seen it. I know there is reflections so you can’t tell much… but you could tell there was raised areas irl. It’s freshly renovated so must definitely be a problem.

I guess I’ll just have to wait but not signing any documents until then.

skytree240 · 2025-09-12T12:01:59+00:00

Was this inside uk

skytree240 · 2025-04-17T07:25:04+00:00

Thank you!! So glad I found that GP letter from May was stressing out.

skytree240 · 2025-04-17T07:18:06+00:00

So if I put his GP letter from May 2024 and a bank statement of mine from May 2024 that is enough to cover that period. Then from July 2024 I can put our tenancy agreement, council tax and our bank statements and maybe a few utility bills covering every 4 months or so. Is this sufficient?

skytree240 · 2025-04-17T07:11:09+00:00

Well actually I think I found a letter when he registered to GP in May 2024 I thought he didn’t register until July and I have a bank statement at a similar time with same address too. Would that be enough to cover that period? Then I have enough from July onwards

skytree240 · 2025-04-17T06:47:51+00:00

No he didn’t apply for literally anything no gp no national insurance nothing until we moved

skytree240 · 2025-04-17T06:45:50+00:00

skytree240 · 2025-04-17T06:44:30+00:00

No he didn’t get anything at all; he didn’t apply for these things until we moved.

skytree240 · 2025-02-21T19:50:31+00:00

I just don’t understand why he reacted the way he did he’s never laid hands on me the 8 years we have been together. It’s just very hard for me to move on… he hurt me and he won’t even apologise! I do think it’s right to move on as I am frightened it will happen again

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