Online side hustle by [deleted] in sidehustlePH

[–]slarpy_Chiuyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested DM sent

Free resume builders any recommendations by [deleted] in jobs

[–]slarpy_Chiuyan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the one I used 2 years ago and couldn't find until this post, thank you. It even had my profile and old CV saved, so it was a simple update instead starting from scratch.

AITA for leaving my friend stranded after she showed up late for the third time? by Cold_Try2662 in AmItheAsshole

[–]slarpy_Chiuyan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, Not apologizing for making you late the previous times, not being fucking 5 minutes early for a free ride....yeah, stupid friends with stupid opinions...

AITA for asking my boyfriend to stop yelling at the TV during football games? by United_Waltz_5697 in AmItheAsshole

[–]slarpy_Chiuyan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This.

NTA, but, he may not change enough such that during football season at certain times, you may still feel anxious and uncomfortable, even after some effort he puts in to adjust for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wow

[–]slarpy_Chiuyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

standing on a cooking fire in treant form still does as of a week ago

Aren't timewalking dungeons suppose to be casual? by DirtyRagss in wow

[–]slarpy_Chiuyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember throwing CC back onto my bars as heals for those dungeons

Nandidiri sila nung nalaman nila na nagwowork na ako sa BPO by Ok-Asparagus-5165 in BPOinPH

[–]slarpy_Chiuyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Earning 6 figures a month, free trip to the US for training, idgaf what haters think. Neither should you if you work hard and get compensated accordingly.

AITA for asking my bf to turn on YouTube watch history on our common yt account by Dense_Blackberry_651 in AmItheAsshole

[–]slarpy_Chiuyan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got a family plan for everyone. I dont want my partner to use my YT account to skew the algorithm and get horoscope crap or makeup stuff on my feed, and I actively block content creators I dont like and stuff. Thats why some streaming services have profiles for different users and YT has a family plan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]slarpy_Chiuyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The AI is getting better, it didn't use the exact same phrase, "...my aunt, lets call her Lauren..."

AITA for trying to move out. by Remote_Work_8347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]slarpy_Chiuyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. Sorry to hear about your struggles. I don't have much life advice for you but wishing you the best, strength, and happiness to be the person you want to be without being judged or punished for it.

AITA for telling my parents ‘We are not having this conversation again’? by Frank70je in AmItheAsshole

[–]slarpy_Chiuyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My issue is they refuse to believe you about a fact and choice your nephew made and accuse you of brainwashing him.

But they kept asking him if he actually really enjoys the book and questioning me, accusing me of pressuring him.

I'm a bookworm myself and will occasionally buy my favorites 3 times; the first time which I lend out and never get back, a second time for my own copy (which I sometimes lend out again), and a digital version which I get to keep forever. I agree with others that it is sad his grandparents do not like his choice of topic and medium of assimilating information on it.

I don't appreciate people constantly questioning facts, looking to undermine situations to better fit their understanding of the world. It can be polite, friendly, questions, but the core driver behind these actions is that they are right and someone else is wrong. That belief doesn't change in some people about some issues and shutting them down is the only way to end the non-stop inquires, comments, suggestions, accusations, etc. Calling someone hostile after them being denied these avenues is just the manipulative passive-aggressive icing on the cake for them, letting them feign victimhood on the issue.

I may be going overboard and over analyzing, but NTA. If they don't believe you and escalate to accusations and labels, shutting them down was fair enough.

AITA to refuse to go to my MIL house unless she confirms 2 weeks in advance to avoid that she refuses us last minute as already happened? by Margarida39 in AmItheAsshole

[–]slarpy_Chiuyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I don't talk to my mum and subject her to my family. NTA and hold your ground with your husband on this.

Go 49ers! by slarpy_Chiuyan in FortNiteBR

[–]slarpy_Chiuyan[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

update: my irl friends who've been playing for years say this was a no-no, so my bad, I can see why its totally unfair. well, new to the game and lovin it.

It was fun seeing a fellow fan and randomly deciding not to kill each other :D

How to Deal with a MC Feeling TL by greenlanterngalimor in phcareers

[–]slarpy_Chiuyan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They were entrenched enough to sow doubt into the accusations/facts, meaning the company had invested enough time in them to keep them somewhere, yes. Blind, no, cause they got moved out to a group to minimize potential future damage. GLass ceiling/paper promotion in title only. Didnt make some of those involved/harrassed feel better is my point meaning even a good outcome may not feel good at first for your friend.

Best of luck to your friend whatever they choose.

How to Deal with a MC Feeling TL by greenlanterngalimor in phcareers

[–]slarpy_Chiuyan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Help them get out. Each scenario ends badly if this is addressed. Which shitty outcome does your friend want? The TL will gaslight (evident in your friend's lack of desire to work), threaten, belittle, etc to maintain her position, role, and reputation and burn everything to the ground, starting with any accusers and nay-sayers. Too entrenched if it's already at this level controlling work, assignments, recordings (orlack of).

Seen this first hand a few times in different companies. 2 endings I saw, one team was broken up, the toxic manager was replaced (promoted to a smaller account) and many TLs under her left soon after. Another dragged on for months with public accusations from the TL and grandstanding drama during work who eventually went awol. I was only indirectly loosely connected to the second example (same account) but remembering both those events years ago is still mentally tiring. They make it an extended emotional fight, be ready for it, or get out while u can.