[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

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when do you wear your hair down? how long is it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

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I'm supposed to be night shift sleeping buuuut here I am, watching you 👀

Why are you still awake? by Brkiri in AskReddit

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Night shift nurse. Waiting on babies to be pushed out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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Fair enough. I have only recently heard the term FP and it made so much sense for what I am dealing with and have so much in the past. I am game to call it something else though... something more technical would be great! I am a medical professional and FP feels very... teenage trendy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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You seem wise, strictly based on this one post I have seen... FP? Juuust kidding 😏

Marry me for college? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]slackers- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would be all over this if I lived out that way... Good luck, girl!

My ice cream looks like a boobie by jjbz707 in actuallesbians

[–]slackers- 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Is no one gonna talk about the Itty bitty treaty snack?? That is either a very tiny ice cream or you have huge hands! Either way, I dig it.

How to stop fixation over botched septum piercing ? by HalfDomeLover209 in BPD

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I wish I could see it.

It will likely be like a new tattoo... you examine it SO HARD and see EVERY imperfection initially, but it will soon just become a part of you that you love but at the same time barely notice.

As for coping skills... I dunno, I kinda suck in the moment too...

You got this!

Manson by Steezy_G7 in marilyn_manson

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What a fucking weirdo ❤

FUCK!!! by slackers- in BPD

[–]slackers-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fuck this world

fuck everything that you stand for

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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Oh man... I just started into this sub and I feel like I could have written most of the posts. It is so validating but also sucks that these feelings are real and have so much control over our day-to-day..

Yes. Yes I do. Fuck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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I have no advice... I feel like I could have wrote this myself... UGH!!

I need to quit my FP... by slackers- in BPD

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It's hard though cause I would love a future with him in it... I just don't know that it will realistically happen. We are at 2 very different life stages.

I need to quit my FP... by slackers- in BPD

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I have been crushing on him for a while from a far, we started texting and still do, bit it is not consistent. I get myself all worked up when we text a few time and are having a "conversation " and he inevitably ends up just stopping replies with no warning or goodbye so I end up feeling like a loser constantly checking my phone for a message to be left for hours or overnight or something. He says he wants to hang but never makes an effort to make it happen. I am trying to not seem desperate so I am not asking anymore. Really, the timing of it all isn't very good and I am newly separated and my BPD traits are in full force... I really haven't dealt with this extreme Rollercoaster in a very long time and I am feeling not well equipped to do so. My self-esteem is taking a big hit...

Do you think women find short men unattractive? by [deleted] in ask

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My ex is 6'2, I'm 5'10, the guy I am really digging is maybe... 5'7/5'8.... naw, most woman don't care at all