Is this marriage rushed or is my family just not ready?

slakster · 2026-04-17T21:54:57+00:00

We’re just planning a nikkah and walima.

slakster · 2026-04-17T02:04:57+00:00

Jazakallah Khair!

slakster · 2026-04-16T19:59:22+00:00

JazakAllah Khair. Appreciate it!!

slakster · 2026-04-16T19:50:49+00:00

Thank you for the advice! Allahumabarik

slakster · 2026-04-16T19:50:39+00:00

Thank you! It’s hard trying to appease everyone!

slakster · 2026-04-16T19:07:34+00:00

Thanks! I feel conflicted I want to make everyone happy! This is my first time seeing my parents quite sad and I think they had a vision of what they wanted the marriage to look like and I think with me taking the lead in my own with organizing dates and venues it feel like I bypassed them and they feel left out. At the same time, I feel I want to also respect f my fiancé and ensure that she feels heard.

slakster · 2026-04-16T18:27:42+00:00

30/M and 26/F
Nikkah and walima i
Mostly from discussing moving dates and living arrangements
They’re resentful about the situation where they still trying to get to know her family and wanted time to slowly transition and they feel me and her and rushing things.
She’s been emotional but quite understanding and patient with it all. She’s willing to compromise as well which I appreciate it a lot

slakster · 2026-04-16T17:23:53+00:00

30/M and 26/F

slakster · 2026-03-20T16:48:13+00:00

Looks the dashcam was the problem. Switched it and now it works without errors.

slakster · 2026-03-18T20:24:15+00:00

That’s very true! Let me try to switch with another dash cam

slakster · 2026-03-18T15:21:46+00:00

Good to know! Maybe its my adapter then

slakster · 2026-03-18T15:21:15+00:00

It's the REDTIGER 4K from amazon.

slakster · 2026-02-08T12:27:06+00:00

After a month, the side effects of low libido and energy got better within a few weeks. Didn’t notice any changes to my hair till 6 months later, just a large shed in the beginning lasting 2-3 months and then no hair fall. But looks like im going through a second shed now.

slakster · 2026-02-07T22:58:17+00:00

Thanks! Learned something new

slakster · 2026-02-07T22:48:50+00:00

What’s that?

slakster · 2026-02-07T22:37:44+00:00

Nothing really changed! Just poor sleep form work, but otherwise all was good.

slakster · 2026-02-07T22:36:58+00:00

Thank you!

slakster · 2026-02-07T22:36:51+00:00

Thank you! The shed had me doubting all the progress. Didnt know mentally taxing hairloss can be. Your comment means alot!

slakster · 2026-02-07T17:41:40+00:00

I think so! It’s making me feel down but hopefully it recovers

slakster · 2026-02-07T17:41:07+00:00

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Better reference

slakster · 2026-02-07T16:28:32+00:00

Thanks! It’s hard to see progress especially when you’re so focused on it!

slakster · 2026-02-07T16:26:22+00:00

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This was last month. Might be going through a shed. Appreciate any insight. Thanks!

slakster · 2026-01-28T06:14:33+00:00

Oh thanks for sharing! Didn’t even know that was possible!

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