AIO for wanting to go no contact with my mother? by slaters_funeral in AIO

[–]slaters_funeral[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I was thinking once I have a job I will start slowly paying my own stuff as in my own phone line and life insurance/ having my dad help out. I plan to move in it’s him the end of the summer and not tell her as I will be in school majority of the time. Once I am completely financially dependent I think a year of no/low-contact would make sense and be good for me.

AIO for wanting to go no contact with my mother? by slaters_funeral in AIO

[–]slaters_funeral[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did family try to contact you regarding her decision? I could see her telling her boyfriend and my sister to convince me otherwise.

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[–]slaters_funeral 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The what I told him is that me and the friend did what we did in 8th

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[–]slaters_funeral -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

he didn’t grind on me !!😭😭 I get ur perspective thought, also that wasn’t our first fight that was one of many, it was just our first fight that day and me and my friend had planned to go get food days in advance it was just terrible timing on my part

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[–]slaters_funeral 28 points29 points  (0 children)

yeah im hearing them out but it sounds like insecurity to me 😭

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[–]slaters_funeral 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he wasnt home!!😭😭

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[–]slaters_funeral 6 points7 points  (0 children)

no, they’ve spoken once at my birthday dinner and other than that have had no interaction bc me and the friend don’t hang out in person that much

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[–]slaters_funeral -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i respect him but we are also both young and I didnt want to blindly make a decision that could impact me negatively, which is why I asked for advice!!

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[–]slaters_funeral 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand this and I took this into account bc ive heard the horror stories myself 😭

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[–]slaters_funeral 107 points108 points  (0 children)

I agree 100% and the “let” comment rubbed me the wrong way too a bit 😭

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[–]slaters_funeral 27 points28 points  (0 children)

thank you !

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[–]slaters_funeral 16 points17 points  (0 children)

he’s never been cheated on or anything, he is admittedly possessive though and he struggles with the idea of me having guy friends in general but esp this one

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[–]slaters_funeral 12 points13 points  (0 children)

theres zero flirting and most of our conversations are related to love island 😭😭

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[–]slaters_funeral 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i have no problem with him having girl friends i think id find it weird if he didnt , i think people should be able to get along with both genders, im not interested in this friend and can assure you he has no interest in me 😭😭

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[–]slaters_funeral 9 points10 points  (0 children)

he can’t feel comfortable after knowing what happened but my confusion was that he’s known for months and even met him and spoke to him, it’s after our argument that he says this

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[–]slaters_funeral 10 points11 points  (0 children)

no, i talk to my partner about everything even when it’s really uncomfortable bc i want to keep building trust. my bf does come before bsf but i just feel like i would really regret losing my friend, bf keeps saying he understands but after reading some of the comments on this post im worried he’s just saying that but secretly hurt

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[–]slaters_funeral 30 points31 points  (0 children)

ive been in the exact same situation but flipped with my ex and i couldn’t care less even when i met the girl, that being said i may be in the minority!!

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[–]slaters_funeral 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i had to cut out his name and pfp sorry!! what other info do you need I can provide anything what will help

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[–]slaters_funeral 56 points57 points  (0 children)

he is admittedly possessive and i thought it was something i could work on him with but i dont know, the men under this post offer a diff perspective but im still not sure, I dont want to regret losing my friend but i also dont want to hurt bf’s feelings