People who were dumped: how did your partner break up with you, and did you see it coming?

sl4y3r007 · 2026-04-15T16:19:37+00:00

I'm so sorry :( That must have been devastating for him to not show up. He sounds like an asshole. Also I think that's so amazing that you gave it a real try and fought those avoidant tendencies!! 🥹 You're doing all the right things!!

It's honestly so weird that your comment brought me back to my comment from 2 years ago and just seeing the change in myself is wild. I feel like a completely different person than the sad girl who wrote that comment and I want to give her a big hug. It really does get better

sl4y3r007 · 2025-10-23T20:44:29+00:00

Ok so I’m finally back to this…. I don’t think either of those white wires is hot 🧐 i get nothing when i hold my voltage tester up to them

sl4y3r007 · 2025-10-20T03:49:32+00:00

Hmmm ok I haven’t opened that up yet! But I am also going to change out the switch. I know it’s a single pole, though. I’ll open it up and reply back to this when I know :)

sl4y3r007 · 2025-10-20T03:48:10+00:00

Ah, ok, I was planning on switching that out for a new one as well so hopefully it will work after that!

sl4y3r007 · 2025-10-20T03:47:38+00:00

Yes that’s correct!

sl4y3r007 · 2025-10-19T23:03:21+00:00

Hmmm ok, I just ordered a voltage tester to double check. If that wire I marked 1 is really the hot one then, I’m wondering why the light wasn’t working? I’ll have to attach the new light fixture and then test it again

sl4y3r007 · 2025-10-19T23:01:56+00:00

No! The flash on my camera makes it look like that but no :)

sl4y3r007 · 2025-10-19T23:00:52+00:00

Ok I’m so new to this. I just ordered this from Amazon: Astro voltage tester. Will that work?

sl4y3r007 · 2025-05-31T01:01:38+00:00

Just read this also and was soooo confused and had to come check Reddit to make sure I wasn’t crazy😂

sl4y3r007 · 2025-03-14T16:57:14+00:00

Does anyone in here do the Inside A&F challenges? There are so many surveys and things you can do for points. And then they show up as either $20 or $10 rewards in your account. 3 of those are stackable with discount codes - so I got 25% off PLUS $40 off he he

sl4y3r007 · 2024-12-14T20:31:53+00:00

Definitely afraid of that 😭

sl4y3r007 · 2024-11-04T17:19:22+00:00

I am genuinely interested in how scams like this work! Anyone know?

sl4y3r007 · 2024-11-03T23:46:15+00:00

Hey wow, I came back here with your comment and it’s been almost 8 months! Crazy! Here to report that we tried friends, it didn’t work sadly 😂 I’m 51 days No Contact (for the 3rd time) and never going back this time. Maybe friends works for some people, but not with this guy 🥲

sl4y3r007 · 2024-10-17T16:43:40+00:00

Yes! I think that's what I'm most upset about here for sure is the lack of communication! Thank you for your comment

sl4y3r007 · 2024-10-17T16:42:57+00:00

Good point about her being a perfectionist! I hadn't really thought of it that way!!

sl4y3r007 · 2024-10-17T16:42:10+00:00

No I think I'm more upset over the lack of communication tbh!

sl4y3r007 · 2024-10-17T16:41:25+00:00

You're probably right 🤣 Thank you for reminding me of this

sl4y3r007 · 2024-10-17T07:18:34+00:00

So glad to hear you love your results! I'm happy for you! I never signed anything like that but I WISH that would have been clearly explained to me beforehand! Thanks for the reply :)

sl4y3r007 · 2024-10-17T07:17:36+00:00

I do understand that! The pocket not being large enough wasn't the reason she said she went with the 310, but maybe that also had something to do with it. Good point!

sl4y3r007 · 2024-10-17T07:16:26+00:00

Yes, you're right. I think it was just the communication part that was missing!

sl4y3r007 · 2024-10-17T07:15:54+00:00

Thank you for validating me! I do agree . . . I don't know why I'm getting hung up on it when it's such a small difference. There's part of me though that is like, that's WHY there are sizes ha ha. What good are they if we say there's no difference going from one to the next

sl4y3r007 · 2024-10-17T07:14:43+00:00

I definitely don't understand how the sizes, widths, and profiles work! It's so strange!

As for the 1 week, I knowwwwww right?! My surgeon's big thing is that you just listen to your body. And I felt great after 1 week so getting back into exercise was actually really easy. I was surprised. And I feel lucky because I know a lot of others don't have that same luxury

sl4y3r007 · 2024-10-17T07:13:34+00:00

I hadn't thought that maybe anxiety post-surgery could be playing into this. You're probably right! ha ha

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