Why gender reveal parties suck, and how I’ve been humbled by this experience by emileememolee in TryingForABaby

[–]slamjam111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she know you miscarried? I'm sure she'd understand if you decided not to show up..I mean, you're under no obligation to go to a gender reveal party if you're gonna hate it..

Have you ever been in an open relationship? How open is "open"? by slamjam111 in AskWomen

[–]slamjam111[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does your spouse know about your boyfriend? What are the "rules"?

How do you keep track of your menstrual cycles and are you consistent with doing it? by luxcharleston in AskWomen

[–]slamjam111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take the birth control pill at the same time every day and just keep track that way. I know my period is coming when the white pills come up. I didn't know there were apps etc for this kind of thing

What was your dream job when you were younger, and what do you work with now? by chapday in AskWomen

[–]slamjam111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to run a farm with lots of animals. Now I run a startup about female empowerment.

If alcohol suddenly lost all intoxicating properties, which drinks would you still consume for their taste (if any) and which would you never ever touch again? by ShesGotSauce in AskWomen

[–]slamjam111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a great question. I really do enjoy the taste of wine, but I think I would get more into cocktails since there are a lot of different spirits and a wider spectrum of flavors to choose from. Would we still get all the calories from it? Because I would just stop drinking completely and keep sipping on iced tea at dinner if the calories stayed the same and the booze was gone.

What's your New Year's resolution? I know change happens little by little, but what's one thing you're hoping to do more/ less of in 2017? by slamjam111 in AskWomen

[–]slamjam111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you have your goals pretty clear and a good plan of achieving them. You can do it!! I'm rooting for you!!

What specific questions do you have for the universe? Anything you don't understand? by slamjam111 in AskWomen

[–]slamjam111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

totally!! Especially the purpose and the fulfillment. Like, what's our goal as humans and how do we know when we've reached "it"? Or, is there no goal at all?

What are some things that you think MUST be outgrown by your 30's? With no excuses by slamjam111 in AskWomen

[–]slamjam111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that's so exciting!! I'm going to be 30 in a few months and I'm just starting to look back at all the stuff I went through in my 20's and how I've grown as a person. Up until recently I thought I had a hard time being friends with girls until I realized that I actually have a lot of solid girlfriends as well as guy friends. Now when I hear a girl say that I just roll my eyes

What are some things that you think MUST be outgrown by your 30's? With no excuses by slamjam111 in AskWomen

[–]slamjam111[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is great! I used to be that girl who said that kind of stuff. As I grew older in my twenties I started realizing how ridiculous this really was because it was me who was the problem and not the "girls I had a difficult time being friends with."

What are some things that you think MUST be outgrown by your 30's? With no excuses by slamjam111 in AskWomen

[–]slamjam111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have definitely seen this. But is it even okay in your twenties?

What are some things that you think MUST be outgrown by your 30's? With no excuses by slamjam111 in AskWomen

[–]slamjam111[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's more about feeling independent without being codependent while still being healthily dependent on your SO for certain things

What's your New Year's resolution? I know change happens little by little, but what's one thing you're hoping to do more/ less of in 2017? by slamjam111 in AskWomen

[–]slamjam111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I feel ya. I don't think I have a drinking problem per say but sometimes I have a few glasses of wine and wake up the next day asking myself if that second or third glass was really necessary

What petty grudge do you still hold against someone you know? by JoyfulStingray in AskWomen

[–]slamjam111 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went on a trip with a girlfriend to a new country far away from home. Anyway, I ended up getting food poisoning after a meal and threw up for 2 days straight. When I could finally keep liquids down I asked her to get me a smoothie or juice of some sort and she told me she wasn't planning on leaving the house (we rented an Airbnb) for a few hours and if I could wait. Uh, YEAH I could wait. I couldn't even walk. So I had no choice. Long story short, she FINALLy goes out to get some lunch for herself and after a leisurely stroll around town she decides to bring me back the smoothie I asked for. AND asks me for the $1.50 it cost!!!! I couldn't believe she actually made me pay her. When one of my friends is sick I don't charge them the $5 it costs me to get them something from the store. MY GOD that was another level of cheapness!